What if your Soulmate is already married?

When your soulmate is married you might be asking how did you fall for a married man or women?

Can a married man be your soulmate?

If your soulmate married to someone else? What should you do?

If you have found yourself in this situation where your soulmate is married to someone else, you will be feeling like the world is about to end.

The soulmate connection is felt by both of you and the meeting between you both had you both feeling the intensity of the soulmate connection, but none of you had any idea or intention to fall into this situation, but it happens.

If this is what you are going through at the moment know that your not on your own.

You maybe asking yourself how you came to this situation, and why the universe has brought you to this intense soulmate connection.

You may also be wondering if there is going to be a chance that your soulmate will leave their marriage.

Truthfully the answer is no, or not anytime soon.

This can be one of the most difficult situations a soulmate will ever encounter when your soulmate is married to someone else.

What is a soulmate relationship?

If there’s a word that defines soulmate relationships it is definitely “complex”. 

Soulmate connections are not easy, and they weren’t meant to be easy.  Soulmates are meant to challenge us on a deeper level, which is why when things are great for soulmate connections, things are on cloud nine. 

However when things go south, your world feels like its about to end. 

Soulmate connections as said, they can often be painful, specially when you have set your mind – and your heart – on a particular outcome.

Assumptions and expectations don’t sit well with soulmate relationships.

Assuming that a soulmate relationship will end in a “happily ever after” is sometimes a recipe for heartbreak and disaster. 

There is a number of different reasons why a soulmate connection may not end in a romantic relationship.

Soulmate is taken

There isn’t much you can do in this case.  And if you are asking if your soulmate will leave the marriage for you, it is highly unlikely.  If you want to stay in your power, this should be dealt from your higher source.

When you leave this situation to the higher source or high powers you stay in your power and in control and allow this to unfold at the right time.

Will your soulmate walk away from the marriage?

Let’s consider your soulmate maybe perfectly happy and fulfilled in a relationship with someone other than a soulmate.  Sometimes, the person will prioritise their marriage over the soulmate connection, even if they are unhappy, they may take months, or even years to walk away from a marriage.  

If this is the case, remember that your feelings are yours, nobody can take them away, and that you are free to love without an attachment, without expecting an outcome.

Other times though, the marriage will be a milestone in this person’s life, and it could be preparing them to enter a relationship with you that your soulmate wasn’t ready for before.

Regardless of what is the case, the truth is that when your soulmate is married to someone else, you need to give up control and accept that it is a situation that is not in your hands to resolve.

For this reason, it is important that you remember to live your own life and let time make things fall into place.

Release control and surrender the soulmate connection, trusting that it will be for your highest good either way.

The major lesson here has most of the time to do with the acceptance of the decisions that others make and has the purpose to show you a hint of what unconditional love truly means.

If you want to delve deeper into the soulmate connection and what this means for you moving forward, talk to one of our soulmate psychics at Zenory via phone or online chat reading.

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Are You In Love With A Narcissist?

People tend to use the term “narcissist” when they are upset by a person’s selfish actions or behaviours.

A true narcissist, however, is a mentally unstable individual with a serious personality disorder confirmed by the National Institute of Mental Health and defined in the DSM (Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Metal Disorders).

Narcissism not only causes delusions of grander but also the inability to have empty for others.

They are often competitive, driven individuals who can also be highly successful in business, but personal relationships are very difficult for them to maintain.

A narcissist is the centre of their own universe, you and your needs will never be their main focus.

A narcissist rarely recognises or admits there is anything wrong with them and there is no cure.

Intensive therapy is the only way a narcissist can live cohesively with another person as a spouse.

It is easy to fall in love with a narcissist because they are confident, successful people with a huge gravitational pull.

If you find yourself in a relationship with one, however, you will quickly notice that in private they are a different person.

Moody, prone to outbursts and tantrums, paranoid and even delusional.

If you find yourself stuck in a situation where you have already fallen in love with a person who turns out to be a narcissist, you must quickly determine if your own safety or mental health would be at risk by staying with them, even if they seem like your soulmate.

A few questions to ask yourself to determine if your partner is a narcissist:

Are they overly self-absorbed, to the detriment of all others around them?

Are they consistently putting their own needs before yours?

Do they become irrationally angry at imagined slights?

Do they seem to be unaware that their actions hurt people?

Do you feel safe alone with them when they are having a breakdown or tantrum?

Keep in mind, someone with a real case of narcissism will never admit they have a problem as it is beyond their capability to see or sense it.  A true narcissist without extensive therapy may be incapable of fully loving another person.

Once you come to peace with these truths, you can decide if this one-sided relationship is worth trying to preserve.  As with any mental disorder, the severity can be a range from mild to extreme severity.  A person with mild narcissism might be able, through therapy, to participate in a normal healthy relationship in time.

With higher levels of severity, the person you love might simply be incapable of loving you back.  Seek therapy or talk to an online psychic or online tarot reader at Zenory for some insight on how you can go about dealing with a partner who is a narcissist.

You can ask a psychic through a psychic reading if your loved one’s disorder is having a negative effect on your own mind and ways to cope with this moving forward.

Some key questions you may like to ask a love psychic:

Is my partner playing games?

Is my partners behaviour going to get better? Will they seek help with this to better the relationship?

How can I talk to my partner about this unacceptable behaviour?

How do I deal with a narcissist?

Do I stay or should I walk away?

These are general questions, and most peoples situations are also different, so understand that the above are only general questions.  A good idea would be to take a piece of paper and write down some questions you would like to ask your psychic to clarify, this could be “words” that your partner uses.

This could be a situation, event that has happened in your relationship for you to notice some of the signs that are showing the behaviours of a narcissist.

Either way, you need to take the time for yourself to identify how to cope or how you are going to move forward in confidence with this.

If you found this article helpful, you may also like to read: Signs Your Relationship Wasn’t Mean’t To Last

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5 Ways to find closure even when your ex won’t talk to you

Getting over someone or finding closure is not the easiest thing in the world.  It is a tiring process.  When you break up with someone you love, you experience a surge of emotions in you.  

For a prolonged time, there is sadness accompanied by the consistent thought of texting him/her or reaching out to him/her to talk and get things sorted.  But that doesn’t always work and, as harsh as it may sound, is the stupidest thing to do.

Sadness is soon followed by anxiety where you worry whether or not you will ever find love. You will also question your worth and self. That is all natural. But just because it’s natural does not mean that it is healthy. You do not need to feed yourself with thoughts and emotions like those. Separation from a loved one is hard, and it calls for a lot of courage and strength to let go of someone but it is not impossible. Letting go begins with one single step – closure.  

A break up is usually followed by one partner avoiding the other altogether. The reason behind this is often misunderstood. People do that because they do not know how to deal with the plethora of feelings that come with a breakup.

So they try to avoid the feelings and decide to ignore you as if you never existed in their life. As much as it might hurt, you have to understand that this is solely their issue and has nothing to do with what or how much effort you are worth. This understanding comes only with time and there is no way to force it. There is, however, a way to call this feeling. And that is by getting closure. The word closure has much hype associated with itself.  

Most people talk about it but don’t quite know what it is. For me, closure is that one moment—a single moment—where something in you clicks so intensely that your sense of self-worth is retrieved. And while it may not seem sensible, there are ways in which you can bring yourself closer to getting closure.  

5 ways in which you can get closure

Write down whatever you’re feeling, whenever you’re feeling it. Write it as an email, a letter, a text, a note, in a diary or whatever way you like. This is not to send to them but to get out your feelings. With a number of feelings we witness after a breakup, it is absolutely fine to draw inferences that don’t exist. Write to avoid that. Write whatever you think is going on—what could be the possible reason for why they are avoiding you and other things that are on your mind. When you will read these writings a little time later, you will be able to realize what makes sense and what does not. And then you will begin to see things with a much clearer perspective.  

Take control of your feelings.

One thing with which we all struggle in life is acceptance. Accepting the fact that something in your life is changing is the hardest thing to do. But it is also an essential thing. You need to accept what you are feeling. No matter how stupid, idiotic, silly, or lame (whatever adjective you like) you think they are, accept them. There is nothing wrong with feeling too much or too many emotions. Once you accept what you are feeling, you develop a sense of understanding and begin to see the ways to heal them.  

Take charge of yourself

Everything ultimately depends on you. Once you have sorted through the million emotions that you are feeling, you are ready to do what’s necessary to move forward. You need to sit down and ask yourself what is it that you’re trying to hold on to. Is holding on making you happy or vulnerable? Are you avoiding dealing with this because of the void it might create? Ask yourselves these questions every day and you’ll know what you want.  

Spend time alone

After you have been through a breakup, it is very important to spend time alone. What you decide to do in that time is your decision. Cry, scream or lie down still. But spend some time alone. This is imperative for you to gain back the sense of self.

You have loved before and you will love again

Unless it was your first love, you need to remind yourself that you have loved before and you will love again. Life and time do not stop for anyone and neither will they for you. But that does not mean whatever is happening is not meant to be. If it wasn’t meant to happen, it would not have happened. Believe in the power of the universe and remember that the universe knows what it’s doing.

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“When you finally let go of the past, something better comes along”

It’s never easy getting over the pain of previous dysfunctional relationship. 

Even though you may feel more in control of your feelings, the pain and hurt from such a past may still linger into the present, even after you have moved on, if that’s relationship or friendship wise whatever it maybe.

There can be many aspects where you will find yourself reliving your past relationship antics into a new one.  Comparing your new partner to an ex-relationship which left you broken to name one thing.   In an attempt to safeguard your heart out of fear that your new love interest may just turn around and repeat the same thing, You’re stuck living in that past.

As we fear reliving that heart ache experience again, being cheated on, being lied to, or manipulation from your previous lover to keep you stuck can be terrifying experiences.  The thought of these past experiences ever happening again can make you feel uncertain about situations moving forward, and keep you stuck in a disruptive cycle that you may not see yourself.  In most cases what we often forget is that we are bringing old baggage into the present, therefore tormenting our current love interest who is mostly caring, loving, and honest which was actually bitterness feeding from your past. 

Most people do not realize that they are living in a space that is actually tarnishing their chances of new love, new opportunities, relationships/friendship wise, instead of letting go of resentment and bitterness.

“You can’t reach what’s in front of you, until you let go of what is behind you.”  Once you realize this, things will start to unfold and we gain more control and happiness in our lives.  Learning new coping strategies to help you deal with the pain and heal can help you move out of the old and into the new.

How to manage your thoughts: 

When I found out my ex-partner had cheated on me, I couldn’t stop thinking about what I was doing wrong, and what the other person was doing right.  I couldn’t stop thinking about why I wasn’t good enough, and why things had changed, why my ex had changed.  I thought back to so many ways in which I went above and beyond for her needs, and therefore started to think all this wasn’t enough.  No matter how much you give someone or care for them, they will cheat regardless.  I would constantly picture him with another woman, the thoughts never made me angry, only put me into a place of self-pity and unworthiness thoughts.

All I was ever thinking was “how on earth could he do this to me? Why would he throw away everything we had, shared, our love? None of this made any sense.  And while he had seemed to move on, I was suffering in silence.  This all turned into destructive behaviour to the point where I had to turn away, and move on.  This was a hard shift after focusing myself on him, and building our future together.   Instead of dwelling on the pain, I needed to find a way to let go of the pain and bring myself back to earth.  I turned to a love psychic who brought me out of this destructive pattern and therefore gave me hope again to feel more in control and empowered.

I began to learn ways to cope with the hurt, often saying instead of asking myself why he chose someone over me?  I would often remind myself that I was better off with someone who treats me with love and respect.

Every time I did this, I began to feel less and less resentment.  Changing my thoughts and feelings helped me to understand myself more and love me more and moved on with my life.

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Signs your relationship wasn’t meant to last

Sometimes you’ll discover the relationship wasn’t meant to last because of what your lover or partner does not say.

We’re not always aware of the obvious.  Have you ever thought about what your lover DOES NOT SAY, rather than what your lover does say?

Sometimes, nothing is what it seems to be! Did your experience teach you something about yourself that you needed to change, or did your experience teach you something about someone else, a revelation that took the wind out of your sails because you felt like a weed that was plucked out of your lover’s garden?

Sometimes you’ll discover the relationship wasn’t meant to last because your partner pulled away and stopped answering texts and phone calls. The relationship started out like a romantic whirlwind, but ended as fast as it started!

Sometimes you need to dial 911 for higher-self and listen to that little voice (the whisperer) that talks to you and keeps you safe!

You need to pay more attention to your initial gut feeling because your gut usually knows when something feels amiss, or maybe you needed to start decoding the dreams you were experiencing and what these dreams were telling you, or maybe you just had a strong hunch that followed you around like an irritant for a reason because something did not feel right!

Sometimes you’ll discover the relationship wasn’t meant to last because your partner picked on you for everything you did.

Where you in a: It’s-my-way-or-the-highway- relationship?

Did your partner control the relationship or did your partner have a caustic tongue and say hurtful things to you?

Did you lose your personality and walk on egg shells to keep the peace?

This is the sign that your partner does not respect you and probably does not respect others.

Did your partner threaten you and say that the grass is greener elsewhere if you did not agree with his or her way of thinking. This is also a sign that your partner might be cheating on you and comparing you with someone else.

I learned early on to put this type of fire out the second it starts. You need to face the heat of the lion that roars at you at that moment, so the lion does not devour you!

You need to stand up for yourself and be firm about your beliefs or you risk losing yourself and getting hurt, spending years in the house of self-undoing to heal yourself!

Decode Bug 4:

Sometimes you’ll discover the relationship wasn’t meant to last because your partner is still in love with someone in the past.

Did you hang onto a relationship with hopes that your partner would choose you after he or she healed? Did the relationship end up as a friends-with-benefits-relationship or a sexual relationship because the past hindered your partner’s future because he or she was still stuck in the baleful ghosts of the past!

Bravo for taking a risk, because if we do not take risks, we do not grow, but be careful with what kind of risks you take, especially if you have high expectations! Did you know that everyone heals differently? Statistics say that a 5 years relationship takes about 2.5 years to heal…

You need to be careful when you meet someone and make sure the baggage of the past is long gone and not following that person around!

Decode Bug 5:

Sometimes you’ll discover the relationship wasn’t meant to last because your partner’s family have decided on a marriage within the same religion or ethnicity and you did not meet the requirements!

Both of you were passionately in love with each other, but your partner would not go against family. Later, the relationship ends because the family found the right mate for your partner and planned the marriage, and the passionate relationship ended painfully!

I have never found a happy ending with this kind of situation, and my advice is DO NOT get close to anyone that only believes in family arranged marriages.

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Is Your Partner Cheating on you? 

Here are 10 Ways to Tell if Your Partner is Cheating

It is a sad reality that in many relationships there comes a time when infidelity rears its ugly head.

Getting an answer as to whether it is truly happening or is only suspected unjustly can be the first step in moving forward. Consider these ten common indicators if you suspect that your partner is being unfaithful.

#1: A Change in Routine

If your partner has had a sudden change from normal habits and routines, this may be a red flag.

If he or she has always left for work and returned from work at the same time each day, always picked up the dry cleaning or the take out at the same time from the same place, and has just generally been Mr. or Mrs.

Predictable, but suddenly is coming home late, leaving early or seemingly on a different schedule, it may be worth looking into and asking some careful questions.

#2: An Increased Need for “Alone” Time or Privacy

Is your partner suddenly going for short walks alone, finding flimsy excuses to run errands alone or working on projects behind a closed door that would previously have been open? That may be a sign that you should pay attention to.

This “alone time” could be an opportunity to call someone or even meet up with him or her. Insisting that you go along with your partner on some of these errands or walks and monitoring his or her reaction, may be a useful way to find out if he or she is cheating.

Does your partner become extremely agitated and annoyed that you want to be included as if you are disrupting plans? If so, this could signal infidelity.

#3: A Change in Appearance

If your partner was always a couch potato but now is suddenly a gym rat and making an effort to lose weight or build muscle seemingly out of nowhere, this could be a sign of cheating.

The same goes for a sudden change in hair or clothing style.

Often when a person feels that they have a new person to impress rather than their partner who they may take for granted, these kinds of changes occur. If you suspect that this may be the case, ask your partner about their newfound interest in fitness or the trendy new haircut.

Is his or her response reasonable? Does it make sense to you or is he or she defensive? The answer may tell you what you need to know.

#4: New Interests

Is your partner who always loved classical music suddenly into punk?

Does the person who always hated cold weather now have a sudden passion for winter sports?

The development of new interests can signal the entry of a new person into his or her life. Again, it is important to explore whether this is just a strange phase or something more.

#5: Changes in Your Sex Life

Changes in the bedroom can also be a telltale sign of an affair, and not just an absence of sexual contact, but an increase or a request for something new or a different way of performing can signal a problem as well.

Any changes that seem unusual to you should be questioned and considered carefully.

#6: Hiding Phones or Computer History

In this day and age, technology abounds and is one of the most common ways that cheaters get caught.

If your partner is being unfaithful, you may see the sudden appearance of password protection on his or her phone or laptop or you may notice that he or she keeps the phone with them at all times, rarely leaving it unattended.

If you were to open it up, perhaps all text or chat messages have been deleted, whereas previously they might have been kept in the history. You may see apps installed to allow for untraceable chatting that you didn’t even realize he or she had downloaded.

He or she may even try to intercept phone bills that may show excessive text messages or calls to a number you don’t recognize. Technology has made it easier for cheaters to keep their secrets, but also easier to get caught. Keeping an eye on your partner’s technology habits may be the key to discovering infidelity if it exists.

#7: Strange Financial Transactions

Affairs can cost money. If your partner is suddenly taking more cash out of the bank account without explanation, this may be cause for concern. He or she could be using cash to pay for dates with, or gifts for, a new interest.

If he or she is less careful, you may see unusual charges for activities, meals or items on bank or credit card statements. Taking a careful look at your finances can reveal whether you have something to worry about or if your suspicions are unfounded.

#8: Unexplained Anxiety

Keeping a secret the size of an affair could take a toll on your partner’s nerves.

If he or she suddenly seems as though they are constantly looking over one shoulder, is having bouts of insomnia, or is just generally out of sorts with no other obvious explanation, some questions may be in order.

#9: Irritability

This one goes hand in hand with the last. The pressure of having an affair, keeping it private and managing so many secrets can cause mood swings that are unpredictable and unpleasant.

If your partner suddenly seems defensive or irritable when approached with simple questions or concerns, you should consider investigating more.

#10: Impulsivity

Despite being nerve-wracking, the thrill of having a secret and of having someone new in your life can also cause a newfound sense of excitement.

A partner who is cheating may suddenly be acting like the boyfriend or girlfriend he or she was in college, rather than the middle-aged mom or dad of today.

There may be a sudden desire to engage in risky adrenaline fuelled behaviour that is just a spill over from an affair.

No one of these signs alone is an indicator that your partner is cheating and shouldn’t be assumed to be, but a combination of a few along with your gut feeling that something may not be right can be genuine cause for concern.

If you suspect your partner is unfaithful, ask some questions and gather information before you make wild accusations with nothing to back them up.

If you do find something worth confronting, take care not to lose control and to communicate with your partner in as open, honest and firm a way as possible given the circumstances.  You can consult a love psychic today to help you identify if you are with a cheating partner.   A soulmate reading can also give you the same kind of guidance from a spiritual context to help you understand if a soulmate connection is present and how to deal with the connection.  By obtaining a psychic reading with our gifted psychics you may find the answers you were looking for to bring you peace and empowerment to help you deal with this situation moving forward.

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Psychic Readings about an Ex or Former Lover

Psychic Readings About an Ex-Partner – If you have just recently broken up with your former lover, or currently going through the break up, a Psychic reading with one of our love psychics can really help you through a tough ordeal.  Psychic Readings about an ex partner or former lover are some of the most common questions and concerns that people have when reaching out to a love psychic.

If your missing your ex, it can be a great relief to consult with a love psychic and finally find out what is going on.   Many people are seeking closure from their ex and their past relationships through a psychic reading.

Most people are worried that they will never find a way to move on and get closure and seeking the advice that psychic readings offer them so they can finally let go and move forward with their lives can be the answers you finally need to help you gain an understanding of the situation.

People feel haunted by the memory of an ex, they can still hear their voice, picture their face, even smell their cologne or their perfume. They want to stop thinking about their ex, having feelings for their ex, and want to stop hurting over their ex.

Psychic readings can help those people that feel like they are obsessed  over an ex and do not know what to do and how to let go of their obsession.  Social media makes it easy for us to hear or see things about an ex and people often wonder if what they see and read is true.

Sometimes people go out of their way to check their ex’s social media account to see what they are up to and how they are feeling.   Social media sites can be very deceptive but psychic readings can see right through all that. If you really want to know what is going on with your ex and if they are happy or still missing you, it is better to get a psychic reading rather than check social media sites for the truth.

Getting over a break up is very hard, and can be a long process at times and with certain people. You may have a nagging feeling that your ex will return to you and still cares about you but you wonder if that is your intuition talking or just wishful thinking on your part.

Psychic readings can tell you what the future has in store for you with your ex, and if you will get back together, or remain apart.

You may know it is in your best interest to no reunite with your ex and although they have sworn that they have changed and learn from their mistakes you are afraid that if you give them another chance, they will break your heart again. Psychic readings can inform you if your ex has good intentions towards you and if they really deserve a chance to be back in your life and back in your heart again.

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