5 more ways to get Closure after a messy breakup There are many times in our life when we must find closure after a lost love, and it is always a difficult time. You will need to trust that closure will come no matter if all it takes is a conversation, or if you need … Continue reading
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]]>There are many times in our life when we must find closure after a lost love, and it is always a difficult time.
You will need to trust that closure will come no matter if all it takes is a conversation, or if you need to have a psychic reading to help you out.
If you don’t let go and move on from a relationship, it can cause you to lack the emotional availability to let others into your life in future. You will know when you have had closure because it feels like a sense of finality and resolution.
Often, it gives you the ability to walk away understanding what you need to do to move on with your life.
This doesn’t have to mean you can let people in again right away, but that you can successfully focus on your own healing.
This blog will outline 5 common ways people choose to go about gaining closure. Every breakup is different, so these are not sure-fire rules that will feel like clockwork.
Closure takes time. It’s important to have the patience and tolerance that one day you will experience it.
If you’re on speaking terms with your ex, closure can be received from a conversation. It can be tricky to do this straight after a breakup, because the angry and hurt feelings you experience towards each other are at their strongest and will overwhelm the conversation.
You will know in your heart when it is time to reach out for closure’s sake – it will be when you no longer think of them and feel rage build up, or long for what could have been.
When you have this conversation, the main thing you need to ask to gain closure – even though you may hate to hear the answers – is ‘why?’’ This question has probably been burning inside you and you need to ask it to feel at peace.
By asking it, the aim is to finally understand the situation from their perspective, as closure comes through empathy. Ask all the questions you need to in order to begin to feel that empathy and try your hardest to be open to it.
A support system is key to gaining any closure, because after a break up you will often feel the need to vent, and you cannot move forward without letting out your emotions as they occur.
Whether it is a group of friends, a family member, or a beloved pet, make sure you have someone you can express your emotions to as they come.
A support system should be free of judgement, be able to comfort you in your time of need and let you vent without hesitation or anxieties.
They can be hard to find, so treasure your support system if you have one, but don’t waste time with those who don’t feel authentic with their support.
Letters are a powerful way to gain closure, and they can be a great alternative to a physical support system.
Let the person who hurt you know everything you are feeling. You don’t need to send them; just writing things down on paper is enough to get it out of your overwhelmed head.
Keeping a notebook and a pen handy when your hurt feelings are fresh is a really great idea.
This gives you the opportunity to write down your emotions as soon as they start to rise to the surface can provide you with a lot of clarity and free you of the harms that come with keeping things bottled up.
This is one step further from writing letters. If words just aren’t cutting it, it’s time to take a tactile approach. One way to do this is to collect all the items that are left of the person who hurt you.
These can be photographic memories, gifts, their belongings – anything that is physical and that you still have hanging around. These items will have surely bothered you since being hurt and their presence is no longer necessary in your life.
It doesn’t matter that the piece of jewellery they gave you was expensive, or that you only have that one copy of a particular photograph of the two of you. In order to let go of that person from your life, you need to physically let go of the associations they hold.
Once you have collected the items, what you do with them will ultimately be how you symbolise your ability to let go. If you keep them in a box – in your room or in the attic, that’s not letting go as you are still hoarding these items. Throw them out!
If you are really struggling to gain closure and these tips have not helped, it could mean many things in accordance with the universe.
Maybe the two of you were not meant to be over just yet, or maybe there is still a lesson to be learned from your relationship that has not yet been learned.
Getting a psychic reading can assist you in deciphering what the universe is trying to tell you from this situation and aid you towards your correct path.
If you wish to speak to an online psychic to help you gain closure, our team of professional psychics are available at the click of a button. Find the psychic that is right for you and find closure today.
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]]>What is the difference between Soulmates and Twin flames> Soulmates: different souls that we encounter on our path that are cut from the same “energetic cloth” as us and are sent to help awaken and challenge us so we can become the best versions of ourselves. Twin Flames: when our own “energetic cloth” grows so big with … Continue reading
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]]>Soulmates: different souls that we encounter on our path that are cut from the same “energetic cloth” as us and are sent to help awaken and challenge us so we can become the best versions of ourselves.
Twin Flames: when our own “energetic cloth” grows so big with love that our energy splits into two. This other half becomes our Twin Flame. This often occurs over many, many lifetimes.
The higher purpose of a Soulmate relationship is the growth and evolution of ones own consciousness, whereas the higher purpose for Twin Flames is creating a higher vibration and consciousness for the entire planet through ascending together.
Essentially, Soulmate relationships help us to raise our own consciousness, whereas Twin Flame relationships have the effect of raising the consciousness for the entire planet.
More often than not, you will work with both Soulmates and Twin Flames over the course of many lifetimes.
Everyone has Soulmates but not everyone has a Twin Flame.
This does not mean that a Twin Flame is just reserved for “special people”. We are all souls sent here for a unique, special experience and that experience may include a Twin Flame, or it may not.
Soulmates can be relatives, friends or lovers. Often the purpose of the Soulmate relationship is to help you both grow and evolve into your fullest potential.
Soulmates can come and go from our lives as necessary, but usually their entrance into our lives can feel fated, like we have known them before and that there is a strong bond or connection.
Soulmate relationships can also be romantic, however they don’t have to be.
While we have many Soulmates, we can only have one Twin Flame and often the purpose of this relationship is not just romantic.
Even though a romantic relationship can occur between Twin Flames, the purpose is much, much greater and is beyond this earthly plane.
When Twin Flames come together, it is often to achieve something on an energetic level to help expand the consciousness of the planet.
Usually when Twin Flames unite, there is a strong desire for them both to create something together that is going to help raise the consciousness of the planet.
It often takes many lifetimes for Twin Flames to achieve this, so it could be possible that you meet your Twin Flame, but are unable to complete your mission together just yet.
Once you have both learnt to master the relationship, you will both ascend together and complete your work away from the physical dimension of earth.
Unlike Soulmate relationships, Twin Flame relationships often don’t focus too much on “challenges” and instead focus more on growth.
While Soulmate relationships can be awakening and can help you to discover who you truly are, Twin Flame relationships are about coming together for the service of others
With Twin Flame relationships, the magnetic pull is always going to be there on a strong level. With Soulmates, the magnetic pull may change in strength depending on where you are both at in your evolution.
So, you should now be able to tell the difference between Soulmates and Twin Flames relationships – here are a few tips
Soulmate Relationships:
Often soulmate relationships are experienced on a mind, body and soul level, whereas Twin Flame relationships are experienced on a mind, body, soul and celestial/Universal level.
There are also no real rules with this, so the ultimate way to determine the difference between Soulmates and Twin Flames is to follow your own intuition and what feels right to you.
Sometimes it can be difficult to determine the difference between Soulmates and Twin Flames, however away from labels, it doesn’t really matter what type of relationship you are in as long as it feels good to you.
Learn more about: Soulmates and Twin Flames when you speak to one of Zenorys top psychic readers.
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]]>Many people want to attract or manifest their soulmate into their life, at most times we long for a deep desire to connect with someone on a spiritual level, such is our soulmate. However, during your time alone, before the universe will bring this soul into your life, you should know these 5 common factors … Continue reading
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]]>Many people want to attract or manifest their soulmate into their life, at most times we long for a deep desire to connect with someone on a spiritual level, such is our soulmate. However, during your time alone, before the universe will bring this soul into your life, you should know these 5 common factors that could be preventing you from manifesting your soulmate.
Relationships are like food to the soul, essential for its growth and invariably necessary for our sustenance as a person.
If the soul is happy, the individual regardless of the prevailing societal and physical setting is happy; it’s the reason why people who have found their soulmates; that final piece to the Jigsaw puzzle that is their lives radiate nothing short of a blissful aura.
For those who are yet to find this perfect complement to their lives, life can be lackluster and fleeting. If you fall into this category, here are the top five reasons as to why manifesting your soulmate has been a fruitless endeavor so far.
Your soulmate is the one who loves and cherish you for the person you are, irrespective of your flaws and perfections. How then can you connect with such an individual if your real persona is constantly veiled?
Granted, life forces even the most resilient of us to create an emotional blockade in a bid to prevent the reoccurrence of previously less than pleasurable experiences.
The realisation that such a barrier effectively transforms you from a being capable of infinite love to one with a constrained view of life is critical to the furtherance of your journey towards finding a soulmate.
Your soulmate is attracted to your real persona. If you exude anything other than this in your day to day life, you are most likely to attract the wrong set of individuals; who are bound to waste your time and potentiate further emotional scarring and invariably the building of even taller blockades.
As much as finding a soulmate is often described with the cliché ‘they will come to you’ phrase, it is imperative to note that in most instances this is far from what is obtainable in reality. Locating your treasured missing rib takes effort, it takes commitment, and sacrifice.
The saying ‘nothing good comes easy’ comes to mind; the right soulmate, the perfect fit, do not come easy.
For sure they are not delivered on a platter of gold if anything you’ve got to fashion out the golden platter on which they’d land when they come; in other words, you’ve got to take the necessary steps to accommodate your soul mate when they do arrive. Many an instance where individuals have lost their prospective soulmates due to negligence.
It takes an emotionally sound mind to locate and abhor/accommodate a soulmate. And while most singles (including you) identify themselves as emotionally matured, in the real sense they are not.
Emotional maturity is not centred on how many relationships or experiences you’ve had in the past, it is more of how capable you are at dealing with relationships and their accompanying issues.
A matured individual in this sense is one who is ready to take up responsibilities; one who is willing to forgive and also keep an open mind. This doesn’t mean you have to be perfect in all ramifications; it just means that you have to invest more time in developing yourself.
Picture yourself as your partner, and work on those qualities you require your dream soulmate to have.
Maybe due to past experiences or perhaps because of your very nature you’ve made a habit of separating yourself from everyone including those that love you.
This psyche aptly described as being a loner isolates you from experiencing the feeling of being loved; a feeling that is critical to finding a soul mate. It is when you’re loved that you can love back and it is in this atmosphere of mutual love and friendship that soulmate relationships thrive.
It’s a tough and mentally demanding task to let go of the past, especially when it is filled with pleasant memories made with someone whom we once loved dearly.
Reliving those memories and wishing things returned to the way they were, clouds your sense of judgment and ultimately shuts the door of healthy relationships in your life.
If you’re going to find your soulmate, you have to let go of the past, no matter how difficult it seems realize that if that person were indeed your soulmate, he/she would still be here by your side in the present.
Talking with a online psychic can help you weed through the struggles you might be facing when it comes to love. Our love psychics can guide you through a soulmate psychic reading, or a online tarot reading to help you find the factors that might be preventing you from manifesting your soulmate.
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]]>Signs your relationship wasn’t meant to last Sometimes you’ll discover the relationship wasn’t meant to last because of what your lover or partner does not say. We’re not always aware of the obvious. Have you ever thought about what your lover DOES NOT SAY, rather than what your lover does say? Sometimes, nothing is what it seems to be! … Continue reading
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]]>Signs your relationship wasn’t meant to last
Sometimes you’ll discover the relationship wasn’t meant to last because of what your lover or partner does not say.
We’re not always aware of the obvious. Have you ever thought about what your lover DOES NOT SAY, rather than what your lover does say?
Sometimes, nothing is what it seems to be! Did your experience teach you something about yourself that you needed to change, or did your experience teach you something about someone else, a revelation that took the wind out of your sails because you felt like a weed that was plucked out of your lover’s garden?
Sometimes you’ll discover the relationship wasn’t meant to last because your partner pulled away and stopped answering texts and phone calls. The relationship started out like a romantic whirlwind, but ended as fast as it started!
Sometimes you need to dial 911 for higher-self and listen to that little voice (the whisperer) that talks to you and keeps you safe!
You need to pay more attention to your initial gut feeling because your gut usually knows when something feels amiss, or maybe you needed to start decoding the dreams you were experiencing and what these dreams were telling you, or maybe you just had a strong hunch that followed you around like an irritant for a reason because something did not feel right!
Sometimes you’ll discover the relationship wasn’t meant to last because your partner picked on you for everything you did.
Where you in a: It’s-my-way-or-the-highway- relationship?
Did your partner control the relationship or did your partner have a caustic tongue and say hurtful things to you?
Did you lose your personality and walk on egg shells to keep the peace?
This is the sign that your partner does not respect you and probably does not respect others.
Did your partner threaten you and say that the grass is greener elsewhere if you did not agree with his or her way of thinking. This is also a sign that your partner might be cheating on you and comparing you with someone else.
I learned early on to put this type of fire out the second it starts. You need to face the heat of the lion that roars at you at that moment, so the lion does not devour you!
You need to stand up for yourself and be firm about your beliefs or you risk losing yourself and getting hurt, spending years in the house of self-undoing to heal yourself!
Decode Bug 4:
Sometimes you’ll discover the relationship wasn’t meant to last because your partner is still in love with someone in the past.
Did you hang onto a relationship with hopes that your partner would choose you after he or she healed? Did the relationship end up as a friends-with-benefits-relationship or a sexual relationship because the past hindered your partner’s future because he or she was still stuck in the baleful ghosts of the past!
Bravo for taking a risk, because if we do not take risks, we do not grow, but be careful with what kind of risks you take, especially if you have high expectations! Did you know that everyone heals differently? Statistics say that a 5 years relationship takes about 2.5 years to heal…
You need to be careful when you meet someone and make sure the baggage of the past is long gone and not following that person around!
Decode Bug 5:
Sometimes you’ll discover the relationship wasn’t meant to last because your partner’s family have decided on a marriage within the same religion or ethnicity and you did not meet the requirements!
Both of you were passionately in love with each other, but your partner would not go against family. Later, the relationship ends because the family found the right mate for your partner and planned the marriage, and the passionate relationship ended painfully!
I have never found a happy ending with this kind of situation, and my advice is DO NOT get close to anyone that only believes in family arranged marriages.
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]]>1. Lights Flickering/ Bulbs going out: Many people have unexplained lights flickering in their homes, or bulbs that blow for no reason. They replace them and they go again. There could be an explanation for this but often an electrician is called out only to find no fault. When the lights flicker it’s often someone … Continue reading
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]]>1. Lights Flickering/ Bulbs going out:
Many people have unexplained lights flickering in their homes, or bulbs that blow for no reason. They replace them and they go again. There could be an explanation for this but often an electrician is called out only to find no fault. When the lights flicker it’s often someone from the other side trying to contact you, so just ask in your mind, “Who is this please”? A face or a name will come to you. Don’t dismiss it and think oh it’s my imagination just trust your thoughts.
2. Music Playing
Often people will hear a piece of music that reminds them of someone that has passed over. You may turn on the radio and hear a piece of music that was played at their funeral, it’s just them saying hello!
3. Butterflies
Butterflies are beautiful creatures, their colors are just beautiful but they are not around for very long, like us we cannot live forever here on earth. When you see a butterfly, sometimes it means a transformation has taken place, a sign from a loved one that they have transformed over to the other side. In Chinese legend seeing a butterfly can mean a soul has come to see you from the other side, so if a face or a voice comes into your mind it is the soul of that person acknowledging you and letting you know that they are around you.
4. Numbers
Do you ever look at the clock and see the same time over and over again – this can be at any time of the day. There is a number that’s being shown to a lot of people lately, the number 11.11. They say that at this time of day or night there is a doorway opening from the other side and we have one minute to repeat over and over again our hopes and wishes, then the door closes. It’s a gateway of very high energy. The number 11 is a master number in numerology so putting it together with another 11 is very powerful. So, next time you see 11.11, you have one minute to think of all things positive.
5. Feathers
Often we will find a feather that comes from nowhere. It can be a loved one showing they are around as a sign from them. Or if you are out walking and all of a sudden a feather appears in you path the angels are accompanying you.
6. Phone Ringing Once
This is an interesting one, quite a few people say they still have their loved one’s mobile phone and that their own phones have rung with their loved one’s number coming up on the screen. Spirit still thinks of their phone as their connection to you and that’s what they would do if they wanted to speak to you, but of course if you were to pick up you would not hear them. Sound on the other side is a very different vibration to the sound on earth and you need to really tune in to what you are hearing from the spirit would, which takes practice!
7. Orbs in Photos
A lot of people are capturing orbs in their phones and cameras, orbs have always been there but due to the fast speed of iPhone’s and cameras we can see them more easily as we no longer need to get films processed and developed anymore. So what are these balls of light? They are spirit and they are just letting us know that they are around us. They can often be seen in family photos taken at birthdays, Christmas, weddings and christenings. They want to say that they are still part of the family but just in another world and that they have never really left you.
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]]>Don’t let yourself be the victim to someone else’s bitterness Just because someone you know or even love is bitter you do not have to be so. Sometimes when someone you know or love is bitter it is a case of damned if you and damned if you don’t no matter what side you choose … Continue reading
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]]>Just because someone you know or even love is bitter you do not have to be so. Sometimes when someone you know or love is bitter it is a case of damned if you and damned if you don’t no matter what side you choose to take. By taking a stand with them or against them or just simply not taking a stand at all you become a victim. Trapped.
Divorce is a case where the bitterness of one partner against the other can lead a circle of friends to take sides and when that bitterness overflows outside of the divorce court multiple lives can be harmed, hurt or damaged.
It takes a lot of strength to stand up and not become a victim of the bitterness of someone else. Try and calm them down and you get your head bitten off because “you don’t understand” and stand with them especially when you are not quite sure of the big picture means others you know will say “what are you doing?”. You really cannot win.
Bitterness and anger can brew up in all of us and any of us but to avoid being a victim of their bitterness just needs you to be strong and ensure your mind is clear. It is easy to be drawn into the bitterness, it may even feel safe, but to avoid becoming a victim you need to get the facts. Knowing what is making the person bitter allows you to make an educated decision as to where you stand and then should you choose to join them in their bitterness you may have an argument. But very often there is something personal about the bitterness and the anger is really just an attention seeking technique and the only way you can help that person overcome their bitterness is to not sink the same level.
Keeping a clear head and not being influenced about someone’s bitterness gets a matter resolved easier. In the workplace it is very easy to become bitter at someone but the real leader rises up when they don’t choose sides but rather try and resolve the matter. It is a powerful gift to be not drawn into the bitterness of someone else, keeping level headed and yet showing enough concern and compassion allows you to become a victor of the matter rather than a victim.
It is often not easy; often there are a pile of emotions attached to the matter in you and the other party. Sometimes you may feel it is not even your place to interfere but somehow you know you have to and this is where the clear head and calm thinking works to your advantage. By remaining calm, trying to understand the facts and finding the trigger for the bitterness is essential, it may just be a simple apology or it may be, as it often in is a divorce case something a much deeper. Either way by keeping calm and being strong, even assertive means you can’t and even won’t become a victim of someone else’s bitterness.
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]]>Self Sabotage – Get out of your own way Doing something we know is going to sabotage what we plan do, we open our mouth, we procrastinate or just do something that we seem to not be able to not do. It’s called Self-Sabotage and it creates problems for us all and interferes with our … Continue reading
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]]>Self Sabotage – Get out of your own way
Doing something we know is going to sabotage what we plan do, we open our mouth, we procrastinate or just do something that we seem to not be able to not do. It’s called Self-Sabotage and it creates problems for us all and interferes with our long-term and even short term goal.
By far the number one self-sabotaging behavior is procrastination but there are others that include drinking, comfort eating and in the more hectic cases self-injury. At the time we are doing what we are doing it seems so worthwhile but the end result is nearly always the same and it is not good or not what we hoped for and yet many people seem to engage in self-sabotage repeatedly.
Most people are not even aware that what they are doing is sabotage, a lot of what’s happening happens at a subconscious level or happens in a way that it is believed to be helping. There is no guarantee that someone will stop doing something even if a certain behavior is proven to be self-sabotaging to them but it is a possible to overcome nearly all acts of self-sabotage that people do and it can be stopped every time and we can get out of our own way.
Some things are simple, some take some specialist help and there are even computer programs that can help but here are 5 simple steps to overcome self-sabotage that anyone can use.
Recognition
First of all you need to recognise that what you are doing is self-sabotage and recognise the activity or behavior and any linked behavior.
Change of thought
A lot of self-sabotage comes as a result of negative thinking. Whilst it is challenging to change instant thoughts you can change how you respond. To react is a knee-jerk reaction to respond requires you to slow down, pause and consider the positives and the negatives and then choose the positives. Change the way you think.
Take action
You next need to take action, move forward with whatever you need to do. Believing in your positives thoughts the action doing removes distractions. Once you have got into what you need to do and need to accomplish you feel more positive and this in itself removes that self-sabotaging habit, especially the procrastination that is often top of the list for us all.
Be thankful
A positive, thankful and grateful mind creates a very different attitude in a person. Look around you and while you may see misery, debt or even a huge work load – as I write this I am sat with a 6 massive deadlines – and it doesn’t look good. Take a second look, find something to be grateful for, find two and then find ten and feel the immediate change within yourself. Self-Sabotage is defeated by being grateful and thankful
Reward yourself
The most important thing, especially for me, is to reward myself. Plan the reward, this will allow you to focus on something positive when you have done what you need to do. The reward will block out the negativity and become a powerful tool in your overcoming of self-sabotage.
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]]>#1: When did you begin offering Psychic Readings? I started giving readings at a young age. Practicing on family members and friends. #2: What do you love most about helping people? I walk and guide people through the most traumatic and challenging times of their lives. It’s tough but I know with just a little … Continue reading
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]]>#1: When did you begin offering Psychic Readings?
I started giving readings at a young age. Practicing on family members and friends.
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]]>7 Things to Consider Before You Contact Your Ex How long has it been? Break ups are hard but conventional wisdom, sage advice and loads of experience tell us that time heals all wounds. While that may not be entirely true, it goes a long way when it comes to a break up. If you … Continue reading
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]]>7 Things to Consider Before You Contact Your Ex
Break ups are hard but conventional wisdom, sage advice and loads of experience tell us that time heals all wounds. While that may not be entirely true, it goes a long way when it comes to a break up.
If you and your beloved just split last week, it is probably too soon to make contact. Some experts advise a period of at least 30 days with no contact at all, after which you can examine your feelings and motives further and perhaps reconsider.
Did a special anniversary just pass for you and your ex? Did you hear a song that reminds you of him or her on the radio? Did you find a keepsake that made you feel nostalgic for your time together? If there is some sentimental reason that you can identify associated with a sudden desire to make contact, you may want to give it some time for that emotion to pass so that you can step back and look at the situation a little more objectively before you reach out.
This is important and requires some solid self-examination. Are you hoping to get back together? Do you just want to know how the person is doing as a friend who was a significant part of your life for a time? Are you looking for answers about the break up? Are you hoping he or she has changed? Before you make contact with your ex, you need to be honest with yourself about what you are hoping to get out of it, consider whether the expectation is appropriate or reasonable and give some thought to how it could turn out.
Since this is most often the desire of the person reaching out to an ex, it deserves special attention and consideration. If this is your goal, try your best to realistically assess the chances of a reunion actually happening, and try to assess how you will react if you are rejected. Is the risk worth the possibility of experiencing the pain of the break up all over again.
There is a reason why you are not together anymore. Before you open yourself up to the possibility of any type of relationship with your ex (romantic or otherwise), take a look at that reason. People can change, but the truth is that they most often do not. If you are hoping that whatever problematic behaviors or personality traits your ex had have promptly disappeared, you may be wrong. If you are hoping that he or she will suddenly be more tolerant of whatever it was about you that seemed insurmountable before, again, you may be wrong. Look at the reasons for the break up and consider whether you really believe the obstacles to your relationship can be overcome or if you are just giving in to sentimentality.
Before you make contact with an ex, make sure that you are in a good emotional and mental place to do so. Be sure that you are in touch with who you are and what you want from relationships with important people in your life. Be clear with yourself about what you are willing to compromise on and what you are not so that you don’t find yourself right back where you started.
Again, be honest and true to yourself. If you are questioning whether getting back in touch with your ex is a good decision at all, that may be your gut telling you that it’s not. Imagine your life going forward, is your ex an essential part of it? Really? Be clear before you reach out and risk falling back into a bad pattern.
Before you throw yourself out there to make contact with your ex, speak with myself or anyone of the love psychics at Zenory that can first help you understand where his or her heart is currently at, how they are feeling toward you, or if they have any intention on resolving things with you., perhaps are likely to engage with you.
Your not alone and we are here to help you through it.
With Love, Shirely xx
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]]>Soulmate Separation Soulmate separations suck, period. There are many reasons we go through soulmate separations, some come back together, whilst others are done for good. When you have made the conscious connection within your physical being that this particular soul is a true soulmate, it is unbearable to be emotionally and physically without this soul. … Continue reading
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]]>Soulmate separations suck, period. There are many reasons we go through soulmate separations, some come back together, whilst others are done for good.
When you have made the conscious connection within your physical being that this particular soul is a true soulmate, it is unbearable to be emotionally and physically without this soul. What you must remember is that we are never without each other.
Just because we are in a physical body, we are consistently speaking to each other in our form of communication in the other dimension, called telepathy.
“Telepathy” is the energy we use because we are light beings having a human experience here. Light is energy. Your soulmate feels you, feels your every thought, feels your every need and desire. However, everything will happen in divine time according to your divine path that you are destined to travel. We have a soul contract with our soulmate.
A soulmate contract or in other words a Soul agreement, is an agreement we make before we come into life or existence – the physical realm. In life we will encounter many people through this life. Within this soulmate contract agreement, we are specifically in connection with our soulmate to learn the lessons we came here to experience with them. When you desire someone so much, this energy will sometimes mean the experience is unfinished.
If you never think of them again, it is a sure sign to know it is finished and you have completed your lessons together.
When this unfinished feeling occurs within you, it is unbearable, every moment you are in deep thought and yearning to be with this other soul.
It becomes almost like an obsession with your mind, your higher self, and your physical being. It is torture.
What you must understand is that when something is not working, it can be fixed. Please keep in mind every soul is on a different timing for their own lessons and process here.
If your soul mate is not ready yet for the true commitment you are looking for, give them time to have clarity and understanding of what you truly mean to them. Do not contact them, wait for them to contact you. Respond to them from a place of love and understanding.
Love is freedom and acceptance of things that cannot be changed. Love them for who they are and what they are teaching you.
Your soul connection will lead you to your destiny regardless of what you do, so please trust in your divine guidance and have faith to soon receive your blessings.
Remember, this is why you are here. Your vision is being manifested because it already exists in your destiny.
If you would like to know more about your soulmate connection, contact Psychic Joy today for your online psychic reading.
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