A twin flame love and connection is rare, magical and unique. We have many soulmates in one lifetime but only a few, or one, special twin flame. This is because the twin flame love and bond vibrates at a powerful and supreme frequency; there is no connection quite like it.

Without further ado, let’s explore the twin flame connection in all of its beauty and glory.

What is the difference between a Soulmate and a Twinflame?

Soulmates are here to teach us a lesson, to teach us about aspects of our self and our journey. A soulmate bond shows itself so we can learn, evolve and heal – we can transcend lower vibrational ways of being, behavior and thought through soulmate connections.

Soulmate love or bonds may come into our lives for deep healing and releasing. For example, we may still be holding onto emotional blocks, issues and trauma which a soulmate can help us release.

We alternatively may have outdated, limiting or self- destructive beliefs and mindsets preventing our evolution and self or spiritual development. A soulmate connection helps us transcend this.

Soulmates are also here to show us the “unseen” and invisible parts of self, particularly in relation to soul and spirit.

Maybe you are just beginning your spiritual journey and awakening, or are new to meditation, metaphysical teachings and ancient wisdom, so a soulmate enters your life to guide you along your path.

Or, perhaps you are literally in need of some very obvious healing and you therefore attract a soulmate for personal transformation and growth, someone more mature and further along their own path? Hopefully these few examples give an accurate idea of the purpose and essence of a soulmate connection.

A twinflame bond, however, is the next stage and step in your evolutionary journey. You ultimately only come together with a twin flame once you have done the healing work yourself.

The healing work is referring to the years and copious amounts of energy, self- love and healing taken towards healing your mind, body and spirit. Also, your mental body, emotional body, physical body, spiritual body and aura/ astral and etheric existence.

Your twin flame is your reflection, your mirror and your soul’s counterpart. You share the same foundational vibrational energy and essence, beliefs and dreams, goals and wishes, philosophies and perspectives, and quite possibly gifts, talents and soul abilities.

Sacredness and divinity are the underlying core threads to your bond and love, and you both primarily operate from your higher self.

Sacredness and Divine Union

Expanding on, twin flame love is very, very sacred and special. It is similar to the special bond shared between soulmates, however goes a step above and beyond.

Synonyms for sacred include holy, devotional and spiritual, and this is exactly what the twin flame connection is and represents. When two twins come together in love, intimacy and holy union there is an element of divine union- a sacred union of two souls recognizing each other and how they have walked together many times before.

Twin flames know each other, they have shared past lives and will share future lives. There are two main purposes of twin flame love. Let’s explore these now.

Purpose 1: To experience love and happiness on the highest of planes

Experiencing love, joy, connection and happiness on the highest possible frequency- in the strongest vibration- is ultimately one of the main purposes of the twin flame sacred union.

The ecstasy, bliss and sense of holy union felt and experienced by both twins is simply indescribable, it is one of the most, if not the most, highest expression of joy, love and liberation known to mankind.

There is a feeling of transcendental awareness and higher knowing with a twin flame union, and this is intuitively and instinctively known by both partners.

Instincts are strong and on point, intuition is activated and integrated, and both partners operate with a sense of spiritual and divine knowing and recognition. This recognition is of their connection and love, part and place in the world, and of the spiritual energy that permeates life itself.

Finally, both twins in the twin flame sacred union act, speak and perceive with soul- they are wholly aware of their soulful and timeless essence.

Concepts such as multidimensionality, infinite being, non- linear time and eternal nature are not only understood but also embodied.

They are aware that their love exists and stems beyond time and space. On the earth plane, the laughter, sheer joy and divine union that exists between them is of the highest expression.

There is no bickering, judgements or “lower” behaviors and emotional displays such as in karmic or even some soulmate relationships & bonds; they have transcended the lower dimensional states of being and risen higher, in love.

Purpose 2: To come together in divine and sacred union for a shared mission or purpose

Having a shared mission or purpose is fundamental to the twin flame bond. This is something which separates and distinguishes a true twin flame connection to a soulmate or karmic one.

Twinflames are birthed from the same cosmic DNA, the same energetic frequency and soulful essence. So they share the same skills, talents, motivation and intentions for humanity and planet earth.

Examples: two humanitarian aid workers travelling the world to be of assistance to those in need… two musicians or artists of some kind with a shared mission… two healers, shamans or spiritual healers with the same intentions and skillset, being of service to benefit others.

Or two eco- activists sharing their love and passion for healing and helping the earth with communities and sustainable organizations. These are just a few possibilities, but hopefully you get the idea!

The twin flame bond is birthed first and foremost from soul and spirit, the essence of both being and our human physical reality.

Some relationships are birthed from purely physicality or primal wants and needs, therefore there will be issues, imbalances and distortions in many other essential elements and aspects of life, and the relationship.

Some relationships are formed from solely mental or emotional similarities, henceforth- again- a sense of holism (all- encompassing/ complete) will be missing.

But with a twin flame love two souls have come together from a balanced, integrated and pure state of mind, body, heart and soul. Like the well known analogy of “the onion,” they have not had to peel away the layers to get to the core; they were already in touch and tune with their core and met (came together in divine sacred union) from that level.

Divine Masculine and Divine Feminine

The divine masculine and divine feminine are two well known concepts for anyone familiar with new age terms and speech. And these are integral concepts of the twin flame connection.

We are all said to operate as primary masculine and feminine. It is usually the case that if we are male, we are more masculinely inclined and, if we are female, more femininely inclined and oriented. We also have astrological and celestial influences, such as our ruling planet.

For example, if you are Cancer you are more feminine as the Moon is Cancer’s ruling planet, and the Moon is of a negative or feminine polarity. If you are Aries you are more masculinely inclined as Aries is ruled by Mars, a positive/ masculine polarity planet.

Yet, with  twin flame sacred union both twins are balanced within. There is unity within and this then reflects outwards into your relationship.

With a twin flame relationship or sacred union both twins are balanced within. Divine masculine and feminine qualities are balanced, merged, harmonized and integrated/ embodied, and this reflects outwards into the relationship. Thus, the twin flame bond is symbolized by a coming together of dual forces, a unity within duality.

This means that duality, wholeness and completion are key themes with the twin flame connection.

The divine masculine and divine feminine are two aspects of one circle, and this metaphorical circle is present within each twin first and further within the relationship/ connection.

Completion can also be seen to be present because to find and merge on all levels with your twin flame is to complete an important stage in the soul’s evolutionary journey.

Mental, emotional, physical and spiritual healing must be present and have had occurred, and achieving wholeness, balance and integration within must also be achieved before the same qualities can be reflected externally to a partner.

This means that masculine and feminine energies need to be completely healed, balanced and integrated before you can “vibe” on the same level (frequency) with a partner.

Below are some key characteristics of the divine masculine and divine feminine. To show their power and significance, we have include some potential dualistic (opposing) behaviors and characteristics of the wounded masculine and wounded feminine, which are often seen in karmic or less evolved relationships.

These can also help you to understand the twin flame bond better in all of its magnificence!

Divine Masculine

• Present and aware
• Protective, caring and supporting
• Strong sense of purpose
• Capable of empathy and emotional connection
• Discerning and decisive

Wounded Masculine (Non- Twin Flame)

• Manipulative, lacking empathy and awareness
• Forceful, domineering and dominant
• Controlling and demanding
• Completely detached from divine feminine qualities
• Over- doing, over- thinking, uncontrolled and imbalanced 

Divine Feminine

• Intuitive & instinctual
• Expressive and radiant
• Compassionate and empathic
• Creative
• Adaptable, balanced and compromising

Wounded Feminine (Non- Twin Flame)

• Disconnected from feelings and emotions, repressed
• Shame, guilt- driven, and unworthy. Low self- esteem
• Weak boundaries
• Codependent, always apologizing and over- explaining
• Inflexible, stubborn, insecure and fearful of masculine qualities, or men in general. Alternatively, overly masculine and aggressive

These lists are just a rough representation of the divine masculine and feminine qualities within us all.

Telepathy and telepathic connection

Telepathy is the ability to know what someone else is thinking, feeling and operating on the inner levels of being.

It can almost be seen as an advanced form of empathy and it is something that twin flames possess. You and your twin may just know when the other is about to call, or show up at your door unannounced.

You will most likely be able to feel what they are feeling from afar, such as experiencing extreme or intense feelings the moment they do. Your telepathic connection is a psychic gift which connects you through time and space.

You may be aware that dolphins use a supersonic special radar to communicate through the ocean’s waves. You may also be aware that snakes can sense energy and subtle vibration through their tongues, or that bats use echolocation to “see” sounds.

Well, these may give you a clearer image of twin flame telepathy. In essence, these examples and many more are what twin flames can do and are capable of, and further what many experience on a day to day basis.

The power and significance of telepathy amongst twinflames should not go undervalued, as it shows just how magical and divine your connection is.

It can help you to understand the sacredness of your union and how your love transcends the perceived limitations of the human mind and 3d reality experience. Amazing stuff!

Twin flame synchronicity

Finally and to conclude this article, twin flame synchronicity is a common phenomena.

This refers to the fact that many twin flames awaken at the same time, regardless of how close or far you are, or if you have ever met! You share highly significant and essential aspects of the same timeline and earth journey.

You go through the same trials and tribulations, lessons and teachings, and you experience the highs, lows, joys and downfalls simultaneously.

It doesn’t matter if you have been in each other’s lives, as friends or acquaintances, or if you live on the other side of the planet… you and your twin share a natural harmonic resonance and natural vibration.

You are one and connected, and your synchronous awakening is usually some catalytic or harmonious event which brings you together, or at least into full alignment with your true self and the core of your soul, so you can meet later.

Want to know when you will meet your twinflame? A love psychic reading can offer you great insights into your twinflame love. You can connect with one of our online psychics via Call or Chat to one of our twin flame specialist today at Zenory.

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Soulmate Rejection: When your soulmate doesn’t honor the connection

Soulmates come in many forms. They can be a best friend, a family member, a stranger you meet in passing, a lover or an animal. The key point to be aware of is that soulmates always show up to teach us a lesson, to teach us about some aspect of ourselves or universal teaching. Soulmates are essentially reflections of us.

The soulmates we will be focusing on in this article, however, are romantic, sexual and intimate soulmates- the type of bond you may refer to as a lover, partner or boyfriend or girlfriend. These types of soulmates feel like they are your one true love, and to an extent this is true. This is because for a soulmate to be a soulmate, they would have needed to have embarked on their own journey of transformation, growth and spiritual or soulful evolution. Self- healing, meditation, metaphysical and esoteric wisdom and knowledge, awareness of our interconnectivity and connection with the universe- and planet- and a deep recognition of unconditional love being one of the most powerful vibrations and forces available to us, are all common themes inherent within a soulmate bond. In other words, you and your partner “get” each other.

Before looking into why soulmate rejection occurs, and how it can be so painful, let’s first explore the essence and archetypes of a soulmate bond and love; so you can better understand why this type of connection is so powerful and significant.

Essence & Archetypes of A Soulmate Connection

A deep bond of friendship

Soulmates have an underlying bond symbolized by friendship, mutual respect and recognition. You recognize one another and know that, to an extent, if you weren’t lovers and romantically or sexually involved, you possess the capacity for great friendship. Respect, mutual understanding and cooperation define your motivations and intentions for your relationship.

Shared spiritual or psychic gifts

Many soulmates have a deep spiritual connection. Telepathy may be common- you may know when the other is about to call or enter the room, without physical warning, and sense things beyond the norm. Your awareness of one another’s presence is deeply heightened and sharing thoughts, speech or emotions are not uncommon. There is most likely an element of reading one another’s minds too, literally possessing a psychic or clairvoyant gift to tune into your partner’s energy field and aura. It is in the aura, the electromagnetic energy field surrounding us, that thoughts, emotions, beliefs, subtle impressions, mental projections and one’s state of vibratory health (your personal vibration or frequency) can be seen. Experienced and sensed. Soulmates often have an invisible and profound bond with one another on the subtle planes of being.

Shared sense of purpose?

Many soulmates have the same interests and inner passions manifesting as a shared service or gift to humanity, the planet or some important and meaningful cause. You shine brightest when in loving or helpful service to some cause or being, and specifically when doing it with your lover. Your light and divine essence becomes activated and there is a strong desire to better yourself for both your soulmate and for the people or cause you are helping. You may choose to ground this passion, talent or gift into a profession and life path, or simply engage with it regularly as a hobby. Either way, your shared soul passion reflets outwards into the world and further strengthens your relationship.

Why doesn’t s/he honor your connection?

After reading the above you may realize just how special a true soulmate bond is. Well, with lightness comes darkness and day spirals back into night, and vice versa. Life ultimately involves duality and to put it bluntly- not everyone grows, evolves and learns on the same timeline. Your sweetie, lover or bond of soul may be your true love, and someone you can share a lifetime with, but this doesn’t mean that they are on the same journey as you.

Below is everything you need to know to help you heal and recover and step fully into your divinity and beauty once more. Please don’t think that a soulmate rejecting your love and connection is your fault, because it is not. (So long as you have done the healing and soul work, and achieved the balanced and integration of self you know to be true!)

1. Their shadow is not a reflection of yours

We all have a shadow self, those undesirable, dark, unwanted or often denied and repressed aspects of self we either first deny and reject, or secondly aim to transcend and evolve through and past. Because a soulmate connection vibrates at such as high frequency, this means that there is great capacity for vast darkness or incredible lightness. Soulmate rejection occurs when your partner has refused to accept parts of their own shadow and therefore starts to reject you as a result. Perhaps they can’t accept their beauty, brilliance and spiritual gifts or wonderful compassionate nature, so they start to reject this part of you and your soulmate connection… This stems from an ability to accept the dark and undesirable aspects of life and being, thus, because light and dark exist simultaneously, a rejection of one part of self leads to a rejection of another.

Your connection can be intense, euphoric and transcendental, and you may vibe on a level never experienced before with past “boyfriend” and “girlfriend.” A soulmate connection is more than the societal created boyfriend and girlfriend relationship experienced in youth, or before spiritually awakened and evolved; soulmate bond is intrinsically soulful- full of soul- with an essential aspect being some level of personal awakening and healing. In order to come together in a soulmate union, you and your partner must first have had to have done some self- healing, soul- searching and deep introspection, in addition to having had engaged in the healing arts, spirituality and metaphysics- things which connect you directly to your true nature. So, you are quite simply on different stages of your journey and your mirror (your reflection, your partner and soul connection) is not quite ready to accept themselves or your bond.

2. Karmic and ancestral wounds are real

Another highly important factor normally always present in soulmate rejection is the reality that being human inevitably involves suffering. We all have karmic and ancestral wounds, pains and trauma brought from childhood, past relationships, family and even past lifetimes, into adult life. Now, assuming that you are wholly ready for a soulmate connection on the highest levels, you have most likely engaged fully with your own personal journey of healing and transformation, and further come to terms with aspects of yourself and your past. This does not mean your soulmate has! This also means, as hard as it may be, you should not take it personally. Your love is still in a transitory phase with their own healing to do.

3. Your feelings are not a fantasy

 Feeling like everything you felt and experienced was a fantasy, an illusion; may start to take hold. When you bond and merge with another on all levels- spiritually, soulfully mentally, emotionally and physically- it can leave you in a state of eternal perpetual entanglement. Your souls become entwined and there is a strong recognition that you have always known each other, and always will. This can be very hard and painful to come to terms with when the connection begins to break down, as you know fully within that the love you share is real, authentic and deep- almost timeless; yet your soulmate does not. However, they do know this, on a level, it is just buried by insecurities, wounds, past pains and self- denial or repression. The biggest mistake you could make is to tell yourself that it was all a fantasy.

Don’t doubt yourself or what you know to be true; your love was and is real. All those moments of deep connection, telepathy, authentic feeling and connection, and the sense of knowing one another beyond time and space… these are still true. Acceptance and understanding combined with compassion and empathy are your keys to retaining your own truth, integrity and self- love, so you can then shine this out into your next soulmate connection; or into the current one if you should choose to wait. Fully embracing that your love was not a fantasy and that everything perceived, felt and experienced was real will allow you to continue to stay on your own frequency and wavelength, and not devolve to lower your vibration to that of your soulmate’s. This brings us onto the next point.

4. You don’t need to feel guilty for evolving higher or moving on!

This is essential. In short, the fact that your soulmate has rejected you and you are completely willing to do the self- healing and self- development work necessary to maintain and secure the bond, means that when you finally accept it is not currently meant to be, or that you are just on a different level and stage of your journey, feeling guilty is a no- no. You do not need to lower your vibration for anyone. You also don’t need to devolve or fall into karmic entrapments and entanglements. This does not mean you have to stop loving your soulmate, or stop feeling empathy for them; it is just essential that you don’t compromise your own “inner soulmate vibe” for one who is not ready nor on the same level as you. Guilt, shame or self- devolution are completely counterproductive to both your soulmate and the love you once shared- don’t you want them to rise and be the best version of themselves they can be?

Even if you are no longer together physically, your thoughts, emotions and personal frequency are very powerful. You and your soulmate are still connected throughout time and space, and your soulmate connection is still very much alive and real!

5. Give them space, let them learn their lessons, and commit to self- love…

Finally, giving them their space and allowing them time to learn their lessons is one of the best things you can do. You also should commit to self- love and do everything in your power to stay aligned with your self- worth, self- esteem and personal confidence. Being self- empowered, soulful and sovereign should not be sacrificed for anyone, especially not for someone who was unwilling to grow and journey with you. A true soulmate connection is one of the highest expressions of love on this earth plane… no- one benefits from appeasing or sacrificing this to old wounds, ancestral or karmic trauma, and the inability or unwillingness to heal and move forward in life.

Be your own soulmate!

Being your own soulmate is one of the most effective and helpful things you can do to heal and recover from soulmate rejection. Treat yourself with the loving kindness and compassion you happily give to your lucky lover. Step fully into your self- empowerment and spiritually inspired mindset and state of consciousness. Become the best version of yourself, for you. Stay committed to self- healing and harmonizing your mind, body and spirit or soulful self with daily reality. Quite simply, be your own best friend, soul-mate and lover.

You can heal from soulmate rejection and go on to live a beautiful and abundant life. In fact, there are many soulmates for us and being rejected by one (or two or three!) does not mean you will never experience the love you know yourself worthy of. Stay strong and centered and committed to your truth. Everything manifests in perfect timing.

Want to dive deeper into the soulmate connection?  Talk to one of our experienced soulmate specialists.  Through a love psychic reading and a soulmate psychic reading, our psychics are able to tap into the feelings and emotions of your soulmate.  This psychic reading will give you deeper insight into the situation you are faced with and will push you into the direction that will get you back on track and feeling positive.

You don’t have to deal or heal through this alone, our love psychics have many years of experience reading through empathic abilities, tarot readings and more.  Talk to a psychic online via phone or chat to get some immediate answers.

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Have you been Soulmate Friendzoned?

Are you in love with your soulmate but they have pushed back or become distant? We often hear from many clients that call to ask why their soulmate has become distant or why the dynamic has suddenly changed.

More times than often, because one of the soulmates is not ready, they put their soulmate into the “friends”only category.  This causing the soulmate who is ready to feel hurt, abandoned, frustrated, lost, confused, and betrayed.

There’s no way around the fact that soulmate relationships are really complex and complicated.   Soulmate connections are hard to navigate, and can often make the soulmate who is questioning themselves feel insane, or not worthy and lose self respect and self love.  

Today, we are discussing one fairly common scenario found in soulmate relationships, and this is when you are in the Soulmate Friendzone. They say love has a wide way in and a narrow way out, and, ironically, the same is true for the friendzone as well.

You may not be able to pinpoint what was exactly what took you to the friendzone, yet here you are! A witness to your soulmate’s dating life, joys and disappointments included, while they don’t seem to realize what is right in front of them. 

Of course it hurts to be in a situation in which you feel doomed to watch a parade of lovers that couldn’t be more inadequate for your soulmate, or worse, when you see how they get hurt in relationships that look highly incompatible from the outside but…

What can you do?

Well, not all is lost, but in order to make a change, there are attitudes that you can modify so that you get this situation to finally move. 

First of all, it is important to understand that soulmate relationships are not necessarily meant to end up as romantic relationships, and in fact, many don’t! Nonetheless, this doesn’t mean that you have no choice but to stay in a situation that is painful for you.  It is also important to note that most soulmate connections are here to teach us lessons. 

You should enlighten yourself and become more open to recieving the lesson by tapping into a form of meditation practice, or anything to do with self help, self awareness and self development. 

Tapping into these practices and learnings will help release alot of tension and hurt that you carry with you through this experience.  And either way, whatever the outcome is, you are stronger to reconnect or move into a better path then are currently in.  

Soulmate connections are powerful

One of the main things that you need to keep in mind is that this sort of connection goes beyond others.  As well, friendship if usually quite underrated but, when you think about it, it is quite often way more reliable than a romantic relationship.

Friendships that last for a lifetime are fairly more common than romantic relationships that last for a lifetime, so don’t underestimate a soulmate relationship in the form of friendship. 

Now, taking this into account, there is still some room for movement when it comes to the friendzone. Taking someone for granted, is poison for all relationships, soulmate or not, so here’s were your power lies.

When your soulmate gets accustomed to your unconditional presence, no matter what, they may not be appreciating you enough, and in this case is when removing yourself from the equation can trigger change.  After all, if you are pursuing romance, it makes no sense to stay for something that you are not looking for, so becoming less available and make your absence felt, can trigger different feelings in your soulmate. 

A different approach

To this is becoming available in the dating pool and let your soulmate see that you are not waiting for them and that you have a romantic life of your own. Knowing that you will be always there, just in case, doesn’t really incite any sort of rush on your soulmate’s end to make a decision, and allows them to continue dating and experimenting, because you will be there at any given point. At this point in the situation, some jealousy could come in really handy!

Also, while love is something else, infatuation is a chemical reaction that can be triggered. Physical touch is your ally in this situation, though be careful to not cross the line and become overly handsy! Touch your soulmate’s forearm, make prolonged eye-contact, hug tight and take advantage of every opportunity that you have to show physical affection in a friendly way.

Activities that increase adrenaline are also incredibly powerful to release serotonine, the hormone of happiness, which triggers feelings of infatuation, so next time you meet up, it could be interesting to do something a little more daring that could be the key to get you two closer.

If none of this works, there are three different options from this point on. First, you may need to face the possibility that your soulmate relationship perhaps is not meant to become romantic, and in this case, you may want to consult an expert on the matter to help you figure it out and give you some guidance about how to move forward. 

A different option is actively working with your feelings so that they match the situation and the friendship doesn’t become frustrating. A thought that helps with this is that your feelings are your own and don’t need reciprocation.

The third one can be tough but healthy in the long way, and it is reminding that even if they are your soulmate, it doesn’t mean that you are obliged to stay in a situation that hurts you, and if the thought of staying friends with someone for whom you have romantic feelings hurts to much, you have the perfect right to remove yourself from it and move on. 

Having a romantic relationship with your soulmate doesn’t necessarily mean the ultimate emotional satisfaction, and you can have a happy romance with a different soulmate or with someone who is not your soulmate at all. 

If you would like to know more about your soulmate relationship or if you are struggling with the soulmate friend zoned category, talk to one of our love psychics today through a chat or phone psychic reading online.

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Is there a soulmate connection in this relationship?

For the duration of your life, you will connect with many people on different levels.  These  connections can vary in intensity as well as in purpose, and sometimes, it is easy to misinterpret a connection as a Soulmate. 

For those that may not have experienced a soulmate relationship or a soulmate connection, the soulmate connection is something you can feel instantly.  It is a powerful connection that you feel with someone like you have never felt before. 

You may feel that you have known or met this person before, perhaps in a past life. 

Knowing the Soulmate Connection

When you meet your soulmate you will know exactly the intensity the relationship brings by the way you feel with this person.  Soulmate connections can be our greatest teachings, and some soulmate connections can cause a lot of pain and hurt.

This especially happens when and if one of the soulmates  doesn’t honour the soulmate connection, often because they aren’t ready for the intensity that a soulmate connection may bring to the relationship. 

You may find that the soulmate connection is too intense that the partner soulmate often does a runner.  

Soulmate Purpose

While Soulmates don’t necessarily need to end up becoming romantic partners, soulmate relationships bring about  a purpose, which is meant to bring growth, development and learning into your life. 

As well, it is important to remember that while the Universe or however you call a higher force, aids in making two Souls meet, it is up to them to go ahead with said connection or not.

They can be meant to appear in your life, but that doesn’t mean they will remain in your life.  

There are a number of reasons why, even if it is a Soulmate connection, things won’t go as expected.

It is possible that they are not ready spiritually, emotionally or even physically able to experience this connection.  There may possibly be another soulmate connection that they have chosen to honour and commit to. 

Regardless of the case, in order to work, a Soulmate connection needs to have two willing partners to thrive.   

Need soulmate guidance and insight?  Talk to a live online psychic at Zenory.

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Do Soulmates Separate And Reunite?

The Soulmate experience is always challenging, and there are lots of myths associated with this kind of connection.

There’s a very widespread misunderstanding that Soulmate relationships are meant to be and that, regardless of the circumstance, the two Soulmates will find a way to be together and live happily ever after but that is not always true.

While Soulmate relationships share a deep connection and intensity and you may feel like you can’t live without your soulmate, it doesn’t mean that they are meant to be.

Do soulmates always re-unite?

A Soulmate will enter your life when the time is right, but they may not necessarily stay.  There are different reasons for soulmate separations.  One of the most common is bad timing.  When one of the soulmates involved, or even both soulmates, are not in the right place to enter this relationship.

In other cases, there are chances for a posterior reunion and some cases there won’t be.   It is true as well that sometimes, the intensity of the soulmate connection is just too intense and one of the soulmates feels overwhelmed, returning later – or not – to the soulmate connection at all.

It is important to remember that we are here to live the human experience, and often, the ego is in control of the decision making.

A Soulmate can often sometimes be abusive or un-deserving of our commitment, and in this case, separating from your soulmate is the best thing that you can do for yourself, and your soulmate.

Doing this may actually increase your changes of the reunite, the space can bring more clarity and give the soulmate a chance to miss you.

Another reason for separation one of the Soulmates may not be interested in the sort of intense connection or relationship, or they may have chose or feel comfortable to stay single, in which case, the soulmate separation is also a strong possibility.

It is vital to remember that the whole point of the Soulmate journey is focused on our own individual growth and not necessarily the pursuit of a romantic relationship.

If you have to go through the soulmate separation of your Soulmate, final or not, keep in mind that you can still find blissful joy and happiness in another relationship and that you are worthy of someone who wants to be with you as much as you want to be with them.

If your looking to gain more insights into your soulmate or understand the intensity of the soulmate connection, it maybe helpful to consider a soulmate psychic reading with a online psychic at Zenory.

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What if your Soulmate is already married?

When your soulmate is married you might be asking how did you fall for a married man or women?

Can a married man be your soulmate?

If your soulmate married to someone else? What should you do?

If you have found yourself in this situation where your soulmate is married to someone else, you will be feeling like the world is about to end.

The soulmate connection is felt by both of you and the meeting between you both had you both feeling the intensity of the soulmate connection, but none of you had any idea or intention to fall into this situation, but it happens.

If this is what you are going through at the moment know that your not on your own.

You maybe asking yourself how you came to this situation, and why the universe has brought you to this intense soulmate connection.

You may also be wondering if there is going to be a chance that your soulmate will leave their marriage.

Truthfully the answer is no, or not anytime soon.

This can be one of the most difficult situations a soulmate will ever encounter when your soulmate is married to someone else.

What is a soulmate relationship?

If there’s a word that defines soulmate relationships it is definitely “complex”. 

Soulmate connections are not easy, and they weren’t meant to be easy.  Soulmates are meant to challenge us on a deeper level, which is why when things are great for soulmate connections, things are on cloud nine. 

However when things go south, your world feels like its about to end. 

Soulmate connections as said, they can often be painful, specially when you have set your mind – and your heart – on a particular outcome.

Assumptions and expectations don’t sit well with soulmate relationships.

Assuming that a soulmate relationship will end in a “happily ever after” is sometimes a recipe for heartbreak and disaster. 

There is a number of different reasons why a soulmate connection may not end in a romantic relationship.

Soulmate is taken

There isn’t much you can do in this case.  And if you are asking if your soulmate will leave the marriage for you, it is highly unlikely.  If you want to stay in your power, this should be dealt from your higher source.

When you leave this situation to the higher source or high powers you stay in your power and in control and allow this to unfold at the right time.

Will your soulmate walk away from the marriage?

Let’s consider your soulmate maybe perfectly happy and fulfilled in a relationship with someone other than a soulmate.  Sometimes, the person will prioritise their marriage over the soulmate connection, even if they are unhappy, they may take months, or even years to walk away from a marriage.  

If this is the case, remember that your feelings are yours, nobody can take them away, and that you are free to love without an attachment, without expecting an outcome.

Other times though, the marriage will be a milestone in this person’s life, and it could be preparing them to enter a relationship with you that your soulmate wasn’t ready for before.

Regardless of what is the case, the truth is that when your soulmate is married to someone else, you need to give up control and accept that it is a situation that is not in your hands to resolve.

For this reason, it is important that you remember to live your own life and let time make things fall into place.

Release control and surrender the soulmate connection, trusting that it will be for your highest good either way.

The major lesson here has most of the time to do with the acceptance of the decisions that others make and has the purpose to show you a hint of what unconditional love truly means.

If you want to delve deeper into the soulmate connection and what this means for you moving forward, talk to one of our soulmate psychics at Zenory via phone or online chat reading.

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What To Do When Your Soulmate Isn’t Ready For You?

Soulmate relationships are almost invariably complicated at best. The worst part and feeling is when your soulmate isn’t ready for you, this can suck a really big one.

And there are times in which, no matter how strong the soulmate connection we feel is, the person on the other end is just not ready. This is, for sure, an extremely frustrating situation.

Your soulmate connection is so strong and so real that you cannot fathom how the other person seems to be oblivious to it, and it gets really hard to let go of trying to control the situation.

It is never easy to go through this process, but it can help if you see it as an opportunity.   

Soulmate Lesson

One of the main lessons we get through a soulmate relationship that quite often goes ignored is that they are not meant to merely satisfy you emotionally, but to push you to grow, and growth is quite often difficult.

It is as well crucial to remember that even though you share a made-above connection, you are still individuals on your own seperate journey, and you only have control over your own experience.

For these reasons, the best thing to do when your soulmate isn’t ready for you, is to shift the focus from trying to change their perception, to your own experience and personal development.

If your soulmate is not ready for you, there is a misalignment, but it will not resolve until you work out your own issues. Your soulmate connection cannot be severed, so you need to let go of the urge to keep the relationship going at all costs and embrace divine timing, along with touching base with your own spirit.

Soulmate journeys will always bring change, development and progress.

When your soulmate isn’t ready, your best shot is to continue this journey in faith and strength, leading the way and trusting the process.

Talk to a soulmate psychic

Still need some clarity around your soulmate readiness? 

Touch base with a soulmate psychic.   A soulmate psychic reading can help you reach that elation by pointing you in the right direction. It can also be used to find clarity in your current soulmate relationship and the feelings and intention from your soulmate.

Soulmate psychics can connect with the energy between you and your soulmate to identify the soul connection that the both of you share.

Through a soulmate reading you will gain the clarity and insight behind the deeper connection and gain the power to move you forward and out of the rut.

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Let go of love – “if you let someone go, they will come back if that’s your destiny”

Let go of love and It will return stronger than ever

Let go of love and it will return stronger then ever.  The people who are meant to be in your life will always gravitate back to you no matter what.  Those who leave and return were never meant to leave – it is true that you must let go of that love to understand its strength.

Forceful love

A better interpretation of this is that you cannot force someone to love you. Letting go doesn’t mean that you stop caring for someone.  It can mean you are releasing the force that you could be placing upon them.

Sometimes you just don’t realize now much pressure you put on others through too much love.  Try to let go of love.

Why you cannot let go of love?

Sometimes we struggle to let go of love. Quite often it is because deep down we don’t want to feel that the other has lost his or her love for you.  Holding on to pain can cause have huge ramifications on close family members as they find it difficult to help their loved one work through it.

Memories of the past like places where you and your loved one used to go, eat, play and socialize make pain more regular.

Social media such as facebook can escalate pain browsing photo’s and posts that trigger memories.

The more and more you view these reminders the harder it is causing and an upward battle seems so hard to remove yourself from.  Zenory’s Psychic Readers can help you through if you are finding it a real struggle to let go of love.  Talk to one of our love psychics today for an online psychic chat or phone reading.

No matter how much you pain is suffered, some day you will look back and realise that your struggles to letting go were all worth the while

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Soulmate Signs: 10 Signs You’ve Found Your Soulmate

Soulmate signs are sometimes hard to identify if you have not encountered a soulmate relationship.

Soulmates don’t just have to be in a form of a romantic relationship.   We can find a soulmate in a best friend, a pet, an aunty, uncle, you name it.  In fact, we have many soulmates.   When you come to meet your soulmate, there is something special that draw the two of you together.  Connection is instant, like you’ve never felt the type of connection with anyone else.

Below are a list of 10 soulmate signs that will tell you if you have found your soulmate or not.

Is Your Soulmate The Real Deal?

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To let go of your soulmate – “Quote: Eventually soul-mates meet, for they have the same hiding place.”

 Soulmate relationships are tough and to let go of your soulmate is especially hard.  When you love someone you want to be with, and for no reason you just don’t understand or agree with, they end it.  The longer you have been in the soulmate relationship, the more difficult it is to let go of your soulmate.

When soulmate relationships are formed, to let go of your soulmate can be devastating.  When you love and care for a soulmate beyond this physical realm, the intense and deep feeling to hold onto the connection can be destroying for the other soulmate.

A lot of people seem to believe that soulmate relationships are destined to last forever.  Just because someone is your soulmate, it doesn’t mean the relationship journey will be easy.  In actual fact, soulmate relationships require more work than any relationship. More than anything, soulmate relationships are meant to teach us lessons.

There is a common myth that most people think that soul mates cannot be broken and there is no reason for a soulmate relationship to end because of this strong connection between the two.

In this article, we have identified 15 reasons to help you let go of your soulmate.

1: Soulmate Runner – to let go of your soulmate

When your soulmate does a runner, don’t chase them.  Chasing them will only lead them to withdraw further, and delay the return time.

When you let them go, you give them the chance to think more, and create the space to miss you.

Giving them space and breaking the soulmate connection doesn’t mean that they won’t return.

In order for the soulmate relationship to grow, allowing good space will only help the healing process.  Once the two of you are both in a clear space and willing to engage in a relationship again, divine timing will bring the two of you back together again.

Meanwhile, you should look at ways to rebuild and empower yourself – take on activities that help you heal and grow as a person, things such as personal development courses, empowerment books, taking on some yoga classes, develop the mind and start taking care of yourself.

Still struggling? Seek guidance from a love psychic or soulmate psychic reader who can guide you through this process.  A love psychic can see what the future holds between you and your soulmate.  Seeking soulmate  guidance through a psychic reading online or soulmate tarot reading online can often bring more peace and understanding into the current situation and help clear up any confusion you may have.

2: The On and Off Soulmate Relationships

Does your soulmate come and go? On and off soulmate relationships are doomed and destined to fail.

When the relationship with your soulmate is on and off, this is a clear sign that you may need to let them go for now.  A relationship won’t work in the long run when you are trying to make one with in those conditions.

No one wants to be in an on and off relationship and if your soulmate wants to be in this relationship, it is time for you to end it.

3: Soulmate Trust Issues

Having trust issues can cause a lot of caos when your with a significant other.  Once the trust has been lost, it takes a lot of time to repair and for the trust to be regained.

Reinstating trust has to be done through action and not words.  If your soulmate wants to regain the trust back in your relationship, you should do this through action and not words.  Make sure that your soulmate is aware of this intention.

However if actions are not working out, it maybe time to let go.  As stated, soulmate miss trust can take a lot of time, so if your soulmate is willing to try to regain the faith, go for it.  If it becomes an issue and causes drama, it maybe time to let go.

Before you decide which way to go, you might want to also seek clarification from our soulmate psychics who can make it a more easier process to guide you through it.

4: Soulmate Jealousy

Does your soulmate get jealous when you hang out with your friends? Or when you choose to see your family for dinner?  Does your soulmate complain that you never make time for them, when you just about have time for them every other hour?

Jealousy is fear.  It doesn’t matter what kind of relationship you are in.  Family, friends, Coworkers, etc it all comes down to fear.

A fear of loss, losing your soulmate.  When your soulmate is jealous, it can be hard situation to control, like anything, just because your in a soulmate relationship doesn’t mean you have to bend down low to meet their standards.  Your soulmate needs to make changes to make the relationship better. Sometimes these things may make you want to let go of your soulmate.

5: Soulmate Love Triangles

If your soulmate relationship is caught up in a love triangle, it maybe a sign to end it.  No relationship is destined to work out in the long run when there is a third person in the equation.

No one wants a relationship with a third wheel and if you are currently in one, it maybe time to end it.

Soulmate love triangles can often start out as fun, but as feelings start to grow, someone is bound to end up hurt.

6: Soulmate Holding Onto An Ex

If your soulmate is still holding on to an ex lover, or previous partner, it maybe a sign you need to let go of your soulmate for now to allow your soulmate time to run the relationship to its cause.

The soulmate connection should enable you to leave a bad situation, however sometimes in most cases it works the other way around and often leaves us in bad situations.  It can be difficult to let go your soulmate. This is not a good way to honour your soulmate connection. When it comes down to it, you will be forced to put a stop to it to enable the other relationship to run its course.  Some soul-mates feel the pain of rejection when they are in this situation.

7: Soulmate Puts You Last

Does your soulmate treat you like an option? Do you feel alone in the relationship?  Does your soulmate care if they disappoint you?

Often they don’t if you are not a priority.  Deep down, we often know the relationship is over when you are feeling lonely and like you have already been dumped, but this is a valid sign of where you are on the list of what matters. Sometimes you may feel like you want to let go of your soulmate. This should be a clear call to end the soulmate relationship. When you put yourself first, you will not settle for any of this kind of behaviour.

8: Soulmate Narcissist

Narcissist behaviour can be hard to see or tell when you are fully invested in the soulmate relationship, especially with a connection so deep.  When your in a relationship with a narcissist they can use variety of emotional manipulation tactics to hook you and re-hook, and then string you along.

Narcissist can be hard to live with, they can destroy your confidence and make you feel worthless.  It is important to understand that a lot of narcissist behaviour stems from low self esteem, and is often pointed out to be a mental disorder.

To let go of your soulmate who is narcissist isn’t easy, and the soulmate relationship is likely to leave a serious dent to your self-esteem.  However, you need to not accept this kind of manipulating behaviour, and firstly recognise that the relationship needs to end right quickly.

Turning this around has to start with an end to the behaviour, and sometimes means to let go of your soulmate, letting go of the relationship completely in order for the soulmate to learn the hard lesson.  Soulmate relationships are already hard, but one with a narcissist can be worse. :

9: Soulmate Relationship Rejection

Rejection from a soulmate can really hurt, and if we allow our ego to deal with the situation we can whined up losing the soulmate completely.  Rejection doesn’t come down to who you are as a person, and only reflects the soulmate who is doing the rejection. So it is important to under the rejection that takes place.

One of the very reasons soulmate rejection occurs is because of the overwhelming flood of emotions that come with encountering ones soulmate.  You are never really prepared for a soulmate relationship and hence why when you are single it is important to prepare and use the time to prepare.

10: Soulmate Sabotage – to let go of your soulmate?

If your soulmate likes to sabotage your relationship all the time, by picking up fights with you for no reason every time, it maybe time to walk away and to let go of your soulmate.

Creating the space between the both of you may give your soulmate the wake up call that is needed.  Allowing space can often help bring the soulmate to their senses, and when they are ready to be an adult, the relationship will be at a better place to rekindle.

11: Soulmate Toxic Relationship

If your soulmate shows raw signs of toxic relationships with their friends or family, this is a total red flag, and you need to let them go.

If your soulmate is allowing this kind of toxic relationship into their environment, it is sure to enter into your relationship, and is best to step down until the relationship with their family and friends has gained some control.

12: The Soulmate Commitment

If your soulmate is struggling to commit or give the relationship with you a fair go, it maybe time to let go.  Your soulmate may possibly be seeing someone else, or could be holding back because they want to keep an open relationship.

Either way, this won’t allow you the time to build a solid relationship.  If you are allowing or enabling your soulmate to do this, it is time to cut it.  Your soulmate may only be doing it to take advantage of your good intentions.

13: The Soulmate Manipulation

There are multiple signs to spot soulmate manipulation, however when it comes to soul mates being manipulated whilst in the relationship, due to the strong connection we often let it slide.   This is not a way to accept behaviour from a soulmate and needs to end.

When you hear the words: “Well if you really loved me.” This is one of the worst and most common forms of soulmate or relationship manipulation.  The manipulation works to make you prove to your soulmate over and over again by giving them what they want.  Bow out.

This kind of relationship is not something that can be sustained and needs to be cut.  Allow time away, in order for you soulmate to come to this realisation. Either way, something has to change with this dynamic.

14: The Soulmate Closed Off Emotion

If your soulmate is always closed off, and doesn’t want to open up their emotions, then it maybe a good time to end it.  This can often lead to signs that the soulmate is using you for a booty call, or friends with benefits.

You may have a gut feeling that your soulmate feels the same way about you, but are too scared to face their true feelings.  This is a sign that you need to end it with them, until they are ready to admit their true feelings.

15: The Soulmate Dead End Relationship

A lot of people seem to believe that soul mates are destined to last forever.  Just because someone is your soulmate, it doesn’t mean the relationship journey will be easy or in fact last forever.  Again, soulmate relationships require more work then any other relationship and most often don’t last because of the work that is required.  When they realise this the soulmate relationship wears itself out and becomes dead end.  Coming to this realising can be difficult, and make you feel miserable.

So how can you tell if your soulmate relationship is at a dead end?

• You may find that you try to fix one problem, and another problem will arise.
• You met your soulmate, but timing has made it difficult to bring the two of you together because your both holding onto other relationships
• Break up after break up and on and off relationships are a sure sign.  Always getting back together and ending the soulmate relationship
• Your soulmate may not be ready emotionally
• Your soulmate cheated, and therefore the trust has broken between the two of you, and can never be repaired
• Your soulmate puts you last
• Your soulmate won’t make any effort

Conclusion

To let go of your soulmate can be tough ride to go through on your own, reach out to a love psychic or soulmate specialist who can give you the guidance you need to proceed forward with peace and confidence.  A Psychic reading online is also available at the click of a button via phone reading or chat.   Seeking answers through a tarot reading can give you insights into how you can conquer life in its troubling times.

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