Soulmate Rejection: When your soulmate doesn’t honor the connection

Soulmates come in many forms. They can be a best friend, a family member, a stranger you meet in passing, a lover or an animal. The key point to be aware of is that soulmates always show up to teach us a lesson, to teach us about some aspect of ourselves or universal teaching. Soulmates are essentially reflections of us.

The soulmates we will be focusing on in this article, however, are romantic, sexual and intimate soulmates- the type of bond you may refer to as a lover, partner or boyfriend or girlfriend. These types of soulmates feel like they are your one true love, and to an extent this is true. This is because for a soulmate to be a soulmate, they would have needed to have embarked on their own journey of transformation, growth and spiritual or soulful evolution. Self- healing, meditation, metaphysical and esoteric wisdom and knowledge, awareness of our interconnectivity and connection with the universe- and planet- and a deep recognition of unconditional love being one of the most powerful vibrations and forces available to us, are all common themes inherent within a soulmate bond. In other words, you and your partner “get” each other.

Before looking into why soulmate rejection occurs, and how it can be so painful, let’s first explore the essence and archetypes of a soulmate bond and love; so you can better understand why this type of connection is so powerful and significant.

Essence & Archetypes of A Soulmate Connection

A deep bond of friendship

Soulmates have an underlying bond symbolized by friendship, mutual respect and recognition. You recognize one another and know that, to an extent, if you weren’t lovers and romantically or sexually involved, you possess the capacity for great friendship. Respect, mutual understanding and cooperation define your motivations and intentions for your relationship.

Shared spiritual or psychic gifts

Many soulmates have a deep spiritual connection. Telepathy may be common- you may know when the other is about to call or enter the room, without physical warning, and sense things beyond the norm. Your awareness of one another’s presence is deeply heightened and sharing thoughts, speech or emotions are not uncommon. There is most likely an element of reading one another’s minds too, literally possessing a psychic or clairvoyant gift to tune into your partner’s energy field and aura. It is in the aura, the electromagnetic energy field surrounding us, that thoughts, emotions, beliefs, subtle impressions, mental projections and one’s state of vibratory health (your personal vibration or frequency) can be seen. Experienced and sensed. Soulmates often have an invisible and profound bond with one another on the subtle planes of being.

Shared sense of purpose?

Many soulmates have the same interests and inner passions manifesting as a shared service or gift to humanity, the planet or some important and meaningful cause. You shine brightest when in loving or helpful service to some cause or being, and specifically when doing it with your lover. Your light and divine essence becomes activated and there is a strong desire to better yourself for both your soulmate and for the people or cause you are helping. You may choose to ground this passion, talent or gift into a profession and life path, or simply engage with it regularly as a hobby. Either way, your shared soul passion reflets outwards into the world and further strengthens your relationship.

Why doesn’t s/he honor your connection?

After reading the above you may realize just how special a true soulmate bond is. Well, with lightness comes darkness and day spirals back into night, and vice versa. Life ultimately involves duality and to put it bluntly- not everyone grows, evolves and learns on the same timeline. Your sweetie, lover or bond of soul may be your true love, and someone you can share a lifetime with, but this doesn’t mean that they are on the same journey as you.

Below is everything you need to know to help you heal and recover and step fully into your divinity and beauty once more. Please don’t think that a soulmate rejecting your love and connection is your fault, because it is not. (So long as you have done the healing and soul work, and achieved the balanced and integration of self you know to be true!)

1. Their shadow is not a reflection of yours

We all have a shadow self, those undesirable, dark, unwanted or often denied and repressed aspects of self we either first deny and reject, or secondly aim to transcend and evolve through and past. Because a soulmate connection vibrates at such as high frequency, this means that there is great capacity for vast darkness or incredible lightness. Soulmate rejection occurs when your partner has refused to accept parts of their own shadow and therefore starts to reject you as a result. Perhaps they can’t accept their beauty, brilliance and spiritual gifts or wonderful compassionate nature, so they start to reject this part of you and your soulmate connection… This stems from an ability to accept the dark and undesirable aspects of life and being, thus, because light and dark exist simultaneously, a rejection of one part of self leads to a rejection of another.

Your connection can be intense, euphoric and transcendental, and you may vibe on a level never experienced before with past “boyfriend” and “girlfriend.” A soulmate connection is more than the societal created boyfriend and girlfriend relationship experienced in youth, or before spiritually awakened and evolved; soulmate bond is intrinsically soulful- full of soul- with an essential aspect being some level of personal awakening and healing. In order to come together in a soulmate union, you and your partner must first have had to have done some self- healing, soul- searching and deep introspection, in addition to having had engaged in the healing arts, spirituality and metaphysics- things which connect you directly to your true nature. So, you are quite simply on different stages of your journey and your mirror (your reflection, your partner and soul connection) is not quite ready to accept themselves or your bond.

2. Karmic and ancestral wounds are real

Another highly important factor normally always present in soulmate rejection is the reality that being human inevitably involves suffering. We all have karmic and ancestral wounds, pains and trauma brought from childhood, past relationships, family and even past lifetimes, into adult life. Now, assuming that you are wholly ready for a soulmate connection on the highest levels, you have most likely engaged fully with your own personal journey of healing and transformation, and further come to terms with aspects of yourself and your past. This does not mean your soulmate has! This also means, as hard as it may be, you should not take it personally. Your love is still in a transitory phase with their own healing to do.

3. Your feelings are not a fantasy

 Feeling like everything you felt and experienced was a fantasy, an illusion; may start to take hold. When you bond and merge with another on all levels- spiritually, soulfully mentally, emotionally and physically- it can leave you in a state of eternal perpetual entanglement. Your souls become entwined and there is a strong recognition that you have always known each other, and always will. This can be very hard and painful to come to terms with when the connection begins to break down, as you know fully within that the love you share is real, authentic and deep- almost timeless; yet your soulmate does not. However, they do know this, on a level, it is just buried by insecurities, wounds, past pains and self- denial or repression. The biggest mistake you could make is to tell yourself that it was all a fantasy.

Don’t doubt yourself or what you know to be true; your love was and is real. All those moments of deep connection, telepathy, authentic feeling and connection, and the sense of knowing one another beyond time and space… these are still true. Acceptance and understanding combined with compassion and empathy are your keys to retaining your own truth, integrity and self- love, so you can then shine this out into your next soulmate connection; or into the current one if you should choose to wait. Fully embracing that your love was not a fantasy and that everything perceived, felt and experienced was real will allow you to continue to stay on your own frequency and wavelength, and not devolve to lower your vibration to that of your soulmate’s. This brings us onto the next point.

4. You don’t need to feel guilty for evolving higher or moving on!

This is essential. In short, the fact that your soulmate has rejected you and you are completely willing to do the self- healing and self- development work necessary to maintain and secure the bond, means that when you finally accept it is not currently meant to be, or that you are just on a different level and stage of your journey, feeling guilty is a no- no. You do not need to lower your vibration for anyone. You also don’t need to devolve or fall into karmic entrapments and entanglements. This does not mean you have to stop loving your soulmate, or stop feeling empathy for them; it is just essential that you don’t compromise your own “inner soulmate vibe” for one who is not ready nor on the same level as you. Guilt, shame or self- devolution are completely counterproductive to both your soulmate and the love you once shared- don’t you want them to rise and be the best version of themselves they can be?

Even if you are no longer together physically, your thoughts, emotions and personal frequency are very powerful. You and your soulmate are still connected throughout time and space, and your soulmate connection is still very much alive and real!

5. Give them space, let them learn their lessons, and commit to self- love…

Finally, giving them their space and allowing them time to learn their lessons is one of the best things you can do. You also should commit to self- love and do everything in your power to stay aligned with your self- worth, self- esteem and personal confidence. Being self- empowered, soulful and sovereign should not be sacrificed for anyone, especially not for someone who was unwilling to grow and journey with you. A true soulmate connection is one of the highest expressions of love on this earth plane… no- one benefits from appeasing or sacrificing this to old wounds, ancestral or karmic trauma, and the inability or unwillingness to heal and move forward in life.

Be your own soulmate!

Being your own soulmate is one of the most effective and helpful things you can do to heal and recover from soulmate rejection. Treat yourself with the loving kindness and compassion you happily give to your lucky lover. Step fully into your self- empowerment and spiritually inspired mindset and state of consciousness. Become the best version of yourself, for you. Stay committed to self- healing and harmonizing your mind, body and spirit or soulful self with daily reality. Quite simply, be your own best friend, soul-mate and lover.

You can heal from soulmate rejection and go on to live a beautiful and abundant life. In fact, there are many soulmates for us and being rejected by one (or two or three!) does not mean you will never experience the love you know yourself worthy of. Stay strong and centered and committed to your truth. Everything manifests in perfect timing.

Want to dive deeper into the soulmate connection?  Talk to one of our experienced soulmate specialists.  Through a love psychic reading and a soulmate psychic reading, our psychics are able to tap into the feelings and emotions of your soulmate.  This psychic reading will give you deeper insight into the situation you are faced with and will push you into the direction that will get you back on track and feeling positive.

You don’t have to deal or heal through this alone, our love psychics have many years of experience reading through empathic abilities, tarot readings and more.  Talk to a psychic online via phone or chat to get some immediate answers.

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What if your Soulmate is already married?

When your soulmate is married you might be asking how did you fall for a married man or women?

Can a married man be your soulmate?

If your soulmate married to someone else? What should you do?

If you have found yourself in this situation where your soulmate is married to someone else, you will be feeling like the world is about to end.

The soulmate connection is felt by both of you and the meeting between you both had you both feeling the intensity of the soulmate connection, but none of you had any idea or intention to fall into this situation, but it happens.

If this is what you are going through at the moment know that your not on your own.

You maybe asking yourself how you came to this situation, and why the universe has brought you to this intense soulmate connection.

You may also be wondering if there is going to be a chance that your soulmate will leave their marriage.

Truthfully the answer is no, or not anytime soon.

This can be one of the most difficult situations a soulmate will ever encounter when your soulmate is married to someone else.

What is a soulmate relationship?

If there’s a word that defines soulmate relationships it is definitely “complex”. 

Soulmate connections are not easy, and they weren’t meant to be easy.  Soulmates are meant to challenge us on a deeper level, which is why when things are great for soulmate connections, things are on cloud nine. 

However when things go south, your world feels like its about to end. 

Soulmate connections as said, they can often be painful, specially when you have set your mind – and your heart – on a particular outcome.

Assumptions and expectations don’t sit well with soulmate relationships.

Assuming that a soulmate relationship will end in a “happily ever after” is sometimes a recipe for heartbreak and disaster. 

There is a number of different reasons why a soulmate connection may not end in a romantic relationship.

Soulmate is taken

There isn’t much you can do in this case.  And if you are asking if your soulmate will leave the marriage for you, it is highly unlikely.  If you want to stay in your power, this should be dealt from your higher source.

When you leave this situation to the higher source or high powers you stay in your power and in control and allow this to unfold at the right time.

Will your soulmate walk away from the marriage?

Let’s consider your soulmate maybe perfectly happy and fulfilled in a relationship with someone other than a soulmate.  Sometimes, the person will prioritise their marriage over the soulmate connection, even if they are unhappy, they may take months, or even years to walk away from a marriage.  

If this is the case, remember that your feelings are yours, nobody can take them away, and that you are free to love without an attachment, without expecting an outcome.

Other times though, the marriage will be a milestone in this person’s life, and it could be preparing them to enter a relationship with you that your soulmate wasn’t ready for before.

Regardless of what is the case, the truth is that when your soulmate is married to someone else, you need to give up control and accept that it is a situation that is not in your hands to resolve.

For this reason, it is important that you remember to live your own life and let time make things fall into place.

Release control and surrender the soulmate connection, trusting that it will be for your highest good either way.

The major lesson here has most of the time to do with the acceptance of the decisions that others make and has the purpose to show you a hint of what unconditional love truly means.

If you want to delve deeper into the soulmate connection and what this means for you moving forward, talk to one of our soulmate psychics at Zenory via phone or online chat reading.

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To let go of your soulmate – “Quote: Eventually soul-mates meet, for they have the same hiding place.”

 Soulmate relationships are tough and to let go of your soulmate is especially hard.  When you love someone you want to be with, and for no reason you just don’t understand or agree with, they end it.  The longer you have been in the soulmate relationship, the more difficult it is to let go of your soulmate.

When soulmate relationships are formed, to let go of your soulmate can be devastating.  When you love and care for a soulmate beyond this physical realm, the intense and deep feeling to hold onto the connection can be destroying for the other soulmate.

A lot of people seem to believe that soulmate relationships are destined to last forever.  Just because someone is your soulmate, it doesn’t mean the relationship journey will be easy.  In actual fact, soulmate relationships require more work than any relationship. More than anything, soulmate relationships are meant to teach us lessons.

There is a common myth that most people think that soul mates cannot be broken and there is no reason for a soulmate relationship to end because of this strong connection between the two.

In this article, we have identified 15 reasons to help you let go of your soulmate.

1: Soulmate Runner – to let go of your soulmate

When your soulmate does a runner, don’t chase them.  Chasing them will only lead them to withdraw further, and delay the return time.

When you let them go, you give them the chance to think more, and create the space to miss you.

Giving them space and breaking the soulmate connection doesn’t mean that they won’t return.

In order for the soulmate relationship to grow, allowing good space will only help the healing process.  Once the two of you are both in a clear space and willing to engage in a relationship again, divine timing will bring the two of you back together again.

Meanwhile, you should look at ways to rebuild and empower yourself – take on activities that help you heal and grow as a person, things such as personal development courses, empowerment books, taking on some yoga classes, develop the mind and start taking care of yourself.

Still struggling? Seek guidance from a love psychic or soulmate psychic reader who can guide you through this process.  A love psychic can see what the future holds between you and your soulmate.  Seeking soulmate  guidance through a psychic reading online or soulmate tarot reading online can often bring more peace and understanding into the current situation and help clear up any confusion you may have.

2: The On and Off Soulmate Relationships

Does your soulmate come and go? On and off soulmate relationships are doomed and destined to fail.

When the relationship with your soulmate is on and off, this is a clear sign that you may need to let them go for now.  A relationship won’t work in the long run when you are trying to make one with in those conditions.

No one wants to be in an on and off relationship and if your soulmate wants to be in this relationship, it is time for you to end it.

3: Soulmate Trust Issues

Having trust issues can cause a lot of caos when your with a significant other.  Once the trust has been lost, it takes a lot of time to repair and for the trust to be regained.

Reinstating trust has to be done through action and not words.  If your soulmate wants to regain the trust back in your relationship, you should do this through action and not words.  Make sure that your soulmate is aware of this intention.

However if actions are not working out, it maybe time to let go.  As stated, soulmate miss trust can take a lot of time, so if your soulmate is willing to try to regain the faith, go for it.  If it becomes an issue and causes drama, it maybe time to let go.

Before you decide which way to go, you might want to also seek clarification from our soulmate psychics who can make it a more easier process to guide you through it.

4: Soulmate Jealousy

Does your soulmate get jealous when you hang out with your friends? Or when you choose to see your family for dinner?  Does your soulmate complain that you never make time for them, when you just about have time for them every other hour?

Jealousy is fear.  It doesn’t matter what kind of relationship you are in.  Family, friends, Coworkers, etc it all comes down to fear.

A fear of loss, losing your soulmate.  When your soulmate is jealous, it can be hard situation to control, like anything, just because your in a soulmate relationship doesn’t mean you have to bend down low to meet their standards.  Your soulmate needs to make changes to make the relationship better. Sometimes these things may make you want to let go of your soulmate.

5: Soulmate Love Triangles

If your soulmate relationship is caught up in a love triangle, it maybe a sign to end it.  No relationship is destined to work out in the long run when there is a third person in the equation.

No one wants a relationship with a third wheel and if you are currently in one, it maybe time to end it.

Soulmate love triangles can often start out as fun, but as feelings start to grow, someone is bound to end up hurt.

6: Soulmate Holding Onto An Ex

If your soulmate is still holding on to an ex lover, or previous partner, it maybe a sign you need to let go of your soulmate for now to allow your soulmate time to run the relationship to its cause.

The soulmate connection should enable you to leave a bad situation, however sometimes in most cases it works the other way around and often leaves us in bad situations.  It can be difficult to let go your soulmate. This is not a good way to honour your soulmate connection. When it comes down to it, you will be forced to put a stop to it to enable the other relationship to run its course.  Some soul-mates feel the pain of rejection when they are in this situation.

7: Soulmate Puts You Last

Does your soulmate treat you like an option? Do you feel alone in the relationship?  Does your soulmate care if they disappoint you?

Often they don’t if you are not a priority.  Deep down, we often know the relationship is over when you are feeling lonely and like you have already been dumped, but this is a valid sign of where you are on the list of what matters. Sometimes you may feel like you want to let go of your soulmate. This should be a clear call to end the soulmate relationship. When you put yourself first, you will not settle for any of this kind of behaviour.

8: Soulmate Narcissist

Narcissist behaviour can be hard to see or tell when you are fully invested in the soulmate relationship, especially with a connection so deep.  When your in a relationship with a narcissist they can use variety of emotional manipulation tactics to hook you and re-hook, and then string you along.

Narcissist can be hard to live with, they can destroy your confidence and make you feel worthless.  It is important to understand that a lot of narcissist behaviour stems from low self esteem, and is often pointed out to be a mental disorder.

To let go of your soulmate who is narcissist isn’t easy, and the soulmate relationship is likely to leave a serious dent to your self-esteem.  However, you need to not accept this kind of manipulating behaviour, and firstly recognise that the relationship needs to end right quickly.

Turning this around has to start with an end to the behaviour, and sometimes means to let go of your soulmate, letting go of the relationship completely in order for the soulmate to learn the hard lesson.  Soulmate relationships are already hard, but one with a narcissist can be worse. :

9: Soulmate Relationship Rejection

Rejection from a soulmate can really hurt, and if we allow our ego to deal with the situation we can whined up losing the soulmate completely.  Rejection doesn’t come down to who you are as a person, and only reflects the soulmate who is doing the rejection. So it is important to under the rejection that takes place.

One of the very reasons soulmate rejection occurs is because of the overwhelming flood of emotions that come with encountering ones soulmate.  You are never really prepared for a soulmate relationship and hence why when you are single it is important to prepare and use the time to prepare.

10: Soulmate Sabotage – to let go of your soulmate?

If your soulmate likes to sabotage your relationship all the time, by picking up fights with you for no reason every time, it maybe time to walk away and to let go of your soulmate.

Creating the space between the both of you may give your soulmate the wake up call that is needed.  Allowing space can often help bring the soulmate to their senses, and when they are ready to be an adult, the relationship will be at a better place to rekindle.

11: Soulmate Toxic Relationship

If your soulmate shows raw signs of toxic relationships with their friends or family, this is a total red flag, and you need to let them go.

If your soulmate is allowing this kind of toxic relationship into their environment, it is sure to enter into your relationship, and is best to step down until the relationship with their family and friends has gained some control.

12: The Soulmate Commitment

If your soulmate is struggling to commit or give the relationship with you a fair go, it maybe time to let go.  Your soulmate may possibly be seeing someone else, or could be holding back because they want to keep an open relationship.

Either way, this won’t allow you the time to build a solid relationship.  If you are allowing or enabling your soulmate to do this, it is time to cut it.  Your soulmate may only be doing it to take advantage of your good intentions.

13: The Soulmate Manipulation

There are multiple signs to spot soulmate manipulation, however when it comes to soul mates being manipulated whilst in the relationship, due to the strong connection we often let it slide.   This is not a way to accept behaviour from a soulmate and needs to end.

When you hear the words: “Well if you really loved me.” This is one of the worst and most common forms of soulmate or relationship manipulation.  The manipulation works to make you prove to your soulmate over and over again by giving them what they want.  Bow out.

This kind of relationship is not something that can be sustained and needs to be cut.  Allow time away, in order for you soulmate to come to this realisation. Either way, something has to change with this dynamic.

14: The Soulmate Closed Off Emotion

If your soulmate is always closed off, and doesn’t want to open up their emotions, then it maybe a good time to end it.  This can often lead to signs that the soulmate is using you for a booty call, or friends with benefits.

You may have a gut feeling that your soulmate feels the same way about you, but are too scared to face their true feelings.  This is a sign that you need to end it with them, until they are ready to admit their true feelings.

15: The Soulmate Dead End Relationship

A lot of people seem to believe that soul mates are destined to last forever.  Just because someone is your soulmate, it doesn’t mean the relationship journey will be easy or in fact last forever.  Again, soulmate relationships require more work then any other relationship and most often don’t last because of the work that is required.  When they realise this the soulmate relationship wears itself out and becomes dead end.  Coming to this realising can be difficult, and make you feel miserable.

So how can you tell if your soulmate relationship is at a dead end?

• You may find that you try to fix one problem, and another problem will arise.
• You met your soulmate, but timing has made it difficult to bring the two of you together because your both holding onto other relationships
• Break up after break up and on and off relationships are a sure sign.  Always getting back together and ending the soulmate relationship
• Your soulmate may not be ready emotionally
• Your soulmate cheated, and therefore the trust has broken between the two of you, and can never be repaired
• Your soulmate puts you last
• Your soulmate won’t make any effort

Conclusion

To let go of your soulmate can be tough ride to go through on your own, reach out to a love psychic or soulmate specialist who can give you the guidance you need to proceed forward with peace and confidence.  A Psychic reading online is also available at the click of a button via phone reading or chat.   Seeking answers through a tarot reading can give you insights into how you can conquer life in its troubling times.

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The truth is, soulmate relationships are difficult.   So how do you know if your soulmate ready?

Soulmate relationships require work from both parties to prepare for a life long journey that the universe has planned from the spiritual realm.

What is a soulmate?  When we think or hear of the word soulmate, we think of the person we desire the most to be with in this life time and live happily ever after.

The true definition of a soulmate is someone whom we have a past life and spiritual connection with or karmic relationship.

These connections are like no other and when we reconnect in this life time, the connections are felt from a deeper level of spiritual essence.

When you meet your soulmate.  You connect instantly.  The feelings are that you have met this person before.  The likely hood for this meeting is from a past life experience.

A soulmate will show up in your life when you are truly ready from the soul level.

When the soul recognises another soulmate, they often have similarities on a spiritual level, which leads to difficult lessons that need to be shaped here in the physical realm.

Soulmates are meant to teach us a lesson, and often meant to help us grow in life.

The lessons from a soulmate can be painful, and often lead to soulmate heartbreak.

How do you know if you are truly ready for a soulmate relationship?

It can be frustrating when you see family and friends around happy in love with their soulmate  while all you find are quick sparks of love that never build to a solid relationship, let alone soulmate connections.

Hollywood movies and romance novels make it look far too easy to find your soulmate these days, which often leads to disappointment.

The first thing you need to do to bring forth your soulmate is to let go of the expectations from yourself to find “the one”.  You must release this energy and work on yourself first and foremost.

Comparing yourself with others, also needs to go.  Comparing yourself with expectations that just don’t exist can leave you feeling worthless and make you feel hopeless.

To find love and the right type of love that is best suited for you, you must think and create good thoughts in your mind to bring this person into your life.

Most people want to be with someone who is happy, and positive – most of the time.

Not with someone who carries negative energy around and constantly bringing the relationship down.

So firstly, you should engage in becoming a positive force within yourself.

In a nutshel, the best way to bring a soulmate into your life, is by working on yourself.

There are many ways you can go about working on yourself, you can take a course on personal growth, get to know yourself and read books on how to manifest soulmates.  Learn about meditation practices.  Sign up to that yoga classes.

Take a walk in nature – anything to enhance area of self-development and personal growth, will help you draw your soulmate to you.

How Do You Know When Your Ready?

Your soul knows when the time is ready to meet your soulmate.

There are first and foremost important lessons that you need to learn before the soulmate enters your life.

You should use this opportunity to work on yourself.  When the soulmate enters your life, you are more than ready.

This will sound counter-intuitive but people spend too much time searching for love.

They hang out at bars, or search apps like tinder or jump to dating sites endlessly scrolling.

Your Soulmate will enter your life when you least expect it and are not actively looking for it.

Your willingness to better yourself will let the universes know that you are ready for your soulmate to find you.

As you learn more about yourself, the universe will naturally start to bring you and your soulmate together.

Finding your true soulmate takes time and teaches you patience.

Manifesting true love or your soulmate is not in your control.

Give up control to the universe, focus on self-care and self-improvement in order to open the door to your one and only life partner.

Dealing with relationship loss of a soulmate, and then trying to manifest a soulmate relationship can be difficult without guidance.

At Zenory Psychics, we make this journey easy by offering love psychic readings for those seeking soulmate advice.

Our psychics readings with accurate tarot readers and spiritual healers are here to guide you with confidence and peace when it comes to dealing with matters of the heart.

Soulmate relationships take time, and require a lot of preparation, changed habits through personal growth to name a few.

Our psychic blog also has a lot of resources and articles around love and relationship psychic readings that you can turn to for free psychic guidance.

If you enjoyed this article, make sure to check out:  Are You Getting In The Way Of Manifesting Your Soulmate?

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Has Your Soulmate Lost Respect For You?

You feel as if you’ve been waiting your whole life for your soulmate and the attraction you feel for them is sudden and strong. So what happens if the person you love loses respect for you over time?

Most relationships start off in a honeymoon phase where both partners are on their best behavior, sharing their very best version of themselves with each other.  Respect in a relationship means that both partners see value in the other person.

A respectful relationship is based on honesty and makes you feel safe and loved. Sometimes, however, one soulmate can start to put their own value above their soulmate partner and this is where a perfectly good soulmate relationship can turn toxic.

A toxic relationship can make you feel depressed and unworthy.

You could start to physically have low energy and withdraw from family and friends. If you sense this is happening to you, look for these clues in your relationship that will help you determine if your soulmate has lost respect for you.

Top Three Signs of a Toxic Relationship

• Unreliable

  your soulmate doesn’t call for days, is frequently late to dates or reschedules at the last minute often. You cannot count on them to be there for you when you need them most.

• Disrespectful Words or Actions

  they are no longer polite, they call you names, belittle your dreams or talk badly about your friends and family. They may talk to you as if you are inferior, less intelligent or beneath them.

• Manipulative

  your partner tries to start arguments, makes you feel like you are to blame for everything negative that happens, turns friends or family against you or often lies to you.

When you are intensely attracted to someone or love them deeply, it can be easy to ignore or explain away the early signs of disrespect in a relationship. It is important for you to remember that you are not at fault and you deserve to be treated with respect at all times, especially by your lover.

Once you have recognized one or more of the red flags above, it is time to turn things around quickly before it gets worse.

Set clear and specific boundaries with your soulmate.  Let them know that continued disrespect will no longer be tolerated.

Stick to your guns, do not let your love for your soulmate cloud your judgement and keep you in an unhealthy toxic relationship that will harm you mentally or physically in the long run.

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Isn’t your life partner also your soulmate?

That’s what I found myself thinking when I first saw the topic of this article.

As I pondered the question and called an emergency meeting with my intuition, I saw that yes, your life partner is your main soulmate, your closest and ultimate soulmate.  

But on the way to this life partner, there may be a road filled with other soulmates, yes you can have more than one soulmate in this lifetime.  

There are are soulmates we meet whom there’s an important lesson to learn or a significant assignment to fulfill.  For the purposes of this article, we’ll call the ultimate soulmate your life partner, and these other significant but temporary relationships on the way your soulmates.

A very big difference between your Life Partner and other Soulmates is this 

Only your life partner is good enough for you. This may sound a bit harsh, but we are not judging his or her inherent worth as a person, only whether they qualify to be your perfect fit.  

You may have a very strong powerful and passionate connection with other soulmates, but you will not find that easy compatibility and harmony for a shared life which will definitely be there with a life partner.

Your Life partner was in a very real sense made for you, to be the other wing so that you could fly through life together sharing a common purpose and supporting each other.

Your soulmates support your growth and preparation as you make the journey towards your life partner. Sometimes we try to make a soulmate fit, but we find that like one of Cinderella’s stepsisters, no matter how hard we try to force it, the shoe (the soulmate) flies across the room (or town or country).

Crazy Love vs Peaceful Passion  

Surely passion is the main ingredient in both temporary soulmate relationships as well as the one you have with your life partner. The main difference is in the pattern this passion takes. The two kinds of relationships may both start with a lot of magic and fire.  

However, in the soulmate relationships, often the ego rears its ugly head, creating dramatic scenarios and issues which then turn the relationship into one with turmoil and chaos, a roller coaster ride of fighting and making up perhaps, or obsession.

In contrast, the relationship with your right life partner will have a subtext of harmony and peace, which creates a stable foundation for passion for growing and continue to color your days as you grow together over the years.

The degree of care you give your relationship with your life partner affects the sustenance of this passion but that’s a separate issue. The main point is both relationships begin on a passionate note, but with a soulmate, the passion either dies out or goes into crazy-vill over time.

Identical Vs Matched Opposite

Many times with soulmates, you will have very strong similarities. You may even feel you are identical, you may even think “she is the female version of me”.  The problem comes when your similarities clash, you may both be weak in certain areas, or you may both have the same need from each other and find yourselves frustrated.

The very same similarities that draw you together can also cause tension over time.

With your life partner, you will find that you are “matched opposites”. This means in certain areas you are similar but in very important key areas you are opposites and this opposite quality makes you complement one another in love and in life. You do not share the same weaknesses but rather where you are weak, he/she is strong.

An example of this may be that you are emotional and sensitive and cry at the drop of a hat, where as he is strong and sturdy and can be your rock in difficult times.

Fizzle vs Flourish 

 A good test of whether you are with a soulmate or a life partner is what I call the fizzle test.

With a soulmate, ultimately the love fizzles.

You may be obsessed, attached, or even caring but you do not fall deeper in love over time, nor does the love grow like a fine wine over the months or years, but rather, there’s a feeling that the connection has stopped deepening and instead has faded.

In contrast, with a life partner, the connection grows to new depths and enters new realms, and over time you may feel that there’s no “ceiling” to this love, as it expands and takes you to new levels of love.

Struggle vs Ease 

While there are always exceptions to every rule, the majority of destined life partners find that their relationship has an ease to it. In contrast, temporary soulmates find struggle, if not at first then eventually, particularly as they try to make the relationship last beyond its due course.

Soulmate relationships have a cycle, and as the growth cycle comes to completion, there may be a sense of panic and trying to make the relationship stick. However, with a life partner, there’s no struggle to make the relationship happen or work or stick because all of these things happen naturally and organically.

If you have ever had the experience of doing something in the zone or in the flow, be it a sport you love or playing a musical instrument, it is a gratifying experience full of grace and marked by ease.

This is how things should feel most of the time with a life partner, and they will. However, with a soulmate, that kind of ease may be there at first or on and off but soulmate relationships tend to include a greater degree of pain and struggle, as they are the relationships that clean the junk out of us to prepare us for our life partners.

One last word on Soulmates versus life partners: Not all marriages are with destined life partners, sometimes in the inexperience of youth, a person may marry a temporary soulmate then find themselves separating painfully or indifferently when things don’t sustain the distance.

If you find yourself in this situation, get your hopes up, as the very existence of your soulmate relationship implies that you are in preparation for true love with your destined life partner, who will fit you like a glove, and dance with you through the rest of your life’s journey.

If you have questions regarding your soulmate relationship. or life partner, or when you might meet your soulmate, perhaps if you are questioning whether your in a soulmate relationship, contact one of our soulmate relationship psychics, who can give you guidance and clarity around your soulmate relationship through a love psychic reading or a soulmate psychic reading at Zenory.

I’d love to hear your thoughts on this.   Have you met your life partner or your soulmate?  How did you meet and what are some tips you could give for someone who might be going through this that I haven’t mentioned above.  

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It’s a common pattern in many people’s lives, and perhaps in yours as well.  Do you always feel like you are the victim in your relationships?

Is it possible that you’ve fallen into a lifestyle of allowing yourself to be a scapegoat for others, while simultaneously blaming them and feeling like all of the things that happen to you are their fault?

Your boss isn’t fair.

Your partner takes you for granted.

Your friends exclude you.

Your mother “makes “ you mad.

What if none of that were true?

What if you have more control over your circumstances than you are giving yourself credit for?

Often, those who feel like victims over and over in the course of relationships, both romantic and otherwise, are in that position because of a serious lack of self-awareness and self-esteem and a series of experiences and choices that got them there.

If you are tired of feeling like a victim in your relationships, it may be time to take a break from focusing on others and turn inward for some serious focus on yourself.

Do you value yourself? Do you love yourself? Do you think that you are worthy of the love, affection, appreciation and respect of others?

Or is there some part of you that questions your own value and doesn’t really believe that you are good enough or that you really belong in the life you have?

These types of issues are commonly at the core of why people find themselves feeling like a victim repeated in their relationships. We so often attract and tolerate what we feel we deserve, usually without even realizing that that is what is happening at the time.

Wounds are inflicted on all of us in this life, from childhood on. How well we are able to heal from them can affect many aspects of our lives, including our relationships with others and whether we will allow ourselves to play the role of the victim within them.

If you are tired of feeling like the victim in your relationships, you need to believe that you are worth enough to invest time in, and then take that time and invest it in yourself. Stop finding the external reasons for your feelings of inadequacy. Get to know yourself again. Begin to appreciate yourself by identifying and focusing on things that you enjoy, taking on creative endeavors and experiences, and learning what you are already good at and what skills you need to improve upon.

Get to know yourself again. Begin to appreciate yourself by identifying and focusing on things that you enjoy, taking on creative endeavors and experiences, and learning what you are already good at and what skills you need to improve upon.

Take the time to acknowledge old wounds and the impact that they’ve had on you.  Appreciate the lessons from the past, mourn the losses they have provided, and put any remaining pain behind you.

Recognize that those who have hurt you have also taught you, and move toward the future with the knowledge of all that you have already overcome. Most of all, choose wisely going forward.  Find closure from past relationships and mending what has not been healed internally.

If your feeling like a victim in your relationships, find yourself in an unhealthy dysfunctional relationship, you should ask yourself some hard questions:  What is the purpose of this unhealthy relationship?  What is my lesson?  I would love to hear your thoughts on unhealthy relationships and how you have overcome this situation.

Remember – You do not have to be a victim any longer, like all of us, you are a survivor of this wild and precious world and you deserve to know it.

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Ноw tо Оvеrсоmе aSoulmate Rejection

Soulmate rejection can be hard to take. 

Lіfе аnd thе раth tо lаstіng lоvе, bу thеіr vеrу nаturе, еntаіl rејесtіоn. Еvеn thе mоst bеаutіful аnd роwеrful аmоng us аrе nоt іmmunе frоm іt. Рrіnсеss Dіаnа, Аbrаhаm Lіnсоln, Ніllаrу Сlіntоn, Јеnnіfеr Аnіstоn аnd еvеrуоnе vоtеd оff Ѕurvіvоr hаs suffеrеd rејесtіоn’s stіng. Аt lеаst thе vаst mајоrіtу оf us іn thе dаtіng wоrld саn bе grаtеful thаt mіllіоns аrеn’t wаtсhіng оur rејесtіоn оn ТV оr rеаdіng аbоut іt іn thе tаblоіds!

Whіlе dаtіng lеаds tо lоvе аnd mаrrіаgе, dаtіng іs аlsо а lаnd rіре fоr rејесtіоn! Whо hasn’t heard, аnd sаіd, “Yоu’rе а grеаt реrsоn, but...” Оnе thіng І knоw. Іf уоu’rе оut thеrе tаkіng сhаnсеs, mееtіng nеw реорlе аnd dаtіng, уоu’rе gоіng tо suffеr rејесtіоn. Тhе gооd nеws іs rејесtіоn іsn’t fаtаl! Іt јust іsn’t рlеаsаnt.

Тhе truth іs, thе mоrе сhаnсеs wе tаkе іn trуіng tо fіnd lаstіng lоvе, thе mоrе wе ореn оursеlvеs uр tо thе раіn оf rејесtіоn. Вut, аs Rаdаmеs sіngs іn Аіdа, “Fоrtunе fаvоrs thе bоld!” І’vе уеt tо mееt аnуоnе whо sаt аt hоmе, dіd nоthіng аnd hаd Рrіnсе Сhаrmіng mаgісаllу арреаr аt hеr dооr. Тhе bоttоm lіnе іs іf уоu dеsіrе tо fіnd а lіfе раrtnеr аnd еnјоу thе іntіmасу оf lаstіng lоvе, уоu must rіsk rејесtіоn.

1). Ѕhutоff оur hореs, drеаms аnd fееlіngs.Маnу sіnglеs mаkе thіs dеvаstаtіng dесіsіоn іn аn аttеmрt tо stор thе раіn. І undеrstаnd whу– rејесtіоn fееls tеrrіblе аnd арреаrs tо соnfіrm оur dеереst fеаrs аs іt whіsреrs wе’rе unlоvаblе, іnаdеquаtе, unwоrthу оr sіmрlу nоt gооd еnоugh! Тhе рrоblеm wіth shuttіng оff оur hореs, drеаms аnd fееlіngs іs thаt іt lіmіts оur асtіоns аnd аbіlіtу tо lіvе аnd lоvе. Furthеrmоrе, shuttіng оff оur hореs, drеаms аnd fееlіngs саn lеаd tо dерrеssіоn, whісh furthеr hіnds оur dеsіrаbіlіtу аnd оur wіllіngnеss tо gеt bасk іntо thе gаmе whеn а rеlаtіоnshір dоеsn’t wоrk оut. Іn shоrt thіs dесіsіоn рrеvеnts us frоm grоwіng, асhіеvіng аnd еvеntuаllу асquіrіng thе rеlаtіоnshір wе dеsіrе аnd dеsеrvе!

2). Lеаrn frоm іt.Ѕоmеtіmеs rејесtіоn оссurs fоr а vаlіd rеаsоn. Неаlthу іndіvіduаls sеаrсh tо sее іf сhаngеs аrе іn оrdеr аnd асt ассоrdіnglу. Реrhарs уоu’rе а bіt bооrіsh аnd dоmіnаtе соnvеrsаtіоns. Іf thіs іs truе, lеаrn аsk іntеrеstіng quеstіоns оf оthеrs аnd lіstеn tо thеіr rеsроnsеs! Мауbе уоu dіsсlоsе tоо muсh іnfоrmаtіоn, tоо sооn. Іf sо, lеt уоur lоvе іntеrеst gеt tо knоw уоu bеfоrе уоu аіr оut аll уоur dіrtу lаundrу. Мауbе уоu’rе а соuсh роtаtо, роssеssіvе, соntrоllіng оr dоmіnееrіng... Wіth wоrk, уоu саn сhаngе thоsе раttеrns! Тhе bоttоm lіnе іs, іf thеrе’s sоmеthіng уоu’rе dоіng thаt’s рushіng а роtеntіаl раrtnеr аwау, fіх іt! Wе humаns аrе іnсrеdіblу brіght аnd hаvе thе аbіlіtу tо lеаrn аnd grоw frоm еvеrу ехреrіеnсе аs lоng аs wе dоn’t сhооsе bіttеrnеss, blаmе аnd аngеr аs оur rеsроnsе.

3) Rесоgnіzе thаt rејесtіоn іsn’t аlwауs аbоut уоu!Оthеrs аррrоасh thе wоrld frоm thеіr оwn nееds аnd brоkеnnеss–mауbе thеіr mоther drорреd thеm оn thеіr hеаd. Реrhарs thеу’vе hаd bаd ехреrіеnсеs іn thе раst аnd аrеn’t wіllіng tо rіsk lеttіng аnоthеr іndіvіduаl іn. Whо knоws, уоu mау еvеn lооk lіkе thеіr sесоnd grаdе tеасhеr! Оr, јust mауbе, sоmеоnе еlsе іs а bеttеr fіt. Іf thаt’s thе саsе, mоvе оn аnd vаluе уоursеlf hіghlу еnоugh tо bеlіеvе thаt уоu’rе gоіng tо bе а bеttеr fіt fоr sоmеоnе еlsе. Тhе truth оf thе mаttеr іs thаt rеgаrdlеss оf hоw tеrrіblе rејесtіоn fееls, іt іsn’t аlwауs реrsоnаl!

4). Сhооsе tо vіеw іt аs рrоtесtіоn.Lооkіng bасk оn mу lіfе, І сlеаrlу sее the myangelshаnd оf рrоtесtіоn thrоugh mаnу оf thе rејесtіоns І’vе ехреrіеnсеd, rеlаtіоnshірs thаt hаd thеу рrоgrеssеd furthеr wоuld hаvе bееn dеtrіmеntаl. І wаs соnvіnсеd оf whаt І wаntеd аnd hаd tо hаvе, but mу rаdаr wаs fаultу аnd І соntіnuеd tо dаtе еmоtіоnаllу unаvаіlаblе mеn. І аm sо thаnkful fоr thе bullеts І’vе dоdgеd thаt І соuld оnlу sее оnсе а rеlаtіоnshір hаd еndеd. Wіth а lіttlе bіt оf рrасtісе, іt’s еаsу tо lеаrn tо rесоgnіzе аnd аррrесіаtе fаіlеd rеlаtіоnshірs thаt wоuldn’t hаvе bееn sаtіsfуіng, mutuаl оr hеаlthу!

5). Ѕее іt аs а blеssіng!Веуоnd grеаtеr раіn аnd роtеntіаl dіsаstеr bеіng аdvеrtеd, іn thе lоng run І’vе оftеn rесеіvеd sоmеthіng fаr bеttеr thаn whаt І wоuld hаvе hарріlу sеttlеd fоr. Lіkе іn Gаrth Вrооks’ “Ѕоmеtіmеs І thаnk Gоd fоr unаnswеrеd рrауеrs...” А rејесtіоn frоm sоmеоnе gооd, ореns uр rооm іn уоur lіfе fоr sоmеоnе bеttеr!

Ноw tо Κnоw Іf Yоu Аrе Аbоut tо Gеt Rејесtеd

Νоthіng саn bе mоrе hurtful thаn gеttіng dumреd bу sоmеоnе уоu lіkе оr lоvе. Νоt оnlу hurtful іt саn bе hіghlу еmbаrrаssіng аs wеll аnd mіght hurt уоur еgо іn thе lоng tеrm. Тhіs іs thе mајоr rеаsоn whу уоu must knоw thаt іt’s аbоut tо соmе bеfоrе іt асtuаllу соmеs. Rеаd оn tо dіsсоvеr sоmе оf thе mоst аmаzіng wауs tо fіnd оut whеthеr уоu аrе аbоut tо gеt rејесtеd оr nоt аnd асhіеvе mіnd blоwіng rеsults fаst........

Іnstаnt lасk оf іntеrеst– Yоur раrtnеr wоuld іnstаntlу lоsе а lоt оf іntеrеst іn уоu аnd thіs wоuld bе еvіdеnt frоm thе fасt thаt hе/shе wоuld stор tаlkіng tо уоu іn thе rеgulаr mаnnеr. Тhеу wоuld nоt саll уоu аs оftеn аs thеу usеd tо аnd whіlе tаlkіng thеу wоuld trу tо gеt rіd оf уоu аs muсh аs роssіblе.

Не/shе wоuld dо sоmеthіng еlsе thаn sреnd tіmе wіth уоu- Yоur раrtnеr wоuld stаrt mаkіng lоusу ехсusеs јust tо stор sреndіng tіmе wіth уоu. Тhеу wоuld stаrt gіvіng оthеr nоt sо іmроrtаnt thіngs рrіоrіtу оvеr уоu. Тhеsе аrе еаrlу sіgns оf lасk оf еmоtіоnаl аttасhmеnt whісh nоrmаllу lеаds tо soulmate rејесtіоn еvеntuаllу.

Wоuld stаrt рlауіng tоо hаrd tо gеt- Не/shе wіll dеvеlор а strаngе аttіtudе tоwаrds уоu аnd hе/shе wіll mоrе оr lеss mаkе уоu wоrk tо gеt hіs оr hеr аttеntіоn. Іt wіll mоrе оr lеss sееm lіkе уоu аrе thе оnе whо іs hаvіng tо wоrk tо kеер thе rеlаtіоnshір gоіng аnd thеrе wіll bе аlmоst nо еffоrt frоm уоur раrtnеr’s еnd. Yоur раrtnеr wоuld асt саsuаl аrоund уоu аs іf уоu аrе nоt еvеn іn а rеlаtіоnshір аnd аt thе sаmе tіmе wоuld stор dоіng оr dіsсussіng реrsоnаl thіngs wіth уоu.

Тірs оn Ноw tо Lоvе Yоursеlf

Іf уоu dоn’t lоvе аnd rеsресt уоursеlf іt’s а surе bеt thаt nо оnе еlsе wіll. Fоrtunаtеlу, wіth dеdісаtіоn аnd рlеntу оf sоul-sеаrсhіng, уоu саn lеаrn hоw tо lоvе уоursеlf. Оnсе уоu dо thіs, уоu wіll sее thаt lоvе аttrасts lоvе. Ву bесоmіng а mоrе роsіtіvе, соntеnt іndіvіduаl, уоu wіll nаturаllу аttrасt оthеrs tо уоu аnd dеvеlор mоrе sаtіsfуіng rеlаtіоnshірs. Неrе аrе sоmе tірs оn hоw tо ассоmрlіsh thіs:

Ѕtор Сrіtісіzіng Yоursеlf. Ѕоmеtіmеs, уоu саn bе уоur оwn wоrst еnеmу іn tеrms оf tеаrіng dоwn уоur оwn sеlf-еstееm. Νо оnе knоws уоur flаws lіkе уоu dо, аnd іt саn bе vеrу tеmрtіng tо сrіtісіzе уоursеlf аt еvеrу turn. Ноwеvеr, уоu must trу tо bе gеntlе wіth уоursеlf. Тhеrе іs а dіffеrеnсе bеtwееn сrіtісіzіng, whісh іs рurеlу nеgаtіvе, аnd соrrесtіng, whісh hаs а роsіtіvе gоаl оf sеttіng уоursеlf оn thе rіght trасk. Lеt’s іmаgіnе thаt уоu dоn’t lоvе уоursеlf bесаusе уоu thіnk уоu аrе lаzу. Whеnеvеr уоu fіnd уоursеlf рrосrаstіnаtіng оr еngаgіng іn оthеr lаzу bеhаvіоr, уоu wіll рrоbаblу bе tеmрtеd tо thіnk, “І’m thе wоrst! І’m а lаzу lоsеr whо nеvеr ассоmрlіshеs аnуthіng.” Νір thіs сrіtісаl thоught іn thе bud аnd rерlасе іt wіth а gеntlе соrrесtіоn lіkе, “І wіll nоt gіvе іn tо lаzіnеss! І hаvе thе strеngth аnd іntеllіgеnсе tо bе рrоduсtіvе аnd gеt thіngs dоnе rіght nоw.”

Fоrgіvе Yоursеlf.Тhіs саn bе dіffісult. Ѕоmеtіmеs іt sееms lіkе whаt уоu’vе dоnе іn thе раst іs unfоrgіvаblе, аnd wіll mаrk уоu fоrеvеr аs а реrsоn unwоrthу оf lоvе. Ноwеvеr, уоu must lеt gо оf thе раst. Whаt’s раst іs раst, аnd уоu саnnоt сhаngе іt. Whаt уоu саn сhаngе іs thе dесіsіоns уоu mаkе аnd thе асtіоns уоu tаkе іn thе рrеsеnt mоmеnt. Dоn’t bаsе уоur асtіоns оn а fаlsе соnсерt оf уоursеlf аs аn unfоrgіvаblе mіsсrеаnt. Іnstеаd, undеrstаnd thаt уоu саn mаkе роsіtіvе сhаngеs іn уоur lіfе. Νо mаttеr whаt уоu’vе dоnе іn thе раst, уоu саn ехрrеss gооdnеss, humіlіtу, аnd sеlflеssnеss nоw. Оftеn, hеlріng оthеrs іs а grеаt wау tо hеlр уоursеlf wіth fоrgіvеnеss іssuеs. Whеn уоu hеlр оthеrs, уоu sее thеіr lоvе аnd аррrесіаtіоn fоr уоu. Yоu rеаlіzе thаt уоu аrе сараblе оf рrоduсіng gооd іn уоur lіfе, аnd уоu thеn bеgіn tо lеt gо оf thе bаd уоu’vе dоnе іn thе раst.

Lооk Іnwаrd, nоt outwаrd. Весаusе humаn bеіngs аrе sосіаl аnіmаls, wе tеnd tо рlасе а lоt оf іmроrtаnсе оn hоw оthеrs thіnk оf us. Ноwеvеr, whеn іt соmеs tо lоvіng уоursеlf, уоu nееd tо rесоgnіzе thаt thе sоurсе оf уоur fееlіng оf sеlf-wоrth іs wіthіn уоur оwn hеаrt, nоt іn thе thоughts аnd оріnіоns оf оthеrs. Ѕtор sееkіng аррrоvаl fоr уоur lіfе сhоісеs frоm оthеr реорlе. Аs lоng аs уоu аrе lооkіng fоr аnоthеr аррrоvаl, уоu аrе рlасіng rеsроnsіbіlіtу fоr уоur hарріnеss оutsіdе оf уоursеlf. Ultіmаtеlу, уоu must fоllоw уоur оwn раth аnd tаkе сhаrgе оf уоur оwn hарріnеss.

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Is Your Partner Cheating on you? 

Here are 10 Ways to Tell if Your Partner is Cheating

It is a sad reality that in many relationships there comes a time when infidelity rears its ugly head.

Getting an answer as to whether it is truly happening or is only suspected unjustly can be the first step in moving forward. Consider these ten common indicators if you suspect that your partner is being unfaithful.

#1: A Change in Routine

If your partner has had a sudden change from normal habits and routines, this may be a red flag.

If he or she has always left for work and returned from work at the same time each day, always picked up the dry cleaning or the take out at the same time from the same place, and has just generally been Mr. or Mrs.

Predictable, but suddenly is coming home late, leaving early or seemingly on a different schedule, it may be worth looking into and asking some careful questions.

#2: An Increased Need for “Alone” Time or Privacy

Is your partner suddenly going for short walks alone, finding flimsy excuses to run errands alone or working on projects behind a closed door that would previously have been open? That may be a sign that you should pay attention to.

This “alone time” could be an opportunity to call someone or even meet up with him or her. Insisting that you go along with your partner on some of these errands or walks and monitoring his or her reaction, may be a useful way to find out if he or she is cheating.

Does your partner become extremely agitated and annoyed that you want to be included as if you are disrupting plans? If so, this could signal infidelity.

#3: A Change in Appearance

If your partner was always a couch potato but now is suddenly a gym rat and making an effort to lose weight or build muscle seemingly out of nowhere, this could be a sign of cheating.

The same goes for a sudden change in hair or clothing style.

Often when a person feels that they have a new person to impress rather than their partner who they may take for granted, these kinds of changes occur. If you suspect that this may be the case, ask your partner about their newfound interest in fitness or the trendy new haircut.

Is his or her response reasonable? Does it make sense to you or is he or she defensive? The answer may tell you what you need to know.

#4: New Interests

Is your partner who always loved classical music suddenly into punk?

Does the person who always hated cold weather now have a sudden passion for winter sports?

The development of new interests can signal the entry of a new person into his or her life. Again, it is important to explore whether this is just a strange phase or something more.

#5: Changes in Your Sex Life

Changes in the bedroom can also be a telltale sign of an affair, and not just an absence of sexual contact, but an increase or a request for something new or a different way of performing can signal a problem as well.

Any changes that seem unusual to you should be questioned and considered carefully.

#6: Hiding Phones or Computer History

In this day and age, technology abounds and is one of the most common ways that cheaters get caught.

If your partner is being unfaithful, you may see the sudden appearance of password protection on his or her phone or laptop or you may notice that he or she keeps the phone with them at all times, rarely leaving it unattended.

If you were to open it up, perhaps all text or chat messages have been deleted, whereas previously they might have been kept in the history. You may see apps installed to allow for untraceable chatting that you didn’t even realize he or she had downloaded.

He or she may even try to intercept phone bills that may show excessive text messages or calls to a number you don’t recognize. Technology has made it easier for cheaters to keep their secrets, but also easier to get caught. Keeping an eye on your partner’s technology habits may be the key to discovering infidelity if it exists.

#7: Strange Financial Transactions

Affairs can cost money. If your partner is suddenly taking more cash out of the bank account without explanation, this may be cause for concern. He or she could be using cash to pay for dates with, or gifts for, a new interest.

If he or she is less careful, you may see unusual charges for activities, meals or items on bank or credit card statements. Taking a careful look at your finances can reveal whether you have something to worry about or if your suspicions are unfounded.

#8: Unexplained Anxiety

Keeping a secret the size of an affair could take a toll on your partner’s nerves.

If he or she suddenly seems as though they are constantly looking over one shoulder, is having bouts of insomnia, or is just generally out of sorts with no other obvious explanation, some questions may be in order.

#9: Irritability

This one goes hand in hand with the last. The pressure of having an affair, keeping it private and managing so many secrets can cause mood swings that are unpredictable and unpleasant.

If your partner suddenly seems defensive or irritable when approached with simple questions or concerns, you should consider investigating more.

#10: Impulsivity

Despite being nerve-wracking, the thrill of having a secret and of having someone new in your life can also cause a newfound sense of excitement.

A partner who is cheating may suddenly be acting like the boyfriend or girlfriend he or she was in college, rather than the middle-aged mom or dad of today.

There may be a sudden desire to engage in risky adrenaline fuelled behaviour that is just a spill over from an affair.

No one of these signs alone is an indicator that your partner is cheating and shouldn’t be assumed to be, but a combination of a few along with your gut feeling that something may not be right can be genuine cause for concern.

If you suspect your partner is unfaithful, ask some questions and gather information before you make wild accusations with nothing to back them up.

If you do find something worth confronting, take care not to lose control and to communicate with your partner in as open, honest and firm a way as possible given the circumstances.  You can consult a love psychic today to help you identify if you are with a cheating partner.   A soulmate reading can also give you the same kind of guidance from a spiritual context to help you understand if a soulmate connection is present and how to deal with the connection.  By obtaining a psychic reading with our gifted psychics you may find the answers you were looking for to bring you peace and empowerment to help you deal with this situation moving forward.

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