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Soulmate Rejection: When your soulmate doesn’t honor the connection Soulmates come in many forms. They can be a best friend, a family member, a stranger you meet in passing, a lover or an animal. The key point to be aware of is that soulmates always show up to teach us a lesson, to teach us … Continue reading

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Soulmate Rejection: When your soulmate doesn’t honor the connection

Soulmates come in many forms. They can be a best friend, a family member, a stranger you meet in passing, a lover or an animal. The key point to be aware of is that soulmates always show up to teach us a lesson, to teach us about some aspect of ourselves or universal teaching. Soulmates are essentially reflections of us.

The soulmates we will be focusing on in this article, however, are romantic, sexual and intimate soulmates- the type of bond you may refer to as a lover, partner or boyfriend or girlfriend. These types of soulmates feel like they are your one true love, and to an extent this is true. This is because for a soulmate to be a soulmate, they would have needed to have embarked on their own journey of transformation, growth and spiritual or soulful evolution. Self- healing, meditation, metaphysical and esoteric wisdom and knowledge, awareness of our interconnectivity and connection with the universe- and planet- and a deep recognition of unconditional love being one of the most powerful vibrations and forces available to us, are all common themes inherent within a soulmate bond. In other words, you and your partner “get” each other.

Before looking into why soulmate rejection occurs, and how it can be so painful, let’s first explore the essence and archetypes of a soulmate bond and love; so you can better understand why this type of connection is so powerful and significant.

Essence & Archetypes of A Soulmate Connection

A deep bond of friendship

Soulmates have an underlying bond symbolized by friendship, mutual respect and recognition. You recognize one another and know that, to an extent, if you weren’t lovers and romantically or sexually involved, you possess the capacity for great friendship. Respect, mutual understanding and cooperation define your motivations and intentions for your relationship.

Shared spiritual or psychic gifts

Many soulmates have a deep spiritual connection. Telepathy may be common- you may know when the other is about to call or enter the room, without physical warning, and sense things beyond the norm. Your awareness of one another’s presence is deeply heightened and sharing thoughts, speech or emotions are not uncommon. There is most likely an element of reading one another’s minds too, literally possessing a psychic or clairvoyant gift to tune into your partner’s energy field and aura. It is in the aura, the electromagnetic energy field surrounding us, that thoughts, emotions, beliefs, subtle impressions, mental projections and one’s state of vibratory health (your personal vibration or frequency) can be seen. Experienced and sensed. Soulmates often have an invisible and profound bond with one another on the subtle planes of being.

Shared sense of purpose?

Many soulmates have the same interests and inner passions manifesting as a shared service or gift to humanity, the planet or some important and meaningful cause. You shine brightest when in loving or helpful service to some cause or being, and specifically when doing it with your lover. Your light and divine essence becomes activated and there is a strong desire to better yourself for both your soulmate and for the people or cause you are helping. You may choose to ground this passion, talent or gift into a profession and life path, or simply engage with it regularly as a hobby. Either way, your shared soul passion reflets outwards into the world and further strengthens your relationship.

Why doesn’t s/he honor your connection?

After reading the above you may realize just how special a true soulmate bond is. Well, with lightness comes darkness and day spirals back into night, and vice versa. Life ultimately involves duality and to put it bluntly- not everyone grows, evolves and learns on the same timeline. Your sweetie, lover or bond of soul may be your true love, and someone you can share a lifetime with, but this doesn’t mean that they are on the same journey as you.

Below is everything you need to know to help you heal and recover and step fully into your divinity and beauty once more. Please don’t think that a soulmate rejecting your love and connection is your fault, because it is not. (So long as you have done the healing and soul work, and achieved the balanced and integration of self you know to be true!)

  1. Their shadow is not a reflection of yours

We all have a shadow self, those undesirable, dark, unwanted or often denied and repressed aspects of self we either first deny and reject, or secondly aim to transcend and evolve through and past. Because a soulmate connection vibrates at such as high frequency, this means that there is great capacity for vast darkness or incredible lightness. Soulmate rejection occurs when your partner has refused to accept parts of their own shadow and therefore starts to reject you as a result. Perhaps they can’t accept their beauty, brilliance and spiritual gifts or wonderful compassionate nature, so they start to reject this part of you and your soulmate connection… This stems from an ability to accept the dark and undesirable aspects of life and being, thus, because light and dark exist simultaneously, a rejection of one part of self leads to a rejection of another.

Your connection can be intense, euphoric and transcendental, and you may vibe on a level never experienced before with past “boyfriend” and “girlfriend.” A soulmate connection is more than the societal created boyfriend and girlfriend relationship experienced in youth, or before spiritually awakened and evolved; soulmate bond is intrinsically soulful- full of soul- with an essential aspect being some level of personal awakening and healing. In order to come together in a soulmate union, you and your partner must first have had to have done some self- healing, soul- searching and deep introspection, in addition to having had engaged in the healing arts, spirituality and metaphysics- things which connect you directly to your true nature. So, you are quite simply on different stages of your journey and your mirror (your reflection, your partner and soul connection) is not quite ready to accept themselves or your bond.

  1. Karmic and ancestral wounds are real

Another highly important factor normally always present in soulmate rejection is the reality that being human inevitably involves suffering. We all have karmic and ancestral wounds, pains and trauma brought from childhood, past relationships, family and even past lifetimes, into adult life. Now, assuming that you are wholly ready for a soulmate connection on the highest levels, you have most likely engaged fully with your own personal journey of healing and transformation, and further come to terms with aspects of yourself and your past. This does not mean your soulmate has! This also means, as hard as it may be, you should not take it personally. Your love is still in a transitory phase with their own healing to do.

  1. Your feelings are not a fantasy

 Feeling like everything you felt and experienced was a fantasy, an illusion; may start to take hold. When you bond and merge with another on all levels- spiritually, soulfully mentally, emotionally and physically- it can leave you in a state of eternal perpetual entanglement. Your souls become entwined and there is a strong recognition that you have always known each other, and always will. This can be very hard and painful to come to terms with when the connection begins to break down, as you know fully within that the love you share is real, authentic and deep- almost timeless; yet your soulmate does not. However, they do know this, on a level, it is just buried by insecurities, wounds, past pains and self- denial or repression. The biggest mistake you could make is to tell yourself that it was all a fantasy.

Don’t doubt yourself or what you know to be true; your love was and is real. All those moments of deep connection, telepathy, authentic feeling and connection, and the sense of knowing one another beyond time and space… these are still true. Acceptance and understanding combined with compassion and empathy are your keys to retaining your own truth, integrity and self- love, so you can then shine this out into your next soulmate connection; or into the current one if you should choose to wait. Fully embracing that your love was not a fantasy and that everything perceived, felt and experienced was real will allow you to continue to stay on your own frequency and wavelength, and not devolve to lower your vibration to that of your soulmate’s. This brings us onto the next point.

  1. You don’t need to feel guilty for evolving higher or moving on!

This is essential. In short, the fact that your soulmate has rejected you and you are completely willing to do the self- healing and self- development work necessary to maintain and secure the bond, means that when you finally accept it is not currently meant to be, or that you are just on a different level and stage of your journey, feeling guilty is a no- no. You do not need to lower your vibration for anyone. You also don’t need to devolve or fall into karmic entrapments and entanglements. This does not mean you have to stop loving your soulmate, or stop feeling empathy for them; it is just essential that you don’t compromise your own “inner soulmate vibe” for one who is not ready nor on the same level as you. Guilt, shame or self- devolution are completely counterproductive to both your soulmate and the love you once shared- don’t you want them to rise and be the best version of themselves they can be?

Even if you are no longer together physically, your thoughts, emotions and personal frequency are very powerful. You and your soulmate are still connected throughout time and space, and your soulmate connection is still very much alive and real!

  1. Give them space, let them learn their lessons, and commit to self- love…

Finally, giving them their space and allowing them time to learn their lessons is one of the best things you can do. You also should commit to self- love and do everything in your power to stay aligned with your self- worth, self- esteem and personal confidence. Being self- empowered, soulful and sovereign should not be sacrificed for anyone, especially not for someone who was unwilling to grow and journey with you. A true soulmate connection is one of the highest expressions of love on this earth plane… no- one benefits from appeasing or sacrificing this to old wounds, ancestral or karmic trauma, and the inability or unwillingness to heal and move forward in life.

Be your own soulmate!

Being your own soulmate is one of the most effective and helpful things you can do to heal and recover from soulmate rejection. Treat yourself with the loving kindness and compassion you happily give to your lucky lover. Step fully into your self- empowerment and spiritually inspired mindset and state of consciousness. Become the best version of yourself, for you. Stay committed to self- healing and harmonizing your mind, body and spirit or soulful self with daily reality. Quite simply, be your own best friend, soul-mate and lover.

You can heal from soulmate rejection and go on to live a beautiful and abundant life. In fact, there are many soulmates for us and being rejected by one (or two or three!) does not mean you will never experience the love you know yourself worthy of. Stay strong and centered and committed to your truth. Everything manifests in perfect timing.

Want to dive deeper into the soulmate connection?  Talk to one of our experienced soulmate specialists.  Through a love psychic reading and a soulmate psychic reading, our psychics are able to tap into the feelings and emotions of your soulmate.  This psychic reading will give you deeper insight into the situation you are faced with and will push you into the direction that will get you back on track and feeling positive.

You don’t have to deal or heal through this alone, our love psychics have many years of experience reading through empathic abilities, tarot readings and more.  Talk to a psychic online via phone or chat to get some immediate answers.

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Is your soulmate truly ready for you? Zenory http://zenory.co.nz/blog/is-your-soulmate-truly-ready-for-you/ http://zenory.co.nz/blog/is-your-soulmate-truly-ready-for-you/#respond Thu, 10 Oct 2019 08:50:10 +0000 https://zenory.com/blog/?p=2146

Is your Soulmate truly ready for you? Regardless of the intensity of a Soulmate connection, there’s no guarantee that it will end in happily ever after. Accepting this can be a truly challenging journey. The question is your soulmate ready for you? Sometimes, your Soulmate is not ready just yet, and sometimes, they may never … Continue reading

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Is your Soulmate truly ready for you?

Regardless of the intensity of a Soulmate connection, there’s no guarantee that it will end in happily ever after. Accepting this can be a truly challenging journey. The question is your soulmate ready for you?

Sometimes, your Soulmate is not ready just yet, and sometimes, they may never be. No matter the situation, and in spite of the soulmate connection that you have, their journey is their own. You cannot force them to be ready or affect their decision making process in any way as difficult as it is.

Soulmate experiences

There are stances in which your Soulmate needs to go through certain experiences before being fully ready for the soulmate connection. This is often related to personal growth, personal boundaries or relationships.  They will not be ready to acknowledge the connection until they have reached that state.

Sometimes, they are not emotionally available and they need time and space to heal from a traumatic relationship. There are other times, though, that a Soulmate connection can happen with a person that has chosen not to enter romantic relationships. There’s not much that can be done here.

Soulmate connection

Be as it may, the truth is that you can only take care of yourself and your own path. It is not your responsibility to “fix” or guide your Soulmate. You cannot walk this path for them. 

Arm yourself with trust, patience and wisdom, and respect and honour their path and their right to make their own decisions. If and when they are ready to make that Soulmate connection, you will know!

An alternative relationship

If your Soulmate doesn’t ever become ready for this relationship, it doesn’t mean that you will never find a blissful relationship or a true Soulmate connection.

A Soulmate connection is strong and meaningful. You can develop an equally strong, meaningful and satisfying relationship with someone who is not your Soulmate. Create a bond that is so deep that it lasts for lifetimes to come.

Choose one of our love psychics today through chat or phone psychic readings online, if you need to know whether your soulmate is truly ready for you.

Soulmate FAQ’s

Why has my soulmate pulled away?

Your soulmate will pull away usually because they cannot handle the overwhelming and intense emotions that comes with the soulmate connection, causing them to pull a runner.

Why are soulmate relationships so painful?

Soulmate relationships are the most difficult relationships you will encounter on the earth pane. Soulmate relationships will cause you to step up and make significant changes in your life that will challenge you like never before.

Do soulmates come back together?

Soulmate relationships are always bound to reconnect at some point. This does not mean that you will end up together. Some soulmates will outgrow the other if one has not done the work that they are meant to do whilst they are apart.

Can you meet your soulmate at the wrong time?

There is no set time for soulmates to meet. This is all based on the timing of the divine. We must also play a part in making this happen, and the divine will move situations and events in order for you to meet your soulmate. Holding onto a relationship that isn’t meant to be, can hold you back when it comes to meeting your soulmate.

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Have you been Soulmate Friendzoned? http://zenory.co.nz/blog/soulmate-friend-zone/ http://zenory.co.nz/blog/soulmate-friend-zone/#respond Sun, 06 Oct 2019 07:58:11 +0000 https://zenory.com/blog/?p=2140

Have you been Soulmate Friendzoned? Are you in love with your soulmate but they have pushed back or become distant? We often hear from many clients that call to ask why their soulmate has become distant or why the dynamic has suddenly changed. More times than often, because one of the soulmates is not ready, … Continue reading

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Have you been Soulmate Friendzoned?

Are you in love with your soulmate but they have pushed back or become distant? We often hear from many clients that call to ask why their soulmate has become distant or why the dynamic has suddenly changed.

More times than often, because one of the soulmates is not ready, they put their soulmate into the “friends”only category.  This causing the soulmate who is ready to feel hurt, abandoned, frustrated, lost, confused, and betrayed.

There’s no way around the fact that soulmate relationships are really complex and complicated.   Soulmate connections are hard to navigate, and can often make the soulmate who is questioning themselves feel insane, or not worthy and lose self respect and self love.  

Today, we are discussing one fairly common scenario found in soulmate relationships, and this is when you are in the Soulmate Friendzone. They say love has a wide way in and a narrow way out, and, ironically, the same is true for the friendzone as well.

You may not be able to pinpoint what was exactly what took you to the friendzone, yet here you are! A witness to your soulmate’s dating life, joys and disappointments included, while they don’t seem to realize what is right in front of them. 

Of course it hurts to be in a situation in which you feel doomed to watch a parade of lovers that couldn’t be more inadequate for your soulmate, or worse, when you see how they get hurt in relationships that look highly incompatible from the outside but…

What can you do?

Well, not all is lost, but in order to make a change, there are attitudes that you can modify so that you get this situation to finally move. 

First of all, it is important to understand that soulmate relationships are not necessarily meant to end up as romantic relationships, and in fact, many don’t! Nonetheless, this doesn’t mean that you have no choice but to stay in a situation that is painful for you.  It is also important to note that most soulmate connections are here to teach us lessons. 

You should enlighten yourself and become more open to recieving the lesson by tapping into a form of meditation practice, or anything to do with self help, self awareness and self development. 

Tapping into these practices and learnings will help release alot of tension and hurt that you carry with you through this experience.  And either way, whatever the outcome is, you are stronger to reconnect or move into a better path then are currently in.  

Soulmate connections are powerful

One of the main things that you need to keep in mind is that this sort of connection goes beyond others.  As well, friendship if usually quite underrated but, when you think about it, it is quite often way more reliable than a romantic relationship.

Friendships that last for a lifetime are fairly more common than romantic relationships that last for a lifetime, so don’t underestimate a soulmate relationship in the form of friendship. 

Now, taking this into account, there is still some room for movement when it comes to the friendzone. Taking someone for granted, is poison for all relationships, soulmate or not, so here’s were your power lies.

When your soulmate gets accustomed to your unconditional presence, no matter what, they may not be appreciating you enough, and in this case is when removing yourself from the equation can trigger change.  After all, if you are pursuing romance, it makes no sense to stay for something that you are not looking for, so becoming less available and make your absence felt, can trigger different feelings in your soulmate. 

A different approach

To this is becoming available in the dating pool and let your soulmate see that you are not waiting for them and that you have a romantic life of your own. Knowing that you will be always there, just in case, doesn’t really incite any sort of rush on your soulmate’s end to make a decision, and allows them to continue dating and experimenting, because you will be there at any given point. At this point in the situation, some jealousy could come in really handy!

Also, while love is something else, infatuation is a chemical reaction that can be triggered. Physical touch is your ally in this situation, though be careful to not cross the line and become overly handsy! Touch your soulmate’s forearm, make prolonged eye-contact, hug tight and take advantage of every opportunity that you have to show physical affection in a friendly way.

Activities that increase adrenaline are also incredibly powerful to release serotonine, the hormone of happiness, which triggers feelings of infatuation, so next time you meet up, it could be interesting to do something a little more daring that could be the key to get you two closer.

If none of this works, there are three different options from this point on. First, you may need to face the possibility that your soulmate relationship perhaps is not meant to become romantic, and in this case, you may want to consult an expert on the matter to help you figure it out and give you some guidance about how to move forward. 

A different option is actively working with your feelings so that they match the situation and the friendship doesn’t become frustrating. A thought that helps with this is that your feelings are your own and don’t need reciprocation.

The third one can be tough but healthy in the long way, and it is reminding that even if they are your soulmate, it doesn’t mean that you are obliged to stay in a situation that hurts you, and if the thought of staying friends with someone for whom you have romantic feelings hurts to much, you have the perfect right to remove yourself from it and move on. 

Having a romantic relationship with your soulmate doesn’t necessarily mean the ultimate emotional satisfaction, and you can have a happy romance with a different soulmate or with someone who is not your soulmate at all. 

If you would like to know more about your soulmate relationship or if you are struggling with the soulmate friend zoned category, talk to one of our love psychics today through a chat or phone psychic reading online.

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How to get the best out of your next Psychic Reading http://zenory.co.nz/blog/get-best-next-psychic-reading/ http://zenory.co.nz/blog/get-best-next-psychic-reading/#respond Sat, 22 Jul 2017 07:57:07 +0000 https://www.zenory.com/blog/?p=1481

How to get the best out of your next Psychic Reading?   Psychic Reading and Tarot Readings can be a great way to gain insight into the future and are a common and preferred method for many people who are facing difficulties in areas of love, working life (career) dealing with grief, or any difficult situation … Continue reading

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How to get the best out of your next Psychic Reading?  

Psychic Reading and Tarot Readings can be a great way to gain insight into the future and are a common and preferred method for many people who are facing difficulties in areas of love, working life (career) dealing with grief, or any difficult situation that life has to throw at us.

From Crystal Ball Readings to Tarot cards to psychic reading sessions over the internet through telephony, physic readings have come a long way.  

With the advancement of technology, you no longer have to wait for an appointment to see a phychic today, with built in technology and companies such as Zenory, or other reputable online psychic networks, psychic readings are accessible at the click of a button now.

live psychic readings online now

But, just like for everything else, there are ways to get the maximal output from a psychic reading.   The best part? It works even if you are new to the world of psychic reading or tarot reading online.  

For beginners, these tips can prove really helpful. Let’s check out some reliable ways you can use to make sure that you are getting the best value out of your psychic reading.

Reliable Internet and Telephone Connection

This one counts more as common sense but let’s discuss it nonetheless. In the present time, if you are going to allow a psychic to conduct a reading and reveal some life insights, there is a 90 on 100 chance that you are going to do that over the internet or the telephone.  

In order to have a smooth psychic reading online, you should make sure that there is zero to minimal technical interruption.  Also, on the note of reliability, make sure to read the terms and conditions of the sessions/sites you’re paying for.

Stay Calm

Make sure to set the meeting in a quiet place where there is no noise. That is to say, avoid rooms with or surrounded by television, music or any other sort of audio or visual distraction. Before you begin the session, let go of all your worries.

Take a moment to relax and bring yourself in your calm state. The calmer you are, the stronger the connection you’ll enjoy with your reader. If all your techniques fail, try a few breathing exercises to calm yourself down.

Choose the best psychic reader

This is perhaps the most important part of a psychic reading.  For beginners, choosing a reliable reader is imperative since they have no experience. While deciding for a reader, there are a few things you can keep in mind:

Research:  

We know this can be a tough time, and we understand choosing a reader can be something we do without thinking because we just want to feel painless and to know about your destiny is understood but under no circumstances shall that overlook the efforts you should put into researching different readers and going through their profiles.

Feedback:

listen to what other customers or clients are saying.

The feedback received by a psychic reader online speaks volume about his/her professional practice, character, gifts and delivery style.  

If you’re researching on good websites, you’ll find that these websites filter the feedbacks with respect to consistency, relevance, and authenticity just to provide the user a good feedback.

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feedback psychic readings

Experience and Skills:

Everyone prefers experienced psychic readers. To beginners, there is no other choice.

But experience is not the only thing that counts. Browse through the skills and gifts that readers have to offer and most importantly, the area of their expertise.

If you want advice on love and relationships, for instance, it is only sensible you look for readers who have expertise in this area such as soulmate specialist, an expert in twin-flame connections.

The length of your reading

A good in-depth psychic reading can last for up to at least 30 minutes.  

While planning a psychic reading session, give yourself at least half an hour with your reader.

Write down your questions

This is very important.  Before you start your psychic readings session, it is essential that you have all your questions near you.

Being prepared can help you maintain your focus on the reading, staying calm, without having to remember the questions you wanted to ask.  

So even if you were to get side-tracked in your reading, your list of questions will make sure you don’t forget.  

Taking notes while the reading is in session is also recommended.  

Here is a list of example questions that you may ask

  1. When will (NAME) contact me next?
  2. How does he/she feel about me?
  3. Does he/she still love me?
  4. Do you see me getting that job?
  5. Why is he/she acting the way they are?
  6. Is he/she cheating on me?
  7. Do you see myself getting married within the next year or two?
  8. What do you see for myself and (NAME) in this relationship?
  9. Will this relationship grow?
  10. Do we have a future together?

As excited as you may be about your reading, it is imperative to remember that psychics are not cookie cutters, and they cannot always guarantee the outcome of your reading as nothing is set in stone.

That is to say, there are questions you will not get answers to. For instance, questions relating to medical conditions.

If you need to ask for medical advice, you need to speak with your Doctor.

Here is a list of questions not to ask

  1. Am I pregnant?
  2. When will I win the lotto?
  3. Do I need to go to the doctors?
  4. I have a lump, is it cancerous?
  5. What do I look like?
  6. What does my future partner look like?
  7. Can you guess my name?
  8. What do you see for me? (General and vague questions)

Some of these questions are not possible for a psychic or tarot reader to answer.  

Try to avoid asking questions that are too vague and ask direct and specific questions instead.

Conclusion

don’t get your hopes up.  Go into the reading session with an open mind.  Be ready for the truth.  Your reader isn’t always going to give you the best news, sugar coat anything or tell you what you want to hear.  

Be ready to hear the truth and be ready to take this on the chin.  Your reader may also give you tips and coping strategies to deal with any bad news, delivered with compassion.

You can also be sure to read about our Psychic Quality and how we vet our readers to give you the confidence you need to proceed.  We also offer a risk-free 10 min trial period for you to gain some confidence in our system and the reader of your choice.

Have you had any bad or good experiences with psychic readings?  

We would love to hear your thoughts.

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Let go of the past, including your ex http://zenory.co.nz/blog/finally-let-go-past-something-better-comes-along/ http://zenory.co.nz/blog/finally-let-go-past-something-better-comes-along/#respond Sat, 09 Jul 2016 04:21:43 +0000 https://www.zenory.com/blog/?p=1167

“When you finally let go of the past, something better comes along” It’s never easy getting over the pain of previous dysfunctional relationship.  Even though you may feel more in control of your feelings, the pain and hurt from such a past may still linger into the present, even after you have moved on, if … Continue reading

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“When you finally let go of the past, something better comes along”

It’s never easy getting over the pain of previous dysfunctional relationship. 

Even though you may feel more in control of your feelings, the pain and hurt from such a past may still linger into the present, even after you have moved on, if that’s relationship or friendship wise whatever it maybe.

There can be many aspects where you will find yourself reliving your past relationship antics into a new one.  Comparing your new partner to an ex-relationship which left you broken to name one thing.   In an attempt to safeguard your heart out of fear that your new love interest may just turn around and repeat the same thing, You’re stuck living in that past.

As we fear reliving that heart ache experience again, being cheated on, being lied to, or manipulation from your previous lover to keep you stuck can be terrifying experiences.  The thought of these past experiences ever happening again can make you feel uncertain about situations moving forward, and keep you stuck in a disruptive cycle that you may not see yourself.  In most cases what we often forget is that we are bringing old baggage into the present, therefore tormenting our current love interest who is mostly caring, loving, and honest which was actually bitterness feeding from your past. 

Most people do not realize that they are living in a space that is actually tarnishing their chances of new love, new opportunities, relationships/friendship wise, instead of letting go of resentment and bitterness.

“You can’t reach what’s in front of you, until you let go of what is behind you.”  Once you realize this, things will start to unfold and we gain more control and happiness in our lives.  Learning new coping strategies to help you deal with the pain and heal can help you move out of the old and into the new.

How to manage your thoughts: 

When I found out my ex-partner had cheated on me, I couldn’t stop thinking about what I was doing wrong, and what the other person was doing right.  I couldn’t stop thinking about why I wasn’t good enough, and why things had changed, why my ex had changed.  I thought back to so many ways in which I went above and beyond for her needs, and therefore started to think all this wasn’t enough.  No matter how much you give someone or care for them, they will cheat regardless.  I would constantly picture him with another woman, the thoughts never made me angry, only put me into a place of self-pity and unworthiness thoughts.

All I was ever thinking was “how on earth could he do this to me? Why would he throw away everything we had, shared, our love? None of this made any sense.  And while he had seemed to move on, I was suffering in silence.  This all turned into destructive behaviour to the point where I had to turn away, and move on.  This was a hard shift after focusing myself on him, and building our future together.   Instead of dwelling on the pain, I needed to find a way to let go of the pain and bring myself back to earth.  I turned to a love psychic who brought me out of this destructive pattern and therefore gave me hope again to feel more in control and empowered.

I began to learn ways to cope with the hurt, often saying instead of asking myself why he chose someone over me?  I would often remind myself that I was better off with someone who treats me with love and respect.

Every time I did this, I began to feel less and less resentment.  Changing my thoughts and feelings helped me to understand myself more and love me more and moved on with my life.

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Self Sabotage – Get out of your own way Doing something we know is going to sabotage what we plan do, we open our mouth, we procrastinate or just do something that we seem to not be able to not do. It’s called Self-Sabotage and it creates problems for us all and interferes with our … Continue reading

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Self Sabotage – Get out of your own way

Doing something we know is going to sabotage what we plan do, we open our mouth, we procrastinate or just do something that we seem to not be able to not do. It’s called Self-Sabotage and it creates problems for us all and interferes with our long-term and even short term goal.

By far the number one self-sabotaging behavior is procrastination but there are others that include drinking, comfort eating and in the more hectic cases self-injury.  At the time we are doing what we are doing it seems so worthwhile but the end result is nearly always the same and it is not good or not what we hoped for and yet many people seem to engage in self-sabotage repeatedly.

Most people are not even aware that what they are doing is sabotage, a lot of what’s happening happens at a subconscious level or happens in a way that it is believed to be helping.  There is no guarantee that someone will stop doing something even if a certain behavior is proven to be self-sabotaging to them but it is a possible to overcome nearly all acts of self-sabotage that people do and it can be stopped every time and we can get out of our own way.

Some things are simple, some take some specialist help and there are even computer programs that can help but here are 5 simple steps to overcome self-sabotage that anyone can use.

Recognition

First of all you need to recognise that what you are doing is self-sabotage and recognise the activity or behavior and any linked behavior.

Change of thought

A lot of self-sabotage comes as a result of negative thinking. Whilst it is challenging to change instant thoughts you can change how you respond. To react is a knee-jerk reaction to respond requires you to slow down, pause and consider the positives and the negatives and then choose the positives. Change the way you think.

Take action

You next need to take action, move forward with whatever you need to do. Believing in your positives thoughts the action doing removes distractions. Once you have got into what you need to do and need to accomplish you feel more positive and this in itself removes that self-sabotaging habit, especially the procrastination that is often top of the list for us all.

Be thankful

A positive, thankful and grateful mind creates a very different attitude in a person. Look around you and while you may see misery, debt or even a huge work load – as I write this I am sat with a 6 massive deadlines – and it doesn’t look good. Take a second look, find something to be grateful for, find two and then find ten and feel the immediate change within yourself.  Self-Sabotage is defeated by being grateful and thankful

Reward yourself

The most important thing, especially for me, is to reward myself. Plan the reward, this will allow you to focus on something positive when you have done what you need to do.  The reward will block out the negativity and become a powerful tool in your overcoming of self-sabotage.

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Psychic Readings in Christchurch http://zenory.co.nz/blog/psychic-readings-christchurch/ http://zenory.co.nz/blog/psychic-readings-christchurch/#respond Tue, 17 Feb 2015 08:31:48 +0000 http://zenory.co.nz/blog/?p=708

When you are feeling disenchanted with the way in which your life is headed, a psychic reading can put joy back in your life.  Whether it is your interpersonal relationships, career choices or money problems that are bringing you down, a psychic reading will help in uncovering the root of your unhappiness and find a … Continue reading

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When you are feeling disenchanted with the way in which your life is headed, a psychic reading can put joy back in your life.  Whether it is your interpersonal relationships, career choices or money problems that are bringing you down, a psychic reading will help in uncovering the root of your unhappiness and find a solution for turning that back around.

There is no escaping the troubles of day to day life.  You can however escape that overwhelmed feeling it creates by learning which aspects are weighing you down. Once you uncover those, a psychic reading will enlighten you on how to remove that burden off of your shoulders and focus your energy on finding tranquility and love in your life.

There is no denying that humans crave companionship. We seek compatible individuals who we believe can fill empty voids in our own self.  With a psychic reading, you are going to find that true love will only come when you fill those voids. It will show you how to love yourself first, so that others may love you too. The ideal companions are not filling those voids rather they are complementing your whole self.

In order to fill the empty places in your life, you first must recognise what your goals are.

 What symbolises complete happiness for you?

Is it true love?

the perfect family?

Or maybe it is the ideal career?

Whatever your answer, this is where you and your psychic will focus the readings.  Finding inner peace is just the beginning of getting on the path to a life you love.

With complete privacy and confidentiality, you can contact Zenory psychic readings Christchurch whenever you are in need of compassionate advice from a psychic who is able to understand your inner turmoil. Never hesitate before giving that attention to your troubles.

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Private & Confiential Online Psychic Readings http://zenory.co.nz/blog/online-psychic-readings-private/ http://zenory.co.nz/blog/online-psychic-readings-private/#respond Mon, 05 Jan 2015 12:02:00 +0000 http://zenory.co.nz/blog/?p=624

Online psychic readings are a valuable way to gain insights into your relationships, career prospects, finances, true love and so much more.  With the internet, it is now easier than ever to get this important information from our expert psychic readers, within a comfortable, private setting. While people used to have to leave home to … Continue reading

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Online psychic readings are a valuable way to gain insights into your relationships, career prospects, finances, true love and so much more.  With the internet, it is now easier than ever to get this important information from our expert psychic readers, within a comfortable, private setting.

While people used to have to leave home to attend a psychic reading in person, this is no longer the case.  You can now conveniently chat online with any one of our psychics listed on ZENORY whenever you want, all without leaving your home.

Have insightful conversations about what the future holds for you, all from whatever location you want.  All that you need is an internet connection. You can chat via desktop computer, laptop, tablet or smartphone as well.  You can talk by phone if you prefer that option instead.

Our professional team of psychic readers include skilled psychic life coaches, clairvoyants, and expert mediums. You can read their full profiles on our site and simply select the one you prefer, based on their talents, specialties and more.

Online psychic chats are highly valuable as they provide you with details about your love life or job that you simply cannot get anywhere else. You do not have to see the psychic reader or be in the same room, which helps you feel more comfortable about opening up honestly about any issues you want to discuss. Our online psychic readings are totally private. We consider your privacy and confidentiality of supreme importance.

Whenever you want to have online psychic readings, it is as easy as going onto our website and selecting your preferred reader. When you have a dilemma, there’s no longer a need to be in limbo about it. Get excellent advice from our gifted psychic readers online today!

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Auckland Psychic Readings Online http://zenory.co.nz/blog/auckland-psychic-readings-online/ http://zenory.co.nz/blog/auckland-psychic-readings-online/#respond Sun, 04 Jan 2015 11:19:32 +0000 http://zenory.co.nz/blog/?p=617

Auckland Psychic Readings Online Life is full of obstacles that can keep you from feeling fulfilled. You may be troubled with personal and relationship problems.  Or issues at work that are affecting your finances.  These types of heavy burdens will wear you down and eventually have a negative impact on all aspects of your life. … Continue reading

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Auckland Psychic Readings Online

Life is full of obstacles that can keep you from feeling fulfilled. You may be troubled with personal and relationship problems.  Or issues at work that are affecting your finances.  These types of heavy burdens will wear you down and eventually have a negative impact on all aspects of your life.

Our quality psychic reading services spread through out Auckland can help you examine those obstacles from the inside out.  A psychic reading can help you see those problems from a new perspective and find an effective solution to overcoming them.

Seeking advice from friends and family members cannot match the relief that an online psychic can provide. From the comfort of your own home, our advanced communication platform can get you connected with a psychic within minutes.  For those seeking our Auckland Psychic Readings Online services,  you have come to the right place.

Are you feeling too entwined in your personal life to give an unbiased opinion?

A psychic reading online Auckland offers you facts that can set you straight, gain you the confidence and clarity, instead of left feeling stuck and in the lurch.  Let our gifted psychics guide you to see the real truth behind what is holding you back from happiness.

What makes an online psychic reading Auckland stand out is the convenience.  Problems in your life can present themselves at any time of the day or night and any day of the week.  Gone a the days where you needed to wait for your psychic to open their door when a personal crises strikes.  Whenever you feel the need for a reliable psychic reading and sound guidance in your life choices, an online psychic is there for you.

The spiritual guidance you need is always going to be available to you with an online psychic reading.  They can assist you with gaining a clear direction towards a future that is right for you and those that you love.

Stop allowing outside pressures from keeping you from your true destiny.  Let an online psychic reading Auckland help you uncover what that destiny is, and put you on the fastest path towards it.

“We don’t want you to remain stuck in a situation that keeps you from moving forward” ~ ZENORY PSYCHICS

 

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Everyday you are making conscious and unconscious decisions that steer you away from enduring friendships and love. These decisions take you off the path to your true destiny. With the help of Psychic Readings Online Wellington, you will make better life choices that bring you peace and happiness.  Your heart and mind are gripped by … Continue reading

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Everyday you are making conscious and unconscious decisions that steer you away from enduring friendships and love. These decisions take you off the path to your true destiny. With the help of Psychic Readings Online Wellington, you will make better life choices that bring you peace and happiness.

 Your heart and mind are gripped by negative emotions everyday. Feelings such as worry, anger, hurt and fear misguide you when basing life choices around them. With a psychic reading comes an understanding of where those emotions are coming from, and how to hurdle them to get to inner peace.

If you were to define the meaning of life, what would it be? A psychic reading shows you that the true meaning for all of our existence is to find love and happiness. Yet you are burdened with negative emotions that stand in your way of these goals. With the knowledge of the meaning behind your life will come advice and suggestions for how to put aside those negative thoughts and focus only on finding that love and happiness.

Psychic readings online wellington provide a completely confidential environment, welcoming you at all times of the day and night. When ever you are overcome by despair, a trusted psychic is waiting to guide you through it and help in making the right decision that is true to your life’s mission.

In today’s hectic world, one can never have too much support, especially when it is coming from a trusted psychic whose only interest is in your inner peace and tranquility. You can not find that type of guidance and security in even your closest relationships. When the worries of the world are bearing down on your shoulders, trust in the psychic readings online Wellington. They can help remove those burdens and move forward towards love and peace.

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