What is the difference between Soulmates and Twin flames>

Soulmates:  different souls that we encounter on our path that are cut from the same “energetic cloth” as us and are sent to help awaken and challenge us so we can become the best versions of ourselves.

Twin Flames: when our own “energetic cloth” grows so big with love that our energy splits into two. This other half becomes our Twin Flame. This often occurs over many, many lifetimes. 

The higher purpose of a Soulmate relationship is the growth and evolution of ones own consciousness, whereas the higher purpose for Twin Flames is creating a higher vibration and consciousness for the entire planet through ascending together.

Essentially, Soulmate relationships help us to raise our own consciousness, whereas Twin Flame relationships have the effect of raising the consciousness for the entire planet.

More often than not, you will work with both Soulmates and Twin Flames over the course of many lifetimes.

Everyone has Soulmates but not everyone has a Twin Flame.

This does not mean that a Twin Flame is just reserved for “special people”. We are all souls sent here for a unique, special experience and that experience may include a Twin Flame, or it may not.

Soulmates

Soulmates can be relatives, friends or lovers. Often the purpose of the Soulmate relationship is to help you both grow and evolve into your fullest potential.

Soulmates can come and go from our lives as necessary, but usually their entrance into our lives can feel fated, like we have known them before and that there is a strong bond or connection.

Soulmate relationships can also be romantic, however they don’t have to be.

While we have many Soulmates, we can only have one Twin Flame and often the purpose of this relationship is not just romantic.

Even though a romantic relationship can occur between Twin Flames, the purpose is much, much greater and is beyond this earthly plane.

Twin Flames

When Twin Flames come together, it is often to achieve something on an energetic level to help expand the consciousness of the planet.

Usually when Twin Flames unite, there is a strong desire for them both to create something together that is going to help raise the consciousness of the planet.

It often takes many lifetimes for Twin Flames to achieve this, so it could be possible that you meet your Twin Flame, but are unable to complete your mission together just yet.

Once you have both learnt to master the relationship, you will both ascend together and complete your work away from the physical dimension of earth.

Unlike Soulmate relationships, Twin Flame relationships often don’t focus too much on “challenges” and instead focus more on growth.

While Soulmate relationships can be awakening and can help you to discover who you truly are, Twin Flame relationships are about coming together for the service of others

With Twin Flame relationships, the magnetic pull is always going to be there on a strong level. With Soulmates, the magnetic pull may change in strength depending on where you are both at in your evolution.

So, you should now be able to tell the difference between Soulmates and Twin Flames relationships – here are a few tips

Soulmate Relationships:

• Feel fated or “destined” in some way
• The relationship does not need to be romantic, although it can be
• There is a strong connection that may change or fluctuate in intensity
• There are often challenges presented in order to change or shift things in your life
• The relationship brings about a strong life lesson or a change in your life path
• The relationship can uncover and release past pains, hurts and traumas so healing can occur
• There can be a strong past life connection
• The relationship may not last or may feel different once the lesson has been learnt
• The relationship helps you to awaken to a higher level of consciousness or spirituality

Twin Flame Relationships:

• Feel fated or “destined” in some way
• The relationship does not need to be romantic, but there is often a connection felt on all levels
• There is a strong connection that feels constant and stable
• There are challenges but they are more about the “self” than the other
• The relationship brings about a desire to team up together in order to create
• The relationship almost forces you to respond with love as a way to survive together
• There can be a strong past life connection together and if highly advanced, it could feel as if it is both your last lifetime on earth
• Whether you are romantically involved or not, you will always feel a strong connection to this person, but you don’t need to be around each other to experience the connection
• The relationship helps to prepare your for ascension into another dimension and helps to instil a higher consciousness for the planet

Often soulmate relationships are experienced on a mind, body and soul level, whereas Twin Flame relationships are experienced on a mind, body, soul and celestial/Universal level.

There are also no real rules with this, so the ultimate way to determine the difference between Soulmates and Twin Flames is to follow your own intuition and what feels right to you.

Sometimes it can be difficult to determine the difference between Soulmates and Twin Flames, however away from labels, it doesn’t really matter what type of relationship you are in as long as it feels good to you.

Learn more about: Soulmates and Twin Flames when you speak to one of Zenorys top psychic readers.

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“When your blaming and criticizing others, you are avoiding some truth about yourself” ~ Deepak Chopra

Blaming in your relationship or in any relationships in whatever situation or relationships were in,  it is easy to  shift the blame onto someone else to pride and protect ourselves.  The truth is, the blame game usually get’s us no where and can become a very toxic cycle.

Blaming can be triggered by minor issues often leading to a bigger disaster which could be avoided.  When it comes to blame, it’s almost always easier to see the fault in others than it is to see it in ourselves.  The same goes for all sorts of relationships, friendships, family members, but most especially romantic relationships.  We’ve all fallen into the trap of the “blame game” at some point and the real problem is that it’s neither only one person’s fault.

As human beings, we all come with our flaws.  Moreover, it’s natural to try to defend yourself and these self-defense mechanisms come with double power, when we’re arguing with someone close to us. Once you’ve fallen into the blame game trap, it’s increasingly difficult to break.  Couples fight over small things all the time and external factors such as financial problems, stress at work, family issues aggravate the argument,  and turn them into a “who’s to blame” competition.

You’re late for work, you open the fridge to pour some milk into your morning coffee, but there’s none. You blame your partner because they’ve forgotten to buy milk – at this point your partner who then becomes offended by the accusation, throws the blame back at you, escalating the argument.

When your relationship becomes all about blame, it’s a game that’s already lost. When a conflict arises, it’s easier to fuel your anger with your partner’s flaws. The morning coffee with no milk turns into an argument about your partner’s laziness, carelessness or selfish behavior. This is known as case-building behavior and is amongst the most toxic issues you can bring in to your relationship.  When we’re angry, we are more likely to see our partner’s qualities through a negative filter – this means, paying more attention to their flaws and completely forgetting about their positives.

Usually, there are two ways out of the situation.

#1 – You can feed your anger with blame, trying to prove a point by escalating the argument and using your partner’s flaws as proof,

#2 or you can try to balance things out.  One thing you should remember, if you feel like you’ve started to throw blaming back and forth, it’s best to drop the argument completely.  Anger and frustration are never good advisors and most of the time we are in the heat of the moment, take a breather and step out for a moment to cool down, when your in a proper space to think about the situation and calm down, you can make better judgements and calls, gain better understandings, instead of acting out of frustration, hurt, and emotion.   The blaming game can not only poison your mood for the day, but completely ruin your relationship.

A large number of couples can’t understand that blaming is rarely in one of the partners alone.  As humans, we have self-defense mechanisms that make sure we keep a high self-esteem and perception of ourselves. This self-serving biases make us attribute any flaws in ourselves to external factors (“I haven’t forgotten to buy milk, I was really stressed at work and didn’t have any free time”) and attribute the failings of our partners to their internal qualities (“You didn’t buy milk, because you’re lazy and inconsiderate”).

If you feel you’ve fallen into the blaming game trap, it is best to walk away as said previously.  Relationship conflicts tend to trigger and provoke us in unexpected ways. Your first instinct might be to defend yourself by placing blame onto your partner, but remember: when you feel frustrated, it’s important to calm down. You can better manage you and your partner’s temper, if both of you are relaxed and ready to have an adult conversation.  Blame-placing is never the solution, as it drives your relationship into a vicious circle of accusations and destructive patterns of behavior.

So, next time you feel angered, betrayed or annoyed by your partner’s behavior, take a deep breath.  When your relationship becomes all about blame, it’s a sign that both of you have forgotten about being compassionate and understanding to each other. Next time, take a break from the argument and reflect on your patterns of behavior. Be ready to have an adult conversation and remember that fault is rarely a one-sided thing.   After all, it’s more important to salvage your relationship than to prove you’re right, isn’t it?

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There is a huge difference between soulmates and twin flames.

There is a mountain of evidence to suggest that Twin Flames and Soulmates are exactly the same thing.  But in reality there is a very big difference between soulmates and twin flames.

As with all spiritual connections, soulmates and twin flames both share very similar bonds that make them seem to be alike in nature.  Yet, the quintessential parts of the different spiritual bonds are what make them unique in their own right.  So for the many people out there wondering exactly what the difference is, you’ll have to understand exactly what the two are first.

Twin Flames Meaning

By far the strongest connection that two souls can share.  Not only is it a shared connection, but it is THE connection.  A set of twin flames are two souls (each soul as a whole) who were born of the same core.

To paint a clear picture, twin flames are the same fire.  So-to-say, who at spiritual birth were separated into two flames.  The masculine and the feminine. They are thus, of the same essence but two completely whole and individual souls.

The attraction to a twin flame is unbelievably strong, sometimes even overpowering.  Usually, twin flames reunite or come together as one fire after their respective journeys.  They are magnetically drawn to each other through time and space.  Often, they do not find each other until much later, over many years and/or even many lifetimes.

Twin flames are fuelled by mystery.  It’s safe to say that what most people dream of when they think of finding a soulmate is in fact the connection shared between twin flames.  But it is an extremely rare event and while the chance of finding your twin flame is said to be 50%, it may not be here and now, or in your current consciousness.

Soulmate Meaning 

One can encounter many different soulmates in a lifetime, and so too, over many lifetimes.

There is a deep karmic connection between soulmates.  Contrary to the popular belief, this type of Spiritual Connection is, in fact, not always a positive connection.  Many people can connect over various aspects or characteristics.  Sometimes the connection is vague and other times it’s incredibly strong, leading the parties to believe that it is a twin flame connection.

Soulmates are also drawn to each other, but the connection is one that is shared just prior to or from that moment.  For example, soul mates will easily recognise each other through the strength of the connection they share.  But that does not mean that they have been drawing in toward each other spiritually since the beginning of their time.

Rather, soulmates move parallel and diagonally to and from one another.  Bumping into each other as the karmic connections and tunnels keep growing and moving forward.  A soul mate should not be taken lightly, however, even though that soul is not a twin flame.  We learn much from all the karmic connections we come into contact with. Soul Mates can teach us infinitely valuable information about ourselves and the people around us.

To suggest that the pursuit of life is to only ever look for your twin flame, would severely ignore the fact that without the learning and the wisdom acquired with the help of both karmic connections and soul mates.  You would not draw closer to your twin flame.

As mentioned before, twin flames have a way of finding each other over time and space.  This really only happens when the souls are ready, or when the souls need to be ready for bigger events, greater than themselves.

As twin flames are governed by unconditional love, each soul must grow independently and discover what unconditional love truly means.  Therefore, it is fair to say that twin flames usually, but not always, find each other when there is little or no teaching and learning left to be done and the two are whole together.

A quick look at the differences between twin flames and soul mates

Soulmates

• Drawn to each other at the moment of meeting.
• Will find each other many times over many life-spans.
• There is more than one person who can be your soul mate, in fact, there are many soul mates.

Twin flames

• Magnetically drawn to each other through space and time continuum.
• Will find each other usually only at the end of their spiritual life journey.
• There is only one who can be your twin flame.

Soulmate and Twin Flame Purpose

As twin flames are separated and leave the source/God to begin their journey here, the understanding is that they will come to find life.

Strange isn’t that that we choose to come here to find life?  But it is only with the mortal flesh that a soul can begin to truly appreciate what life is. With mortal flesh comes a variety of emotions. In order to strengthen the bond between twin flames, they must first fulfil the duty, no, the privilege of living.

This means that each individual soul will encounter other individual souls.  Purpose is what brings them together.  We are all teachers, we are all students, and we are all givers of Love, Hope and Faith. This is what a soul mate is.

Don’t take a soul mate lightly, honour that soul by loving with your all, by giving of your wisdom and by receiving their given wisdom openly.  They are, after all preparing you for the moment you will collide with your twin flame.

Soulmate Attraction

Both these bonds are mutually mesmerising.  When you meet a soulmate, there is something, something big that you just can’t quite put your finger on.Soulmate attraction to a soulmate can have its foundation in both light and dark and it is vital to understand this before becoming entangled with just any soul.

If you feel strong enough to take on the journey of returning the soul to the light, and you are confident it will not drain your life source from you, and then take it on with caution.  Also, not all soul mate relationships are romantic in nature.

You could find that a close relative, a teacher, a mentor, even a complete stranger who connects with you deeply can all be soul mates.

Twin Flame Attraction

When you meet a twin flame, it’s as if the cosmic world has just thrown a pie in your face.  It often happens when you least expect it and it does not come without challenges.  As with life lessons, you have to prove that you are worthy of your twin flame.   That you have learnt what you needed in order to be one with this illuminating soul.

Therefore, the attraction can be something completely unexplainable. In short, a soul mate attraction is recognised as a “knowing.”  You don’t know why (or maybe you do if you’re gifted), but you just know you share a connection.

A twin flame can be more confusing. It’s less of a mutual connection and much more of a mutual feeling of “arriving”. It’s a feeling of having found home.  Many people suffer from intrinsic loneliness.  Regardless of the number of excellent relationships they’ve had in their lives.  This disappears entirely when they meet their twin flame.

Open your spiritual self to wisdom and light and your soul will be guided to your twin flame.  It is usually accepted that looking for a twin flame is ineffective.  You will come together when you are both ready.  This will happen when one of you is in desperate need of the other’s life force.  A need that cannot be fulfilled by a soulmate connection.

Selflessness, wisdom, and unconditional love govern the twin flame connection.  Learning, teaching, preparing govern the soulmate connection.

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Why do people feel the need to cheat in a relationship? Updated

Lovers cheat in relationships for many reasons, but the underlying cause for cheating is almost always a deep desire for change.  One partner becomes bored or unsatisfied, and instead of dealing with that in a healthy manner, they look for the answer outside of the relationship.

Other lovers may use an affair as a way to exit the relationship instead of trying to fix what is making them unhappy in it.  They are reckless in the affair, hoping that being caught will allow them to bow out entirely from the unsatisfying relationship.

For those lovers that are trusting of their partners, cheating may seem unimaginable.  They look for excuses to explain away the hints and clues that a cheater always leaves behind.  They may fear confrontation and wait until they have absolute proof.  A psychic reading can help discover that truth and put a stop to that feeling of doubt.

You not only will find out the truth about your partner, you may also find out truths about yourself.  Lovers who have been cheated on in the past are often hyper vigilant of cheating behaviours, even when none exist.  The psychic reading will unearth your trust issues and help you to overcome them.  This can be a great way to start while your looking to re-building positive love relationships in the future.

Jealousy, fear and a lack of trust will destroy a relationship before it starts.  If you are having those feelings, consulting with a psychic will get to the root of the issue and let you know if those feelings are valid.

Whether cheating exists or not, uncovering the truth with the help of a psychic as soon as possible gives you the courage you need to confront the issue. You may either repair those flaws that are holding you back from true love, or discover that the one who you thought was your true love no longer is.

If you are affected in a cheating relationship, maybe a family member, close friend, seek guidance from one of our experienced love psychics today!

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Insights into your Long Distance Relationship

Maintaining a long distance relationship is not an easy thing to do. It takes hard work and there can be emotional turmoil. But our psychic readings help alleviate that stress by giving you perceptive and accurate insights into your long distance relationship that are unique to your situation.

 Some couples start out as long distance relationships, while others become that way over time. Regardless of which type fits you and your partner, we understand there are tough days when you have many questions about love, your future happiness or your partner.

Perhaps you have never been in a long distance relationship before and are not sure how to read what is happening around you. Or, maybe you are looking for answers to issues that led to the relocation, such as career, family or illness. Use our psychic guidance to help you successfully navigate the waters of your life as it relates to your long distance relationship.

We offer confidential, secure, and valuable love psychic readings for issues or insights into your love life or any burning questions you might have around your long distance relationship.  You can contact any one of our gifted love psychics via phone or online chat.  You have the choice of who you speak with by simply viewing our available love psychics.  Speak for as long as you want with your preferred psychic reader.  By choosing the best quality psychic that will fit your style we would suggest reading through each advisors profile.

When you have readings with our Zenory gifted psychics you can begin to understand more about yourself and how you relate to your long distance partner. Receiving these impressive insights will help you to gain more control over your future and make informed decisions going forward about your long distance relationship. Now is the time to speak with one of our psychics in a comfortable setting that provides you answers to help unlock your future.

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Soulmate Relationship Challenges

Many of you have probably grown up hearing the word soulmates.  Soulmate relationship challenges are there to test us.  Soulmate relationships are no easy task. 

 What is a soulmate?  A soulmate is that one person that will come to your life who will know and understand all your unspoken thoughts.  Someone who will feel what you feel and love you completely, wholly, with no questions asked.

The vision of two people falling deep into this kind of connection is definitely wonderful but this belief also happened to be the number one reason why a lot of relationships failed, with both parties going separate ways.

Travelling on a primrose path is beautiful but remember that life is not good all the time.  Meeting your soul mate is not an assurance that you will no longer have to go through challenges and that your relationship will be “hurt-free.”

For a relationship to work, it takes two people fighting to make things work.

Here are several unique challenges that soulmates need to face together.  Discover how you can make it through these storms to see a brighter and sunny day ahead.

Doubts and Uncertainties during a soul mate relationship 

There will always be instances when things do not go well as planned and when it happens, sometimes, you might wonder if it was your fault. Even when you found your soul mate, being doubtful can wreck havoc on any relationship.

Doubting your relationship will lead to different mental roadblocks, large boulders that will hinder you from moving forward. Once you convinced yourself that things are useless or hopeless, that’s exactly what will happen.

You refuse to work out on the problems and you end up using these as your excuse to justify for the mistake you made. Whether soul mates or not, couples musty also make the effort to solve issues right away instead of crying for the things that did not happen.

Unrealistic Expectations in your soul mate relationship 

Love is not always a joyful thing because there will always be troubles along the way.

Yes, you might be soul mates but it is not a guarantee that you will have a smooth and worry-free ride in your relationships. One of the most common challenges in soul mate relationships is when one or both parties think that they have a perfect relationship.

Just like normal couples, you and your soul mate will fight every now and then and disagree on some things. Remember, being soul mates does not remove your being humans and as humans, part of your natural behaviour is to make some mistakes.

Raging Passion 

When you’ve found your soul mate, you tend to love and care for each other deeply. This deep sense of caring can stir passion, and sometimes, this passion can go from a simple spark to raging flames that can devour you both.

Caring for someone so much can be good and bad because the more you care, the more hurt you will be if your partner lashes out. More investments mean more to lose if things do not work out.

Terrifying as it might be, the secret here is to always keep your feelings in check and never let your passion consume you to the point of doing things that you are not supposed to do.

Closing the Chapter

Probably the most hurtful out of all soul mate relationship challenges is the part when you finally realised that the relationship is going nowhere. Despite your bond, you and your soul mate are still two persons who have your own attitude, perceptions and beliefs.

When one party has been damaged or has issues on communicating, chances are the relationship will come to an end.

It might be hard to let go but sometimes, it’s for the best.

Letting go means being brave and accepting the fact that being soulmates is not a guarantee that your relationship will be a happily ever after.

Talk to a love psychic about how you can manage a soulmate relationship challenge.  A soulmate psychic reading at Zenory can help guide you through every step of the way when facing these kind of relationship challenges.

A psychic reading will help you clear up any uneasy feelings you maybe facing.

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Mind Body and Soul 2018 – Is It Becoming a Trend?

Our Mind, body, and soul all go hand in hand. What affects one, ultimately affects the others.  

When our mind, body, and soul are out of alignment, even if it is only one, eventually all three fall out of alignment as well.

So what affects our mind, body and soul?  2018 is here, and there seems to be trend coming through when dealing with the mind, body and soul.  Everybody wants to feel fit, strong and look good.  But in 2018, is it more so a feeling that we crave for, or is it a trend and the need to fit in?

What affects our mind, body and soul effects all areas of our well being. If we choose to ignore one of the three, the other two will also suffer the consequences because they are out of alignment.

Without having balance in our mind, body, and soul we tend to feel a little “off” and out of sync.

If you are feeling out of alignment with your mind, body and soul – a psychic reading can often point you in the right direction and give you a sense of release.  

Our psychic readers can help you achieve the balance your mind, body and soul need.  If either your mind, body, and soul or all three need realignment, our gifted psychics can help you restore balance in your life.

We Need Our Mind, Body and Soul

We all want our relationships and careers to “feed’ our mind, body, and soul and if they do not, again, all three feel the repercussions.

You may only have one area that needs improvement or only one that is causing you problems and has tried, unsuccessfully to bring it up to the right level.

Are you taking proper care of your mind, body, and soul?

Are you neglecting any of those areas and suffering because of it?

Proper balance, and keeping that balance will be key.

Conclusion

Our psychics are available through an online tarot reading and can help you find the path towards achieving and maintaining the proper balance of your mind, body, and soul. All it takes to start on the path towards a good balance mind, body and soul is a phone call or chat session with one of our sites gifted psychic readers.

 Choose one today and help get your mind, body, and soul in harmony.

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