What To Do When Your Soulmate Isn’t Ready For You?

Soulmate relationships are almost invariably complicated at best. The worst part and feeling is when your soulmate isn’t ready for you, this can suck a really big one.

And there are times in which, no matter how strong the soulmate connection we feel is, the person on the other end is just not ready. This is, for sure, an extremely frustrating situation.

Your soulmate connection is so strong and so real that you cannot fathom how the other person seems to be oblivious to it, and it gets really hard to let go of trying to control the situation.

It is never easy to go through this process, but it can help if you see it as an opportunity.   

Soulmate Lesson

One of the main lessons we get through a soulmate relationship that quite often goes ignored is that they are not meant to merely satisfy you emotionally, but to push you to grow, and growth is quite often difficult.

It is as well crucial to remember that even though you share a made-above connection, you are still individuals on your own seperate journey, and you only have control over your own experience.

For these reasons, the best thing to do when your soulmate isn’t ready for you, is to shift the focus from trying to change their perception, to your own experience and personal development.

If your soulmate is not ready for you, there is a misalignment, but it will not resolve until you work out your own issues. Your soulmate connection cannot be severed, so you need to let go of the urge to keep the relationship going at all costs and embrace divine timing, along with touching base with your own spirit.

Soulmate journeys will always bring change, development and progress.

When your soulmate isn’t ready, your best shot is to continue this journey in faith and strength, leading the way and trusting the process.

Talk to a soulmate psychic

Still need some clarity around your soulmate readiness? 

Touch base with a soulmate psychic.   A soulmate psychic reading can help you reach that elation by pointing you in the right direction. It can also be used to find clarity in your current soulmate relationship and the feelings and intention from your soulmate.

Soulmate psychics can connect with the energy between you and your soulmate to identify the soul connection that the both of you share.

Through a soulmate reading you will gain the clarity and insight behind the deeper connection and gain the power to move you forward and out of the rut.

The post What To Do When Your Soulmate Isn’t Ready For You? appeared first on .

Are You In Love With A Narcissist?

People tend to use the term “narcissist” when they are upset by a person’s selfish actions or behaviours.

A true narcissist, however, is a mentally unstable individual with a serious personality disorder confirmed by the National Institute of Mental Health and defined in the DSM (Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Metal Disorders).

Narcissism not only causes delusions of grander but also the inability to have empty for others.

They are often competitive, driven individuals who can also be highly successful in business, but personal relationships are very difficult for them to maintain.

A narcissist is the centre of their own universe, you and your needs will never be their main focus.

A narcissist rarely recognises or admits there is anything wrong with them and there is no cure.

Intensive therapy is the only way a narcissist can live cohesively with another person as a spouse.

It is easy to fall in love with a narcissist because they are confident, successful people with a huge gravitational pull.

If you find yourself in a relationship with one, however, you will quickly notice that in private they are a different person.

Moody, prone to outbursts and tantrums, paranoid and even delusional.

If you find yourself stuck in a situation where you have already fallen in love with a person who turns out to be a narcissist, you must quickly determine if your own safety or mental health would be at risk by staying with them, even if they seem like your soulmate.

A few questions to ask yourself to determine if your partner is a narcissist:

Are they overly self-absorbed, to the detriment of all others around them?

Are they consistently putting their own needs before yours?

Do they become irrationally angry at imagined slights?

Do they seem to be unaware that their actions hurt people?

Do you feel safe alone with them when they are having a breakdown or tantrum?

Keep in mind, someone with a real case of narcissism will never admit they have a problem as it is beyond their capability to see or sense it.  A true narcissist without extensive therapy may be incapable of fully loving another person.

Once you come to peace with these truths, you can decide if this one-sided relationship is worth trying to preserve.  As with any mental disorder, the severity can be a range from mild to extreme severity.  A person with mild narcissism might be able, through therapy, to participate in a normal healthy relationship in time.

With higher levels of severity, the person you love might simply be incapable of loving you back.  Seek therapy or talk to an online psychic or online tarot reader at Zenory for some insight on how you can go about dealing with a partner who is a narcissist.

You can ask a psychic through a psychic reading if your loved one’s disorder is having a negative effect on your own mind and ways to cope with this moving forward.

Some key questions you may like to ask a love psychic:

Is my partner playing games?

Is my partners behaviour going to get better? Will they seek help with this to better the relationship?

How can I talk to my partner about this unacceptable behaviour?

How do I deal with a narcissist?

Do I stay or should I walk away?

These are general questions, and most peoples situations are also different, so understand that the above are only general questions.  A good idea would be to take a piece of paper and write down some questions you would like to ask your psychic to clarify, this could be “words” that your partner uses.

This could be a situation, event that has happened in your relationship for you to notice some of the signs that are showing the behaviours of a narcissist.

Either way, you need to take the time for yourself to identify how to cope or how you are going to move forward in confidence with this.

If you found this article helpful, you may also like to read: Signs Your Relationship Wasn’t Mean’t To Last

The post Are You In Love With A Narcissist? Ask Yourself These Key Questions appeared first on .

Reasons Why Men Pull Away In A Relationship

But why do men pull away?

Many women have had the experience of having a man they were in a relationship with swiftly withdraw and pull away.

You may have been spending a lot of time together and calling and texting each other into the wake of dawn,  often when suddenly, he goes silent.

It’s easy to start replaying everything in your mind over and over looking for clues and reasons why he might be acting the way he is.

Here are 7 common reasons why men pull back in a relationship, and steps you can take to identify a man who is pulling away and withdrawing.

Cheating

You might be seeing signs of a cheating man when he starts to avoid from intimacy.  The number one thing women worry about when a man pulls away from them emotionally is that he is cheating.   Cheating would cause him to be less available to you and be more guarded over where he is spending his time.  He might also be feeling guilt from his actions.

Anger Over a Fight or Misunderstanding

If you recently had a fight, even if you have made up, there could still be hurt feelings or misunderstandings diving you. Men sometimes have difficulty expressing their feelings and that can lead to silence on their end.

Feeling For An Ex-Lover

If your man recently ran into an ex-lover, ex-girlfriend or ex-wife, this could cause old feelings for that person to resurface and no matter if he is planning to pursue these old feelings or not, it could cause him to pull back from you for a while. Confusion over old feelings is a common reason for withdrawal.

Spooked or Flooded With Emotion

Remember that men have difficulty expressing their emotions and if they feel overwhelmed with strong feelings for you, even if those feelings are of love, it could frighten him into becoming more distant as he struggles to figure out what he is feeling and how to express those feelings to you.

The deeper he falls in love with you, the more he faces a fear of rejection as well which is also stressful.

Fear Of Commitment 

It’s perfectly normal for both men and women in relationships to have a fear of commitment.

Especially if the relationship is new or one of you had a bad relationship in the past. Some people just have a hard time settling down until they are 100% sure they are in love.

Personal Life Events

It is possible that the reason for the withdrawal has nothing to do with you or your relationship. If your man is going through tough times economically or with their family they could simply be busy processing the stress in their life.

Be a shoulder to cry on and give him the space he needs to resolve these issues that do not have to do with your relationship.

Settling In

What you might read as withdrawal could just be the natural course of a relationship that has become comfortable.

When a relationship is new, there tends to be a lot more dating, texting and attempts to impress each other.  As the relationship grows, you no longer have the urge to check in with each other 24/7 because you are confident in your love.

Are you seeing signs that your man or the guy your involved with might be pulling away, becoming distant or withdrawing from you?  Contact our accurate love psychics for an online psychic reading today.  Get the answers and clarity you need to move forward in your life.

Through a psychic love reading, our soulmate psychics and tarot readers are able to pick up and see your situation clearly, and therefore can give you the insight and tools to steir you onto the right path.

When he pulls away, be sure to gain the tools and insight to deal with these situations at ease, understand why he pulls away without worry or stress.  The guidance and insight from a psychic reading at Zenory is always given with compassion whilst delivering your messages with truth.

The post Reasons Why Men Pull Away In A Relationship appeared first on .

Isn’t your life partner also your soulmate?

That’s what I found myself thinking when I first saw the topic of this article.

As I pondered the question and called an emergency meeting with my intuition, I saw that yes, your life partner is your main soulmate, your closest and ultimate soulmate.  

But on the way to this life partner, there may be a road filled with other soulmates, yes you can have more than one soulmate in this lifetime.  

There are are soulmates we meet whom there’s an important lesson to learn or a significant assignment to fulfill.  For the purposes of this article, we’ll call the ultimate soulmate your life partner, and these other significant but temporary relationships on the way your soulmates.

A very big difference between your Life Partner and other Soulmates is this 

Only your life partner is good enough for you. This may sound a bit harsh, but we are not judging his or her inherent worth as a person, only whether they qualify to be your perfect fit.  

You may have a very strong powerful and passionate connection with other soulmates, but you will not find that easy compatibility and harmony for a shared life which will definitely be there with a life partner.

Your Life partner was in a very real sense made for you, to be the other wing so that you could fly through life together sharing a common purpose and supporting each other.

Your soulmates support your growth and preparation as you make the journey towards your life partner. Sometimes we try to make a soulmate fit, but we find that like one of Cinderella’s stepsisters, no matter how hard we try to force it, the shoe (the soulmate) flies across the room (or town or country).

Crazy Love vs Peaceful Passion  

Surely passion is the main ingredient in both temporary soulmate relationships as well as the one you have with your life partner. The main difference is in the pattern this passion takes. The two kinds of relationships may both start with a lot of magic and fire.  

However, in the soulmate relationships, often the ego rears its ugly head, creating dramatic scenarios and issues which then turn the relationship into one with turmoil and chaos, a roller coaster ride of fighting and making up perhaps, or obsession.

In contrast, the relationship with your right life partner will have a subtext of harmony and peace, which creates a stable foundation for passion for growing and continue to color your days as you grow together over the years.

The degree of care you give your relationship with your life partner affects the sustenance of this passion but that’s a separate issue. The main point is both relationships begin on a passionate note, but with a soulmate, the passion either dies out or goes into crazy-vill over time.

Identical Vs Matched Opposite

Many times with soulmates, you will have very strong similarities. You may even feel you are identical, you may even think “she is the female version of me”.  The problem comes when your similarities clash, you may both be weak in certain areas, or you may both have the same need from each other and find yourselves frustrated.

The very same similarities that draw you together can also cause tension over time.

With your life partner, you will find that you are “matched opposites”. This means in certain areas you are similar but in very important key areas you are opposites and this opposite quality makes you complement one another in love and in life. You do not share the same weaknesses but rather where you are weak, he/she is strong.

An example of this may be that you are emotional and sensitive and cry at the drop of a hat, where as he is strong and sturdy and can be your rock in difficult times.

Fizzle vs Flourish 

 A good test of whether you are with a soulmate or a life partner is what I call the fizzle test.

With a soulmate, ultimately the love fizzles.

You may be obsessed, attached, or even caring but you do not fall deeper in love over time, nor does the love grow like a fine wine over the months or years, but rather, there’s a feeling that the connection has stopped deepening and instead has faded.

In contrast, with a life partner, the connection grows to new depths and enters new realms, and over time you may feel that there’s no “ceiling” to this love, as it expands and takes you to new levels of love.

Struggle vs Ease 

While there are always exceptions to every rule, the majority of destined life partners find that their relationship has an ease to it. In contrast, temporary soulmates find struggle, if not at first then eventually, particularly as they try to make the relationship last beyond its due course.

Soulmate relationships have a cycle, and as the growth cycle comes to completion, there may be a sense of panic and trying to make the relationship stick. However, with a life partner, there’s no struggle to make the relationship happen or work or stick because all of these things happen naturally and organically.

If you have ever had the experience of doing something in the zone or in the flow, be it a sport you love or playing a musical instrument, it is a gratifying experience full of grace and marked by ease.

This is how things should feel most of the time with a life partner, and they will. However, with a soulmate, that kind of ease may be there at first or on and off but soulmate relationships tend to include a greater degree of pain and struggle, as they are the relationships that clean the junk out of us to prepare us for our life partners.

One last word on Soulmates versus life partners: Not all marriages are with destined life partners, sometimes in the inexperience of youth, a person may marry a temporary soulmate then find themselves separating painfully or indifferently when things don’t sustain the distance.

If you find yourself in this situation, get your hopes up, as the very existence of your soulmate relationship implies that you are in preparation for true love with your destined life partner, who will fit you like a glove, and dance with you through the rest of your life’s journey.

If you have questions regarding your soulmate relationship. or life partner, or when you might meet your soulmate, perhaps if you are questioning whether your in a soulmate relationship, contact one of our soulmate relationship psychics, who can give you guidance and clarity around your soulmate relationship through a love psychic reading or a soulmate psychic reading at Zenory.

I’d love to hear your thoughts on this.   Have you met your life partner or your soulmate?  How did you meet and what are some tips you could give for someone who might be going through this that I haven’t mentioned above.  

The post We Reveal 5 Differences Between A Soulmate And A Life Partner appeared first on .

As I was starting to think about what to write in this article, lyrics to Mariah Carey’s song “Someday” floated through my mind.  If you haven’t heard it before, please go right now to Youtube or Spotify and have a listen, it may deliver the point of this article even better than what I can say!

All joking aside, if we stop to think how unique each person is, it is truly amazing.  We are all made like snowflakes, no two are exactly alike.   When you connect with a romantic partner, all your wonderful uniqueness including even your flaws or idiosyncrasies are seen as a beautiful whole. That’s why falling in love can make you feel so on top of the world, because you are being cherished for just being you.

Despite what everyone says, what first draws two people together is way beyond just physical attraction, it involves an energy connection, or a spark.  That spark can include a physical attraction element but it goes far beyond just that.  There are things in each person that are completely irreplaceable of course.  If you and a partner get into a relationship, treat each other well and mutually appreciate each other, then mutually realize the relationship just isn’t meant to be and part amicably, that’s one thing.

But when one person just doesn’t have the maturity or insight at the moment to appreciate how wonderful the other is, there can be a lopsided feeling of being taken for granted.   This is the kind of situation we are talking about right now.  So due to this lack of awareness, the relationship may wither away and you go your own separate ways.   But time has a way of bringing clarity, and hindsight is often 20/20 for this reason.  Lightning doesn’t strike often, and a special kind of love doesn’t happen everyday.  When it does, those of us who are either wise enough or experienced enough know to hang onto it and fight for it. Unfortunately this doesn’t always go both ways in a coupling, and one person has to take that knowledge and walk away with it, hoping that cupid will strike again with someone who can appreciate such a rare gift.

However, If you’ve ever had your heart broken because you saw how great he was, what a special connection you had with each other, and saw beautiful potential for the future, but he just seemed blinded to this viewpoint, don’t despair.   The chances are high that over time, all those unique “snowflake” qualities you had and the goodness that your relationship offered will become clear as day to him.

Even if we don’t always want to get back together with an ex, a part of us might want the unappreciative partner to show us that he has realized his mistake and at the least feel remorseful and miss us a bit. It’s wonderful when life or karma gives us a chance to witness this, and sometimes we do. Sometimes that fantasy of him writing or messaging you to say he’s missed you terribly and he was wrong for letting you go actually happens.

And then you either say well that’s nice but I’ve happily moved on, or you might reconcile with the more mature version of your ex and live happily ever after. But if you don’t get to experience the sweetness of this kind of scenario, just know that truth can never remain hidden. And the truth is, you are irreplaceable, and any real love that you’ve shared with another person was mutual. If he couldn’t recognize or appreciate how special you were then, surely the day will come when the truth hits him and his heart aches with missing. Destiny will either bring you back together at that time, or bring you a better love so you don’t have to wait around for the slowpoke  Just trust!

The post They Start Missing You When They Fail To Replace You appeared first on .

How do you know if someone you just had those amazing soul sparks with is the real thing, your true soulmate, or just someone who is momentarily channeling your wonderful soulmate? Come again you say…I know it sounds a bit strange.

But this soulmate mirage” is a very common experience, it’s hard to put a name to it but you may have experienced it already.

Have you ever met someone with whom you feel better than you’ve ever felt before, you feel you have found the one you’ve been waiting for, you may have tons in common, or feel so comfortable as if you’ve always known each other.

You may feel depths of joy and passion that you didn’t know existed. You can see your future playing out so beautifully with this person and everything feels so right and so perfect, and then it just vanishes.

The love breaks down, or he does, or she runs, or it all just evaporates and you’re left disappointed, a bit in shock, disillusioned, and sometimes devastated, not to mention utterly confused as to what just hit you and what it all meant?

Firstly, let me introduce you to the concept of channeling. You may have heard of this phenomenon or you may not be familiar with it.

I will assume the latter.  Channeling is when a being, often one who is not on the earth but rather is living on the other side across the veil a.k.a. the spiritual plane, speaks through a living person, usually for the purpose of giving their spiritual messages to us humans for the betterment of our lives or for our further enlightenment.

This is different than being possessed (in case images of the exorcist just ran through your mind) because the being channeling through is safe, loving, and harmless and often has the consent of the human who is being used to relay the messages.

A famous channel you may have heard of is Esther Hicks, who channels Abraham., the spiritual being(s) that brought the Law of Attraction to our attention, even before the bestselling book The Secret did.

Before I go off on a tangent, back to our main topic, the “soulmate mirage”. Lately I’ve seen articles around the web about fake soulmates, or counterfeit soulmates.  As I anxiously pondered whether such a thing could be true, I got some interesting info from my team of guides and angels who are kind enough to clear up the confusion in my mind from time to time. According to the knowledge they gave me, before we meet our true love, the soulmate with whom we are meant to be with, the one with whom we will share a life, a destiny, and possibly our life’s work with, something else happens. He or She reaches out to us at crucial times, through a person who happens to be around us at the moment. That person literally channels our soulmate, without even realizing it. Because our souls are in touch with each other and have planned all this, and this has a beneficial purpose, this channeling is not the same thing as being possessed, just to reiterate. Here we are then, perhaps we are recovering from heartbreak, or for some other reason are feeling down, and need a dose of our soulmate’s love and essence in order to re-awaken our life force, or revitalize our faith and hope, or heal. And yet, it is not yet time to meet our true soulmate in the flesh. Neither of us is fully ready yet. So what does the universe do? It creates a temporary soulmate experience, where a regular person channels our soulmate, and thus becomes magical and special to us. BUT it only lasts for a little while, like a magic spell, like Cinderella’s carriage which turned into a pumpkin after midnight. Often this is exactly how we feel, that our seeming soulmate has turned into a pumpkin, or our prince has turned into a frog. Instead of seeing the cup as half full, we see it as half empty at this point. Instead of realizing that hey, we had a SOULMATE glimpse, we had a brush with our wonderful true love and excitedly await our real union, we feel depressed and think that love will just never last or work for us. Now I know it’s easier said than done, since in the throes of disappointment, the last thing we want to do is see the cup as half full, no ma’am we just want to dump the water on the head of the person who disappointed us and maybe smash the cup against a wall. But after a few nights of double cheese pizzas and reality show marathons, we can revisit this idea…

A major point here is that a “soulmate mirage” is not a bad thing even though it ends with feelings of disappointment and disillusion. It is actually a good thing, it is sent to us by the universe with an important, divine purpose. It is a clue and sign of our love destiny, it’s a necessary brush with our soulmate’s energy which we needed to keep us going towards that future day where we finally meet and fall in love. By becoming aware of this concept and understanding it, we can now consciously watch each seeming “soulmate” encounter to see if it is the real thing, or a soulmate mirage. The proof is in the pudding, because if it’s the real thing, it will move forward without too many hiccups, and it will grow into your dream relationship and last. It will support your happiness, well-being, and life purpose. In my research and personal experience, the soulmate mirage does not really last beyond a 6 month period at maximum. You may be in that situation longer, but the actual magic and feelings of “I’m with the right one” doesn’t last too long. The good feelings tend to tank and negative sides of the real person show up. The reason we might stick around at this point is hoping the good feelings and connection will resurface and somehow things can go back to how they were at first. Usually this does not happen, but rather once the soulmate feeling has disappeared, the relationship becomes ordinary and loses its magical elements, the person in front of us feels like a stranger, and we feel negative emotions and confusion.

If you find yourself in this situation, I encourage you to let things fade naturally, let the relationship run it’s course, you’ll walk away when it’s time, because your path is perfectly guided. With a soulmate mirage, you get to a point where you lose your motivation to stick around and realize you want something more. It’s important to allow this type of relationship experience to run its course and not see it as a mistake but as a gift, as its joys are a harbinger. Trust that if it happened, it was meant to in order to help you move forward on your life’s path towards something greater. Keep in mind that even that glimpse of your soulmate means that you are headed for him or her, the real thing awaits you, and that hope is not foolish, it’s wise and visionary. So keep your head up, and your eyes on the prize, next stop true love.

The post Could this truly be “THE ONE” or just another Soulmate Mirage appeared first on .

A forecast of your week based on the Tarot

“4 OF WANDS”

This is the first “tarot” scope for Zenory and as such it deserves a little introduction.

Different tarot decks might be used from week to week, and through the various decks look different, they all contain the same essential cards.

The style of reading for these little forecasts of your upcoming week will be “intuitive tarot”, which is combining a psychic gift with knowledge of the tarot cards.

Years ago when I was learning to master the tarot, I came across a book called intuitive tarot and those inner bells starting going off, which always means yes this is for YOU.  So, if you are wondering how it works, I tend to see into tarot cards like crystal balls that show me scenes or images of the upcoming future.

The vibrant colors and art can trigger messages, while the knowledge I’ve gained from studying various decks and books through the years is in the back of my mind as well. I believe your angels and guides (yes all of the ones you each have, that’s a big group I know), pick out the info.  They want you to know and bring it to the forefront of my mind so I can relay it to you. And in case you were wondering how one weekly forecast could apply to everyone reading it, it’s much like the horoscope you read in a magazine, only with a bit more spiritual purpose as I have asked your angels to guide the words and then bring you here to read their message to you.

Whatever part of the reading pops out for you is an especially strong message to you this week.

That said, as I tune into this week’s card, the 4 of wands, I am flooded by pleasant feelings of inspiration, as well as seeing financial well-being which is in store for you this week. If you have been feeling tight with funds, you will catch a break, a windfall, an extra discount, or a commission which will fatten your wallet a bit so you can afford that little something you’ve had your eye on, or pay that bill that’s been nagging at you and keeping you anxious while you try to catch some sleep at night.

And how about that inspiration?   Creativity will be extra strong for you this week on Wednesday and Saturday, though you will refine the ideas you get with some fine-tuning work on Thursday and Friday. This week will also include some adrenalin rushes, as there’s some extra excitement after Wednesday, towards the end of your week. Indeed you will see a cherished goal manifest or get some wonderful attention from a person you’ve been wanting to connect with more.

As for bad news, there isn’t any this week, so try to keep it that way by thinking positively as much as you can, or not thinking at all since thinking in itself can be a trap.   Be on the lookout for 2 people who cross your path this week and act as earth angels for you, they may be strangers offering help, or an acquaintance offering a message which will resonate in your heart or guide you further about the solution to a problem or dilemma.

All in all, it should be a good one, as your passions stir you in the right direction at work and in love, and you remain focused on your goals.  Just be sure to lay off the caffeine after 3 pm because this week has enough blood pumping through your heart to keep you going.

The post 4 Of Wands Tarot Scope of the week – By Psychic Corrina appeared first on .