The truth is, soulmate relationships are difficult.   So how do you know if your soulmate ready?

Soulmate relationships require work from both parties to prepare for a life long journey that the universe has planned from the spiritual realm.

What is a soulmate?  When we think or hear of the word soulmate, we think of the person we desire the most to be with in this life time and live happily ever after.

The true definition of a soulmate is someone whom we have a past life and spiritual connection with or karmic relationship.

These connections are like no other and when we reconnect in this life time, the connections are felt from a deeper level of spiritual essence.

When you meet your soulmate.  You connect instantly.  The feelings are that you have met this person before.  The likely hood for this meeting is from a past life experience.

A soulmate will show up in your life when you are truly ready from the soul level.

When the soul recognises another soulmate, they often have similarities on a spiritual level, which leads to difficult lessons that need to be shaped here in the physical realm.

Soulmates are meant to teach us a lesson, and often meant to help us grow in life.

The lessons from a soulmate can be painful, and often lead to soulmate heartbreak.

How do you know if you are truly ready for a soulmate relationship?

It can be frustrating when you see family and friends around happy in love with their soulmate  while all you find are quick sparks of love that never build to a solid relationship, let alone soulmate connections.

Hollywood movies and romance novels make it look far too easy to find your soulmate these days, which often leads to disappointment.

The first thing you need to do to bring forth your soulmate is to let go of the expectations from yourself to find “the one”.  You must release this energy and work on yourself first and foremost.

Comparing yourself with others, also needs to go.  Comparing yourself with expectations that just don’t exist can leave you feeling worthless and make you feel hopeless.

To find love and the right type of love that is best suited for you, you must think and create good thoughts in your mind to bring this person into your life.

Most people want to be with someone who is happy, and positive – most of the time.

Not with someone who carries negative energy around and constantly bringing the relationship down.

So firstly, you should engage in becoming a positive force within yourself.

In a nutshel, the best way to bring a soulmate into your life, is by working on yourself.

There are many ways you can go about working on yourself, you can take a course on personal growth, get to know yourself and read books on how to manifest soulmates.  Learn about meditation practices.  Sign up to that yoga classes.

Take a walk in nature – anything to enhance area of self-development and personal growth, will help you draw your soulmate to you.

How Do You Know When Your Ready?

Your soul knows when the time is ready to meet your soulmate.

There are first and foremost important lessons that you need to learn before the soulmate enters your life.

You should use this opportunity to work on yourself.  When the soulmate enters your life, you are more than ready.

This will sound counter-intuitive but people spend too much time searching for love.

They hang out at bars, or search apps like tinder or jump to dating sites endlessly scrolling.

Your Soulmate will enter your life when you least expect it and are not actively looking for it.

Your willingness to better yourself will let the universes know that you are ready for your soulmate to find you.

As you learn more about yourself, the universe will naturally start to bring you and your soulmate together.

Finding your true soulmate takes time and teaches you patience.

Manifesting true love or your soulmate is not in your control.

Give up control to the universe, focus on self-care and self-improvement in order to open the door to your one and only life partner.

Dealing with relationship loss of a soulmate, and then trying to manifest a soulmate relationship can be difficult without guidance.

At Zenory Psychics, we make this journey easy by offering love psychic readings for those seeking soulmate advice.

Our psychics readings with accurate tarot readers and spiritual healers are here to guide you with confidence and peace when it comes to dealing with matters of the heart.

Soulmate relationships take time, and require a lot of preparation, changed habits through personal growth to name a few.

Our psychic blog also has a lot of resources and articles around love and relationship psychic readings that you can turn to for free psychic guidance.

If you enjoyed this article, make sure to check out:  Are You Getting In The Way Of Manifesting Your Soulmate?

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Many people want to attract or manifest their soulmate into their life, at most times we long for a deep desire to connect with someone on a spiritual level, such is our soulmate.  However, during your time alone, before the universe will bring this soul into your life, you should know these 5 common factors that could be preventing you from manifesting your soulmate.

Relationships are like food to the soul, essential for its growth and invariably necessary for our sustenance as a person.

If the soul is happy, the individual regardless of the prevailing societal and physical setting is happy; it’s the reason why people who have found their soulmates; that final piece to the Jigsaw puzzle that is their lives radiate nothing short of a blissful aura.

For those who are yet to find this perfect complement to their lives, life can be lackluster and fleeting. If you fall into this category, here are the top five reasons as to why manifesting your soulmate has been a fruitless endeavor so far.

Love yourself first

Your soulmate is the one who loves and cherish you for the person you are, irrespective of your flaws and perfections. How then can you connect with such an individual if your real persona is constantly veiled?

Granted, life forces even the most resilient of us to create an emotional blockade in a bid to prevent the reoccurrence of previously less than pleasurable experiences.

The realisation that such a barrier effectively transforms you from a being capable of infinite love to one with a constrained view of life is critical to the furtherance of your journey towards finding a soulmate.

Your soulmate is attracted to your real persona. If you exude anything other than this in your day to day life, you are most likely to attract the wrong set of individuals; who are bound to waste your time and potentiate further emotional scarring and invariably the building of even taller blockades.

It takes work  

As much as finding a soulmate is often described with the cliché ‘they will come to you’ phrase, it is imperative to note that in most instances this is far from what is obtainable in reality. Locating your treasured missing rib takes effort, it takes commitment, and sacrifice.

The saying ‘nothing good comes easy’ comes to mind; the right soulmate, the perfect fit, do not come easy.

For sure they are not delivered on a platter of gold if anything you’ve got to fashion out the golden platter on which they’d land when they come; in other words, you’ve got to take the necessary steps to accommodate your soul mate when they do arrive. Many an instance where individuals have lost their prospective soulmates due to negligence.

Emotionally Unavailable

It takes an emotionally sound mind to locate and abhor/accommodate a soulmate. And while most singles (including you) identify themselves as emotionally matured, in the real sense they are not.

Emotional maturity is not centred on how many relationships or experiences you’ve had in the past, it is more of how capable you are at dealing with relationships and their accompanying issues.

A matured individual in this sense is one who is ready to take up responsibilities; one who is willing to forgive and also keep an open mind. This doesn’t mean you have to be perfect in all ramifications; it just means that you have to invest more time in developing yourself.

Picture yourself as your partner, and work on those qualities you require your dream soulmate to have.

Staying Isolated

Maybe due to past experiences or perhaps because of your very nature you’ve made a habit of separating yourself from everyone including those that love you.

This psyche aptly described as being a loner isolates you from experiencing the feeling of being loved; a feeling that is critical to finding a soul mate. It is when you’re loved that you can love back and it is in this atmosphere of mutual love and friendship that soulmate relationships thrive.

Holding Onto The Past 

It’s a tough and mentally demanding task to let go of the past, especially when it is filled with pleasant memories made with someone whom we once loved dearly.

Reliving those memories and wishing things returned to the way they were, clouds your sense of judgment and ultimately shuts the door of healthy relationships in your life.

If you’re going to find your soulmate, you have to let go of the past, no matter how difficult it seems realize that if that person were indeed your soulmate, he/she would still be here by your side in the present.

Talking with a online psychic can help you weed through the struggles you might be facing when it comes to love.  Our love psychics can guide you through a soulmate psychic reading, or a online tarot reading to help you find the factors that might be preventing you from manifesting your soulmate.

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Isn’t your life partner also your soulmate?

That’s what I found myself thinking when I first saw the topic of this article.

As I pondered the question and called an emergency meeting with my intuition, I saw that yes, your life partner is your main soulmate, your closest and ultimate soulmate.  

But on the way to this life partner, there may be a road filled with other soulmates, yes you can have more than one soulmate in this lifetime.  

There are are soulmates we meet whom there’s an important lesson to learn or a significant assignment to fulfill.  For the purposes of this article, we’ll call the ultimate soulmate your life partner, and these other significant but temporary relationships on the way your soulmates.

A very big difference between your Life Partner and other Soulmates is this 

Only your life partner is good enough for you. This may sound a bit harsh, but we are not judging his or her inherent worth as a person, only whether they qualify to be your perfect fit.  

You may have a very strong powerful and passionate connection with other soulmates, but you will not find that easy compatibility and harmony for a shared life which will definitely be there with a life partner.

Your Life partner was in a very real sense made for you, to be the other wing so that you could fly through life together sharing a common purpose and supporting each other.

Your soulmates support your growth and preparation as you make the journey towards your life partner. Sometimes we try to make a soulmate fit, but we find that like one of Cinderella’s stepsisters, no matter how hard we try to force it, the shoe (the soulmate) flies across the room (or town or country).

Crazy Love vs Peaceful Passion  

Surely passion is the main ingredient in both temporary soulmate relationships as well as the one you have with your life partner. The main difference is in the pattern this passion takes. The two kinds of relationships may both start with a lot of magic and fire.  

However, in the soulmate relationships, often the ego rears its ugly head, creating dramatic scenarios and issues which then turn the relationship into one with turmoil and chaos, a roller coaster ride of fighting and making up perhaps, or obsession.

In contrast, the relationship with your right life partner will have a subtext of harmony and peace, which creates a stable foundation for passion for growing and continue to color your days as you grow together over the years.

The degree of care you give your relationship with your life partner affects the sustenance of this passion but that’s a separate issue. The main point is both relationships begin on a passionate note, but with a soulmate, the passion either dies out or goes into crazy-vill over time.

Identical Vs Matched Opposite

Many times with soulmates, you will have very strong similarities. You may even feel you are identical, you may even think “she is the female version of me”.  The problem comes when your similarities clash, you may both be weak in certain areas, or you may both have the same need from each other and find yourselves frustrated.

The very same similarities that draw you together can also cause tension over time.

With your life partner, you will find that you are “matched opposites”. This means in certain areas you are similar but in very important key areas you are opposites and this opposite quality makes you complement one another in love and in life. You do not share the same weaknesses but rather where you are weak, he/she is strong.

An example of this may be that you are emotional and sensitive and cry at the drop of a hat, where as he is strong and sturdy and can be your rock in difficult times.

Fizzle vs Flourish 

 A good test of whether you are with a soulmate or a life partner is what I call the fizzle test.

With a soulmate, ultimately the love fizzles.

You may be obsessed, attached, or even caring but you do not fall deeper in love over time, nor does the love grow like a fine wine over the months or years, but rather, there’s a feeling that the connection has stopped deepening and instead has faded.

In contrast, with a life partner, the connection grows to new depths and enters new realms, and over time you may feel that there’s no “ceiling” to this love, as it expands and takes you to new levels of love.

Struggle vs Ease 

While there are always exceptions to every rule, the majority of destined life partners find that their relationship has an ease to it. In contrast, temporary soulmates find struggle, if not at first then eventually, particularly as they try to make the relationship last beyond its due course.

Soulmate relationships have a cycle, and as the growth cycle comes to completion, there may be a sense of panic and trying to make the relationship stick. However, with a life partner, there’s no struggle to make the relationship happen or work or stick because all of these things happen naturally and organically.

If you have ever had the experience of doing something in the zone or in the flow, be it a sport you love or playing a musical instrument, it is a gratifying experience full of grace and marked by ease.

This is how things should feel most of the time with a life partner, and they will. However, with a soulmate, that kind of ease may be there at first or on and off but soulmate relationships tend to include a greater degree of pain and struggle, as they are the relationships that clean the junk out of us to prepare us for our life partners.

One last word on Soulmates versus life partners: Not all marriages are with destined life partners, sometimes in the inexperience of youth, a person may marry a temporary soulmate then find themselves separating painfully or indifferently when things don’t sustain the distance.

If you find yourself in this situation, get your hopes up, as the very existence of your soulmate relationship implies that you are in preparation for true love with your destined life partner, who will fit you like a glove, and dance with you through the rest of your life’s journey.

If you have questions regarding your soulmate relationship. or life partner, or when you might meet your soulmate, perhaps if you are questioning whether your in a soulmate relationship, contact one of our soulmate relationship psychics, who can give you guidance and clarity around your soulmate relationship through a love psychic reading or a soulmate psychic reading at Zenory.

I’d love to hear your thoughts on this.   Have you met your life partner or your soulmate?  How did you meet and what are some tips you could give for someone who might be going through this that I haven’t mentioned above.  

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It’s a common pattern in many people’s lives, and perhaps in yours as well.  Do you always feel like you are the victim in your relationships?

Is it possible that you’ve fallen into a lifestyle of allowing yourself to be a scapegoat for others, while simultaneously blaming them and feeling like all of the things that happen to you are their fault?

Your boss isn’t fair.

Your partner takes you for granted.

Your friends exclude you.

Your mother “makes “ you mad.

What if none of that were true?

What if you have more control over your circumstances than you are giving yourself credit for?

Often, those who feel like victims over and over in the course of relationships, both romantic and otherwise, are in that position because of a serious lack of self-awareness and self-esteem and a series of experiences and choices that got them there.

If you are tired of feeling like a victim in your relationships, it may be time to take a break from focusing on others and turn inward for some serious focus on yourself.

Do you value yourself? Do you love yourself? Do you think that you are worthy of the love, affection, appreciation and respect of others?

Or is there some part of you that questions your own value and doesn’t really believe that you are good enough or that you really belong in the life you have?

These types of issues are commonly at the core of why people find themselves feeling like a victim repeated in their relationships. We so often attract and tolerate what we feel we deserve, usually without even realizing that that is what is happening at the time.

Wounds are inflicted on all of us in this life, from childhood on. How well we are able to heal from them can affect many aspects of our lives, including our relationships with others and whether we will allow ourselves to play the role of the victim within them.

If you are tired of feeling like the victim in your relationships, you need to believe that you are worth enough to invest time in, and then take that time and invest it in yourself. Stop finding the external reasons for your feelings of inadequacy. Get to know yourself again. Begin to appreciate yourself by identifying and focusing on things that you enjoy, taking on creative endeavors and experiences, and learning what you are already good at and what skills you need to improve upon.

Get to know yourself again. Begin to appreciate yourself by identifying and focusing on things that you enjoy, taking on creative endeavors and experiences, and learning what you are already good at and what skills you need to improve upon.

Take the time to acknowledge old wounds and the impact that they’ve had on you.  Appreciate the lessons from the past, mourn the losses they have provided, and put any remaining pain behind you.

Recognize that those who have hurt you have also taught you, and move toward the future with the knowledge of all that you have already overcome. Most of all, choose wisely going forward.  Find closure from past relationships and mending what has not been healed internally.

If your feeling like a victim in your relationships, find yourself in an unhealthy dysfunctional relationship, you should ask yourself some hard questions:  What is the purpose of this unhealthy relationship?  What is my lesson?  I would love to hear your thoughts on unhealthy relationships and how you have overcome this situation.

Remember – You do not have to be a victim any longer, like all of us, you are a survivor of this wild and precious world and you deserve to know it.

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Psychic Readings about an Ex or Former Lover

Psychic Readings About an Ex-Partner – If you have just recently broken up with your former lover, or currently going through the break up, a Psychic reading with one of our love psychics can really help you through a tough ordeal.  Psychic Readings about an ex partner or former lover are some of the most common questions and concerns that people have when reaching out to a love psychic.

If your missing your ex, it can be a great relief to consult with a love psychic and finally find out what is going on.   Many people are seeking closure from their ex and their past relationships through a psychic reading.

Most people are worried that they will never find a way to move on and get closure and seeking the advice that psychic readings offer them so they can finally let go and move forward with their lives can be the answers you finally need to help you gain an understanding of the situation.

People feel haunted by the memory of an ex, they can still hear their voice, picture their face, even smell their cologne or their perfume. They want to stop thinking about their ex, having feelings for their ex, and want to stop hurting over their ex.

Psychic readings can help those people that feel like they are obsessed  over an ex and do not know what to do and how to let go of their obsession.  Social media makes it easy for us to hear or see things about an ex and people often wonder if what they see and read is true.

Sometimes people go out of their way to check their ex’s social media account to see what they are up to and how they are feeling.   Social media sites can be very deceptive but psychic readings can see right through all that. If you really want to know what is going on with your ex and if they are happy or still missing you, it is better to get a psychic reading rather than check social media sites for the truth.

Getting over a break up is very hard, and can be a long process at times and with certain people. You may have a nagging feeling that your ex will return to you and still cares about you but you wonder if that is your intuition talking or just wishful thinking on your part.

Psychic readings can tell you what the future has in store for you with your ex, and if you will get back together, or remain apart.

You may know it is in your best interest to no reunite with your ex and although they have sworn that they have changed and learn from their mistakes you are afraid that if you give them another chance, they will break your heart again. Psychic readings can inform you if your ex has good intentions towards you and if they really deserve a chance to be back in your life and back in your heart again.

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